1. Think of Hanfu as a costume
In the understanding of their parents’ generation, they have no idea about the traditional costumes of the Han nationality. Only young people who are more able to accept new things can quickly do this. Concepts and clothing are integrated into our lives.
Therefore, parents will think that Hanfu is just a costume, something that people who film costume dramas would wear. If you wear it on the street, it will look like a lunatic. Naturally, you don't want your children to wear it outside.
What should we do when encountering such a situation? Coco brings you two tips.
First of all, let’s educate our parents about Hanfu. Hanfu is not a costume, and it is somewhat different from a costume. The reason why we are willing to wear Hanfu is not just because we want to inherit the culture of the Han nationality.
Or is it because another reason is to find the atmosphere of the ancients in Hanfu and increase one's own temperament? Isn't it the same as parents letting their children learn calligraphy and ink painting?
If parents can listen, we will have won half the battle, but the vast majority of parents are also quite stubborn, and they are more willing to believe in their own opinions.
Then we can try not to wear Hanfu at home or when we go out with them. It is important to retain our own hobbies, but we should not have conflicts with our parents because of this.
Another trick is to deliberately show some popular science programs about Hanfu, such as national treasures, when parents are around. This can also subtly make parents realize that Hanfu It's not a costume, it's something that even the country advocates and inherits, and it's also crucial to our future.
Many parents will think that no matter how expensive they are when buying clothes, they can be worn every day, but Hanfu cannot be worn every day. Why buy so many clothes?
Children with better family conditions may ignore this point, but for students with relatively average family conditions, it is recommended to listen to their parents and not buy so many expensive Hanfu. After all, they don’t have it yet. The ability to make money, don’t let yourself develop wrong habits.