I have my own experience. Dressing well, hairstyle and clothes will increase my confidence. . .
It is meaningless to always care about what you don't have. Don't compare your own shortcomings with others' strengths. If you can't change it, accept it; Change it if you can.
Self-confidence is an ability that can be cultivated. The so-called high-rise building rises from the ground. Self-confidence means believing in the value of one's existence and recognizing one's ability and value. Believe in your ability.
If you have no strength in your heart and look down on yourself, you can't be free. You need to adjust your mentality. Everyone has shortcomings, depending on how you treat them and what actions you have taken (to meet a better self and change the status quo) ...
Where does domineering come from? Domineering comes from self-confidence. Where does confidence come from? Self-confidence comes from successful accumulation again and again. -Deshun Wang's Speech from the Seat
Inferiority comes from comparison, and a person who is always comparing but unable to change is inferior; The bottom of self-esteem is actually inferiority complex. People with strong self-esteem are not aware of their inferiority, and they are even less capable of taking the initiative to change. In inferiority and self-esteem, first of all, you need to realize that you are hurting yourself, not others, so that you can be reborn. -Le Jia's "True Color" on page 6
We don't have to care about other people's comments at all, because your true nature has nothing to do with other people's opinions. And no matter what others comment on, they are commenting on themselves, because by commenting on others, a person will inadvertently present something in his heart, so he is actually commenting on himself. -Zhang's "Feeling in Loneliness"
It is our nature to care about what others say about us. It's like we implanted a self in everyone. Naturally, we care about what they look like. -Zhang's Feeling in Loneliness 2, Writers Publishing House.
Your heart has no support at all. All your strength comes from your dependence on the outside world. What others say about you is your whole life. One can't get happiness and peace. You will never be free unless these problems are solved. -Le Jia Yilin magazine
Pride is to believe that you have outstanding value in a certain aspect, while vanity is to try to convince others that you have outstanding value in a certain aspect. Pride is heartfelt and direct self-esteem; Vanity, on the other hand, tries to obtain this kind of self-esteem from the outside, thus indirectly obtaining this kind of self-esteem. To put it bluntly, vanity is to establish a good evaluation of oneself on this basis and win the recognition of others. Therefore, vanity makes people talkative, and pride makes people silent. -Schopenhauer's philosophy of life
People's narrow ideas about others, which are born of self-restriction, are unscathed and will only make themselves stretched. If you could stay out of it, you wouldn't draw a prison. -Annie Baby "Sleeping Empty"
I firmly believe that the cruelty of life lies in that people only look at the results in the end, not at the process. I firmly believe that all people who don't understand you, over time, will understand if there is a result; But if there is no result, you will either die, be scolded all the time, or be forgotten soon until one day you come up with the result. -the true colors of Le Jia, page 168.
We should do things well and find our own advantages. Get things done and get results, and you will have strength. Self-confidence is accumulated. If you can do a lot of small things and stick to it, you will believe in your ability. Will realize their own value.
Advantages should be discovered and developed, and disadvantages should be avoided and improved.
Praise yourself more and encourage yourself more at ordinary times-my strength is not bad, I can do it, I can do it, I am great, I don't lose to anyone, I can do it better. ...