In class 3 1 007, there is a classmate who is very good at calligraphy. I once specifically asked him if it was necessary for children to learn calligraphy. Or just write carefully? The classmate replied that it would be better to learn if possible. I think it makes sense, too There is a way to do everything. If you master the right method, you will certainly do better.
At the same time, my daughter's condition also made me start looking for calligraphy classes.
Writing is a big problem for her daughter, who doesn't attend preschool. Besides, her daughter is left-handed, so it is really difficult to write with her right hand.
Let's call the three calligraphy classes A, B and C. I saw B's leaflet at the school gate and added WeChat, which felt good. I only taught calligraphy training classes. I think it must be professional.
I made an appointment to see it. I saw the sign of A's house on the way, so I went in and took a look. A middle-aged woman who claims to be a teacher is about the same age as me. But looking at the overall state, there is no temperament of a calligraphy teacher, but there is a temperament of a cooking aunt. I still judge a book by its cover. The teacher demonstrated the correct posture of holding a pen to her daughter. Because of each other's cooking temperament, I didn't mean to continue talking. At this time, the other party said, "Now that Shanghai has issued documents, you won't be allowed to go to college without taking the calligraphy test."
Then, I calmly said to the child, "Let's go". Then I put my aunt who cooked there.
This aunt really shot herself. No matter how important calligraphy is, it will not be so important. I don't want to talk back, I just want to leave quickly.
Then I went to B's home, in a residential area. I've seen it before when the teacher handed out leaflets, and it's nothing like the greasy smell on my aunt last time. The teacher took out a notebook and simulated words for her daughter to write, and her daughter only read and didn't write, and didn't answer questions. I knew my daughter was always slow, so I took her to another room. She walked up and down the room. I asked her why she didn't write, and she said she didn't want to write. Later, I took my daughter away and asked the teacher to go home and do her homework. As a result of talking with my daughter, I promised to go after school on Friday, and my mother also accompanied me to write.
It was Friday in a blink of an eye. I bought snacks after school and rushed to the teacher's house. The teacher took out his notebook and we both began to write. But this teacher is different from the greasy teacher in A family who taught him to hold a pen. I doubt that teacher A taught the pen to be placed at the distal joint of the second metacarpal, while teacher B asked the pen to be placed at the tiger's mouth. Teacher b said it can only be written in the tiger's mouth, how can it be written in the joints?
(A's pen is at the joint, and B's pen is at the tiger's mouth)
The child wrote here for a total of one and a half hours. On the way, a third-grade brother came to write. Judging from his eyes and state, I can see that this is also from his mother. The little brother looked at the word "two" written by his daughter and said, "If only I could go back to the era of writing" two "!" .
Teacher B is not fierce, but there is one sentence I don't like. She said to her daughter, "You can't be serious. If you were serious, you would have written it long ago. "
I'm too serious. I read How to Say Children Will Listen, How to Listen to Children First and How to Say Children Will Learn. I have every reason to say that such words are a blow to children, and such words can only make children write harder. But what can I say? I don't remember the situation at that time.
When I came out of B's house, I took a long breath and thought about this. Although the teacher doesn't know how to say it, I'm afraid I can't find a teacher who can say it! Just be professional. However, this school has to enroll students for one year, and it is not cheap. I am distressed that my wallet is small. I really don't want my children to study for a year. I think it will take several months, at most six months. I don't think calligraphers learned it from training classes. We only study this for one purpose. Just give a good introduction, so that children don't take writing as a burden.
On the way home, I saw another calligraphy class. C. Take the children inside. This and A are both shops. I saw a middle-aged woman with a ruler and a square table in Zhang greatly, surrounded by five or six children, all copying calligraphy, and one of them was still writing calligraphy. There is also a daughter's classmate, both of whom smiled and said nothing. The teacher said to the children, "You must be serious, but you can't do it without being serious." Under the majesty of the teacher, the classroom was very quiet. I left with my daughter. This teacher is a bit fierce.
Things turned around because a friend gave me some information about learning calligraphy. There is also a video in which a teacher talks about a very professional pen-holding posture. I also talked about the difference between A and B that I met. Method a is correct. A writes vertically, method B writes vertically with great effort, and method B draws diagonally directly.
This teacher is just to my taste. I think we should haggle over every ounce when dealing with academic problems. The training class is about professionalism and quality, not caring for children.
From this point of view, family B seems to have many branches in Shenyang, with a strong background, but there is something wrong with teaching pen-holding posture.
So I don't need to struggle, and there are no other calligraphy classes near my home. I decided to tutor my children.
Write a page of calligraphy every day, and now write the words on Chinese characters in red. At first, I erased her ugly words and she cried. Later, I stopped wiping, just saying which one was well written.
I told my daughter that writing is a skill. Practice makes perfect, as long as you learn it. Write for a semester first, and then you don't have to continue practicing like this. When we finish writing, mom will take you out to play by plane.
On the other hand, I am very opposed to material rewards, but I still tell my children that I have written that my mother will take you by plane. Children are not interested in distant holidays and the arrival of planes, but they are somewhat resistant to writing in front of them. What I want is that I will tell my children that you can get what you want through hard work. But later, every time I wrote, I stopped talking about airplanes and holidays, but faced children who didn't want to write, didn't criticize, accompanied her to write, played first and then wrote, and so on.
Also, I may do the opposite, but I don't want to let nature take its course. I think sometimes it is irresponsible to let nature take its course, or I am not the kind of parents who are very powerful and have enough patience to wait for flowers to bloom. On the contrary, I met many parents who neglected their children, whose handwriting was ugly. Therefore, I am still willing to let my children write something every day with my encouragement and support. Let it become her habit.
Today, my daughter finished writing "Next Step", which is really much better than what she wrote a few days ago. I said to the child, wow! You have the potential of a calligrapher!
Ha ha!
I really did my best for this child. Accompany her to learn calligraphy and correct my pen-holding posture for decades! In fact, it is not too late for people to study in middle age. At this time, their learning ability is stronger than that of children, and their willingness to learn is also stronger than that of children. But the environment is not as good as children. As adults, we have responsibilities and burdens, and we can't go to school without caring about anything. I am thinking about the enrollment of yoga classes in my spare time now, and I often think, what is the use of learning when I was a child?
Anyway, I am willing to encourage children, and I believe that children can study happily.
Why did you choose calligraphy class? Because I value teachers very, very much. I didn't learn anything else from the movie Wrestling, Dad, but I learned a profound understanding that a good teacher can teach a champion, while a bad teacher will say it's good to be a runner-up.
It is also a video column recommended by students with good calligraphy in 007. It's called "playing high school" A famous teacher, with a group of children, went to high school with fun. Finally, all the senior high school students are famous universities, and some are Tsinghua Peking University. Be impressed by the charm of a good teacher again! It is lucky to meet a good teacher. What if I can't find such a good teacher? Then improve yourself and say to yourself, "You should try to be a mother worthy of a good child."
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