Jealousy is a curse and a source of strength for success.

Jealous people don't think others are better than themselves, but some people try to surpass the objects of jealousy, some try to destroy the achievements of the objects of jealousy, some grow up in jealousy, some degenerate in jealousy, and even ruin their lives.

It was 1982 when I first joined the work. At that time, speeches were very popular. Workshops, teams and factories all hold lectures in Laoshan, and the speeches on ideals and work are huge and inspiring.

When I first attended the lecture, I went as an audience. This is a seminar-level speech contest. Here, I saw many students speaking on the stage, and the audience applauded. However, I am jealous of my new student. Their studies may not catch up with mine. Why can't I get such warm applause? Maybe I was born worse than them. I blush when the teacher asks questions at school. How should I make a speech?

On the way home, jealousy made me lose any other thoughts, only thinking about how to exercise and how to give a speech on stage.

I went directly to the bookstore, bought a bunch of books about speeches, and practiced at home at night and during the day.

Then I began to participate in speech competitions, from team competitions to workshop competitions, and then to factory competitions. I passed all the way and finally won the first prize in the city speech contest.

It's not a bad thing to be jealous. What matters is whether they should pursue upward or downward with jealousy.

When I first joined the work, there were many young people, and everyone would be jealous of anyone who had any achievements.

Hu Wenjun and Su Yong are two calligraphy lovers. Su Yong was jealous because he could write Chinese calligraphy and transferred to the workshop to do propaganda work, because Hu Wenjun's calligraphy was often praised by leaders. He didn't practice calligraphy hard to improve his ability, but wanted to do everything possible to publicize how irregular and indecent Hu Wenjun's calligraphy was. He also stole other people's works during the competition, and as a result, he was ruined.

During this period, Lu Xin, a worker in the team, silently began to practice calligraphy because of his strong jealousy. "I can't catch up with him in a year or two. It takes ten or twenty years to surpass him."

Now thirty-five years have passed, and he has held a calligraphy training class in this city for twenty-five years and won many awards in national competitions.

Balzac once said, "Jealousy lurks in my heart, just like a poisonous snake lurking in a hole." Jealousy has always been regarded as a bad emotion, but making good use of jealousy will make people keep making progress. The key is how to turn jealousy into motivation.

I watched a Thai TV series "Jealous Sea" the other day. Pavel worked as a nanny for the daughter of millionaire Akalin. Pavel is drooling over Akalin's million-dollar assets. She hates it and is jealous of it. "Why am I a servant? I have nothing. They have everything and enjoy the prosperity of the world. "

He didn't catch up with the ball, but when he went out to sea, he was caught in a strong wind. At the moment when Akalin fainted, she pushed his wife and daughter into the sea and took the opportunity to become the hostess. The goal is to embezzle his property, but Akalin's wife and daughter are rescued by fishermen, and the story becomes very tortuous.

In this way, Pavel encountered many obstacles in embezzling Akalin's property. She poisoned Akalin, killed his sister and killed his wife several times, but all failed. Finally, she fell off the cliff and died tragically at the seaside. What a pity!

If she pursues upward, she may quit her job as a nanny and work hard. Even if she can't reach the millionaire's assets, her life will continue to become richer, and life is so beautiful and happy.