Children who lack play in childhood are more likely to have psychological problems.
Professor Li Meijin said:
Children who can play are often better and more likely to succeed in the future.
But in real life, how many children have little time to relax, either in the classroom at school or at the desk at home.
A few days ago, a child in Sichuan called 1 10 for help.
He cried and confided: as long as his mother saw that he didn't study, he began to beat and scold.
Even if his homework is finished, he will be forced to study and bound to study all the time.
He was wronged, depressed and miserable, and finally collapsed and cried. He turned to 1 10 for help and said, "I never want to see my mother again."
Children who are bound by learning have no breathing space and are prone to psychological problems.
The children in the variety show "Dear Little Classroom" are open to pandas, and problems such as inattention and unsociable appear in the first grade.
It was not until I saw the panda's daily life that I knew that his extracurricular activities were crowded. He had no time to play with his friends and no chance to deal with his peers.
In a short summer vacation, my mother arranged the first half of the thesis and a number of interest classes to encourage children and relatives' parents to learn and progress together.
There are many such children in life.
They go to school from 7 am to 5: 30 pm, and do their homework at night until 1 1.
Saturdays and sundays are full of cram schools and extra-long classes, and I am immersed in hard work.
Which child can enjoy this high-pressure learning atmosphere all the year round?
I often hear parents on the Internet complaining that their children are fragile, blx, and can't be scolded. If they are a little unhappy, they will die of depression.
But think about it, when we were young, we didn't have so much homework and exams, and we wouldn't be criticized by our parents every day.
Even if we are scolded, we still have time to go out and play, and when we play, we forget our troubles.
It's like seeing a question on Zhihu:
Children have been beaten and scolded before, why not be depressed and hurt themselves?
Thousands of answers can be summed up in one sentence:
Although the children in the past were beaten and scolded, they had a lot of emotional outlets. Besides studying, they also washed clothes, cooked and played wildly.
Indeed, children need something to show their exuberant vitality in their childhood.
Only energetic children have sunshine in their hearts.
Children who can play will be stronger in the future.
So, what is a happy childhood?
I think it's just like Teacher Tong Jiahui said:
Have enough rest and keep healthy;
There are colorful activities, such as running freely, exercising freely, experiencing everything in the world, or just staring blankly;
This kind of life will make children full of vitality every day and feel the joy of life.
But now children's lives are too monotonous:
Even after the "double reduction", most children are school-home, two points and one line.
Entertainment is also monotonous: mobile phones and computers are closely watched by parents.
And now there are fewer children at home than in the past, so it is easier for parents to concentrate on education.
Two-way attack, the child is also more injured: the exam did not do well, parents stubbornly criticized; Always playing mobile phones, parents quarrel with their parents as soon as they criticize them, which makes a fuss.
It's not that children want to make trouble, but that their world is small and only one small thing is important.
But children who can play are different.
They have many ways to amuse themselves and vent their anger, and they can easily spend whatever distressing things they encounter.
My friend's son likes playing badminton. In his words, nothing can't be solved by playing badminton. If there is, play more.
If you don't do well in the exam, you'll be fine if you play ball and vent.
Parents criticize, go out to play ball directly, and get angry when they come back;
My relationship with my classmates is very stiff. After playing a few games together, we became good friends.
He is happy and full every day, and his heart is strong.
Brown, an international doctor of medicine, spent 40 years tracking and interviewing 5000 people and found that:
Children who didn't play well as children are more difficult to adapt to the new environment when they grow up.
And those children who run freely have stronger social and learning abilities when they grow up.
They will not let themselves become nervous and anxious, or fall into the distress of adolescence, nor will they easily walk into a dead end, so they can adapt to life better.
So, if your child loves to play, as long as it is not a matter of principle, let him go!
Life will be more exciting when children have fun.
After the results of the college entrance examination come out every year, we often find that those academic tyrants with better results are often not "nerds" who study hard, but are better at playing.
At the beginning of the Tang Dynasty, the top scholar in Hubei Province, with a total score of 725 in the college entrance examination in 2020, can play the piano, calligraphy, painting, and run the 100-meter sports meeting, and also achieved good results in the first place.
Yang Chenyu, the top scholar in Guangxi with a total score of 730 in the college entrance examination on 20 19, is good at handwriting, likes playing basketball and has made some achievements in music.
Therefore, don't underestimate the importance of play to children.
Children who are allowed to play freely are three times better than ordinary children in cultivating creative thinking;
Children who play often score higher in the diversity of problem-solving
Teacher Tong Jiahui believes that play can train children's emergency ability, improve their flexibility and creativity, and have a competitive advantage when encountering new environments.
Learning is a high energy-consuming thing, and playing is an advanced way to replenish the brain.
Children who are tired of studying can take them downstairs to play ball games and run, or play chess and chat with them.
Let the children stay away from the tense learning environment for a while and make some adjustments.
As Mr. Li Dazhao said, "study hard and have fun."
Combining work and rest and complementing each other is the road to science.
A good educator should educate one child in 50 ways, not 50 children in one way.