If you compare yourself to flowers and plants, the first thing you need to do is to constantly absorb nutrients, survive the cold winter and weather. Only when festivals bloom in spring will you attract the attention of bees and butterflies.
If you always appreciate others, please others and criticize yourself, you will always trim yourself into what others like after all kinds of temptations and setbacks. Is this what you want in your heart?
Everyone is an independent individual in the world, unique and irreplaceable. So why not live the life you want? It is better to enrich yourself than to please others.
Keep reading and enrich your mind.
The book has its own golden house, and the book has its own Yan Ruyu. Influenced by the precious wealth left by the sages in the book, you can improve your cultural accomplishment and taste and become knowledgeable.
Reading can make your boring mood happy, make your confused and melancholy heart calm, and let you discover more beautiful things.
Song Meiling is a famous politician and diplomat. He has been studying and enriching himself all his life. She is well-read, familiar with Chinese and Western languages, proficient in six languages, proficient in piano playing, good at writing and profound in Chinese painting. She influenced the world with her rich and wonderful experiences. She was the first China speaker in the US Congress.
Former US Secretary of State Henry Kissinger once commented on Song Meiling: "Gone with the wind has influenced the world with extraordinary female feelings."
It can be seen that the elegance and charm brought by reading are lifelong. Reading is the art of life.
Travel more and broaden your horizons.
Every time I travel, the scenery I see is different from the people I meet. Travel can broaden your horizons, let you see a different world and change your mentality.
Because of traveling around, the poet Du Fu wrote: "When you climb to the top of the mountain, you will know that other mountains are short in the sky." .
Because of traveling around the world, the poet Li Bai wrote a well-known poem: "Flying down to thousands of feet, it is suspected that the Milky Way has set for nine days."
Because he traveled to famous mountains and rivers, Xu Xiake wrote "Xu Xiake's Travels", which was handed down to later generations.
Li Shizhen traveled through countless mountains and forests, tasted all kinds of herbs, and wrote a masterpiece of human medicine, Compendium of Materia Medica.
Whether relaxing or exploring, every trip will become a lingering memory in your life. The people and things you meet and the scenery you see will broaden your horizons and enrich your life.
Constantly reflect and enrich your heart.
Wang Yangming, the most famous philosopher and thinker in China in the Ming Dynasty, advocated that "seeing the sage Si Qi is not harsh on others, but strict with autonomy." It means that when you see a virtuous and talented person, you should think about learning from him. When you see a person without virtue, you should reflect on whether you have made the same mistake. In this way, we will not blame others too much, but be strict with ourselves.
Reflection can find your own shortcomings and constantly correct them; Reflection can understand the essence of what happened and wake up from the wrong understanding; Reflection can make you stand up again after failure and move on. Only by constant reflection can we constantly update our thoughts and purify our hearts, and we will not remain unchanged forever, help ourselves find our own advantages and enrich our lives.
Enrich your hobbies and please yourself.
Hobby is a special feeling, a heartfelt joy. Hobbies are not skills, but enjoyment. The best way to live a full and happy life and get happiness in life is to develop your hobbies as much as possible.
Su Shi was demoted all his life, and his career was hopeless, but he took it lightly and kept his heart in adversity. He likes socializing and has a wide range of hobbies. Needless to say, calligraphy, painting, wine making, cooking and tea ceremony. It was these hobbies that saved him when his career was in darkness. When he was in Huangzhou, because he had no money, he bought pork that local people didn't like. After repeated attempts, he invented Dongpo meat which was fat but not greasy.
If life is just to earn money for work and support the family, then life is too boring. From the busy work and life, find your hobbies and indulge in them, and you will find that hobbies are your refuge, which can not only relieve your boredom, but also slowly change your life state.
Enriching yourself is the most important thing in life, which is more powerful than pleasing others.
Only by enriching ourselves and strengthening ourselves can we get rid of dependence on others and become a better self.
Enriching yourself, appreciating yourself and pleasing yourself are the treasures of a happy life. Give yourself more applause, give yourself more comfort, give yourself more confidence, enrich yourself and live to the fullest.
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