You can use induction. For example, if children don't like to write, parents can practice calligraphy by themselves when they are around their children, and appreciate their works with expressions and actions, so that children can transcend the noise, curiosity, appreciation, imitation and love.
Children don't want to go to school, and it is not feasible to talk about big things. First of all, you can ask his good partner to take it. Now the school conditions are good enough to attract children. In the long run, if you don't let him go, he will be unnatural.