2. Many things in buddha said life can't be met. You can't get them if you try to force them. What you can't get often comes unexpectedly. Therefore, we should have a carefree heart, and let everything go with the flow, without resentment, impatience, excessiveness, compulsion, pessimism, rigidity, confusion, ecstasy, joy in things and sorrow for ourselves. 3, taste all the tastes in the world, or light and beautiful; I have seen the prosperity of life, but it is still plain and true. Life can be complicated or simple, and the key lies in what kind of mentality we use to look at it. Plain is not terrible, what is terrible is wearing a mask and living in an illusory dream. 4. In life, if you have a heart, you will be more free and easy; Normal mind, you will be more calm! In dealing with people, with compassion, you will be more kind; With a grateful heart, you will be happier! In doing things, you will be more sensible if you have a causal heart; You will be happier if you have one who is not greedy! In life, if you have a tolerant heart, you will be more suitable; With a pure heart, you will be purer! 5. The departure of leaves is not the pursuit of wind, nor the retention of trees, but the arrangement of fate and natural selection; What should come will always come, and what should go will always go. Sometimes leaving doesn't mean ending, but? Another kind of start! 6, urgent, speak slowly; Major events: think clearly; Small things, humor; Don't say what you can't do; Other people's business: caution; Do your own thing, frankly; What should be done, do well; The future, and then say; Happy things, depending on the occasion; Don't tell everyone about the sad things; Hate things, don't tell people things; Don't talk nonsense about things that don't exist; Hurt people, stop it. 7. Indifference is a kind of calmness in life, facing the gains and losses of life calmly; Indifference is a sudden change in life, which suddenly treats the advance and retreat of life; Indifference is a treasure of life, cherish you and never set your goals too high in front of you. Indifference can make you really enjoy life, experience happiness in your efforts and enrich yourself in indifference. Happy are indifferent people. 8. Sometimes, we live very tired, not because life is too mean, but because we are too easily infected by the external atmosphere and influenced by other people's emotions. Walking in the crowd, we always feel that there are countless pairs of eyes sweeping our hearts and lungs, and there are many rumors, which eventually confuse our minds and gradually bind us in a mess we weave. In fact, living is for yourself, and not many people can put you in their hearts. 9. Affordability is a responsibility; Letting go is free and easy. Life is not to pick up or put down, but to take away and let go. The choice of picking up and putting down is the direction of fate. Everything is cause and effect, Buddha said, you can't say it, and it is wrong to say it. No matter right or wrong, stubbornly carrying is a kind of responsibility, and letting go is a kind of free and easy. 10, don't be demanding in everything, come as you come; Don't care about anything, just pass it; Don't frown when you are in trouble, smile when you should; Don't force the result, just do it; Life is simple. When you are calm, you will be calm. Don't refuse to be busy, because it is a kind of enrichment; Don't complain about setbacks, because it is a kind of strength; Don't choose silence, because this is your greatest charm! 1 1. In front of some people, the closer you want to get, the more you care, which will ignite his arrogance and indifference, and the less valuable you are; In the face of some things, the more you want to solve it, the more urgent it is, which will often backfire and the worse the result will be. Don't give up what belongs to you or what you can get, and don't let too many regrets and regrets in your memory; Don't blindly pursue things that have nothing to do with yourself, and don't lose your confidence and dignity at will. 12, the hardest thing in the world is love, the hardest thing in the world is ruthlessness, the hardest thing in the world is human feelings, the hardest thing in the world is affection, the hardest thing in the world is friendship, the hardest thing in the world is affection, the hardest thing in the world is true feelings, the hardest thing to guess in the world is mood, the hardest thing to repay in the world is kindness, and the most painful thing in the world is narcissism. 13, the more you can't put it down, the easier it is to lose it; The more you try to catch it, the faster it will disappear. What you want more often doesn't belong to you; The more you try to grasp, the more you often lose. The more you value it, the less you can get it; The more you care, the more you can't catch it. Most of the things you want are not with you. Life is always in a constant cycle of gains and losses, and enjoying it is an attitude towards life. Only by letting go can we grasp the present. 14, dreams and opportunities will cover you; With hope, happiness will come to you; Stick to it and happiness will always be with you; Sincerely, peace will follow you; Be grateful, and noble people will favor you; If you have good thoughts, the sun will shine on you; If you are beautiful, warmth will surround you; With great love, sublimity will follow you; Be considerate of others and the true feelings will return to you. 15 What is happiness? Happiness is when you fall in love with someone, and that person happens to love you. Happiness is when someone pours you a cup of tea when you are thirsty. Happiness means having a playmate when you want to travel, a companion when you want to work and a companion when you want to cry. In fact, happiness does not need luxury and luxury. Sometimes the more you want, the harder it is to be happy. Little people, small desires and small gratifications are great happiness. 16, life is impermanent, with pride, frustration, pride and countercurrent, which can be described as bittersweet and bittersweet. Only when you have tasted bitterness can you know the taste of sweetness; Only after suffering do we know the beauty of strength. If you are depressed, breathe in a different environment; Confused, then think from another angle; If there is no road, you might as well turn back. The road is at your feet and you can go in any direction. As long as you are not impulsive, don't give up and don't worry, in fact, the sky is blue and the road is wide. 17, forgiving others is not only a virtue, but also wisdom. Tolerance and forgiveness of others' mistakes will show their tolerance and charm, and will make everyone more willing to approach us and cooperate with us. Giving others a way out and letting others go will make things satisfactorily solved, and will also make others respect us and create good conditions for meeting or cooperating in the future.
18, there are two realms in life: one is silent pain, and the other is silent laughter. Wordless pain is a kind of wisdom. When people are alive, they often feel heartbroken because of one kind of injury or another. For strong people, scars are the best gift given by life; Laughing without saying a word is an open-mindedness, a playful abuse among friends, and helplessness after being misunderstood. Excessive verbal defense makes people feel flashy. It is better to leave a smile and let others comment. 19, there is a mentality called letting go; There is a realm called willingness; There is a kind of happiness called waiting; There is a kind of wisdom called keeping a low profile; There is a choice called giving up; There is an understanding called confusion; There is a mentality called tolerance; There is a kind of happiness called simplicity; There is a virtue called smile; There is a kind of happiness called cherish; There is a beauty called self-confidence; There is a touch called sharing; There is a true feeling called caring; There is a kind of warmth called gratitude; There is a kind of success called persistence. 20. What matters in life is experience. Bitter or happy, let bygones be bygones. Recalling the past will only increase sadness. When you hide your face and sigh, time passes and happiness slips through your fingers. There is no injustice in the world, only an unjust heart. Don't complain, don't hate, don't care about everything, and the past is like smoke. Cherish the existing life, happiness is around you. 2 1, Buddha said:? Everything in the world is destiny takes a hand, so let it go with the wind! ? The so-called:? An old pioneer lost his horse-a blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise. ? There are many things in the world that we can't force. If everything goes with the flow, there will be much less trouble, but will we get it? Another village? Surprise. So, do what you have to do. If you have tried your best, everything else will go with the flow, and everything will go with the flow. 22, life should not be too full, life should not be designed to be too crowded. No matter what you do, you should leave some space for yourself, so that you can turn around calmly. Leave some benefits for others, leave some way for others to walk, and leave some time for yourself to think. Remember to leave room for life at all times, and don't be aggressive, decadent, nervous, lax, extreme and persistent. Not complacent when you get it, not depressed when you lose it, and calm between gains and losses. 23, troubles exist every day, don't pick nature. Life's ups and downs, mental journey, should come, should go, calmly welcome and send off, come and go, a past. There is a saying in Zen Buddhism: Never forget people's kindness, ignore people's grievances, think more about people's mistakes, and don't miss others. Nothing in the world is difficult for one who sets his mind to it. He who has no career in his heart is a free man. 24. Gains and losses are like clouds, and the wind blows away in the blink of an eye. After a hundred years of life, it becomes empty in an instant. Life does not bring, death does not bring. All encounters, joys and sorrows, are determined by the heart. If you can see through and let go, everything will be like a flower in the mirror and a moon in the water. Although pleasing to the eye, it is not eternal. It is better to be happy, don't let yourself spend it in sadness, and don't let yourself wander around. Starting and ending in fate, life is based on happiness, and life is actually a state of mind. 25, life is alive, living is a heart, the heart is wide, it can be accommodated, and the heart is narrow, it can't be a needle. I have tasted all the flavors in the world, but it is still faint and the most beautiful. Looking at the prosperity of the world, it is still plain and true. 26. People who make you feel heavy and things that make you depressed always tear at your memory when you come, hold you back when you leave, and make you feel that life is so annoying, bitter and tired. If you miss it, let it go completely. I believe that if you miss it, there will be reincarnation; If your heart is broken, forget it completely, and the scar will become clearer in your touch. Life is like a tree. Only by deleting countless regrets and branches of regret can we have our own sky. 27, learn to be indifferent, don't let your heart rise and fall with gains and losses, is life real? Have to? , is to get a calm, a calm, a calm, a can be broken, is the inner peace and harmony. Only by letting go of the entanglement of the world's troubles can we find the breadth of the world. 28. Close your eyes and count your gains and losses. What are your gains and losses from birth to death? A pair of shoes, a dress, a job, some compliments, relatives, friends, and even life, what is there that is not lost? Like, sentimentally attached things are like this, so are things that hate and fear: all kinds of accusations, insults, slanders, hardships and pressures that make life feel heavy come and go like clouds that cover the moon. 29, life needs to standardize and hone our life beliefs, see the lotus net, the heart is not stained with dust, the head is green, and the head is running water. Life always goes through the west wind, the pain of resentment and hatred, and you have to bend over when you go up the mountain, so that you can learn from others. The happiness of life is based on your belief in life, so you don't have to be outstanding, but you must make a contribution. 30. It's better to miss each other than to meet each other, and it's better to climb by fate. Life is just a journey, you pass by me, I pass by you, and then, practice separately and move on. Follow the fate, and it will be smooth. When you want nothing, you will have everything. There is no good or bad thing in itself. Good or bad is our own persistence. Follow the fate to be smooth, and let go to get it.