It seems to be a woman's nature and a wife's patent to nag. Listening to her nagging has become a compulsory course every day. If you don't hear her nagging one day, your life seems to be abnormal, and you always feel that something is still missing. Your homework seems to be unfinished, things have not been done well, and you are short of an important link, and you can't sleep steadily.
if you think men are a little mean, then I have nothing to say. A generous man, a dedicated man, a man with a little patience, should be able to be tolerant for the sake of family unity and harmony and social security and stability. "A big belly can accommodate things that can be accommodated in the world; Laugh at the past and laugh at the ridiculous people in the world. " How straightforward it is, it also goes to my heart.
The traditional men in China all seem to be a little henpecked, and they all suffer from wife vasculitis. It seems that the words of women at home are imperial edicts, and the nagging of women is a sobering agent, a good medicine and an indispensable thing in the family. If a man does not obey, it is easy to induce family conflicts and trigger a new round of family disputes. Moreover, if a family lacks a woman, it is also an incomplete family, so since a man marries a woman and goes home, he must consciously have the obligation to bear her nagging.
how many men are really afraid of their wives! It's just to let them go. My hero doesn't fight with women to avoid unnecessary troubles, reduce family wars and avoid family wars. It's also to calm his wife's anger for a while. After all, everything is happy at home! After all, take a step back and be calm for a while!
In fact, men also know that women love to nag. It's just that their in our nature has a genetic component, and there is also a part that is increased by life. The wife's nagging may really be related to her mother-in-law, because since I met her, I have often heard her mother-in-law nagging her father-in-law, and her father-in-law is really good-tempered, good man, and never competes with her mother-in-law. I also learn and use it, and now I learn and sell it. Therefore, whenever my wife nags, I don't say a word and turn around and leave, leaving my wife to talk to herself. The audience that the speaker didn't have lost the market, and her nagging naturally decreased a lot.
Cold treatment, not talking back and not speaking are principles and powerful weapons to deal with wife's nagging. If you love her, you can tolerate her shortcomings and her nagging. Leo Tolstoy famously said: Happy families are the same, and each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way. I think there must be something in it that can stand his wife's nagging. Otherwise, a generation of writers, how can send such feelings!
I just got back from shopping yesterday, and I still put the food on the first floor of the refrigerator. I just walked into the living room, and the nagging voice followed. "She won't let me put the food on the top of the refrigerator" has never occurred to me, and it is inevitable to be nagged. Often, my left ear listens, and my right ear goes out. I don't think about it at all. What should I do? What should my wife do? She goes. I still go my own way. What should I do or what should I do? My nephew plays lanterns-as usual (uncle).
I often think that if everything is put in a person's mind, it will not be a garbage can. I don't want to do that, so I will inevitably be nagged by my wife. I remember when I was studying in the Army Academy in 21, one of our political work professors never pretended his wife's nagging in his mind because he was absorbed in studying Marxist theory. When he gave us a lecture, he said, "Everything at home is taken care of by my wife. My wife's words are the imperial edict, and I never argue with her. My wife's nagging tells her, and I will do mine. Otherwise, how can I produce so many teaching and research results? A man who can accept his wife's nagging is not weak, but strong; It is not weakness, but the heart has other thoughts, there are more important tasks to be completed, and you can't be distracted. " It was precisely because of his persistence, generosity and research drive that he was later transferred to the National Defense University as a professor. Can you say that women's nagging is not the driving force for his life and his ideals? !
It is not necessarily a bad thing for a man to have a nagging wife at home. The key is that a man should be self-motivated and enterprising. A successful man should also get a place in the hall and a place in the kitchen. If you get into the hall, you can't get out of the kitchen. At least you should have a successful career, a position and popularity in the unit, and be able to make some achievements, so that women can admire you from the bottom of their hearts. If a man is worthless, a woman will look down on him, which is the key to the problem.
There is a good wife in the family who loves to nag. As a man, you should be patient. If you also get angry, it is better to deal with it in the cold. It is not advisable to add fuel to the fire. Family conflicts should not be escalated. Only a peaceful family can last for a long time and a happy life will last forever.