Parent-teacher meeting speeches. Parents’ speeches on educating their children are as follows:
1. Cultivate children’s wide range of interests and hobbies.
When my child was in elementary school, due to the relatively young age of the child, I basically respected the child’s reasonable suggestions during the elementary education period. Relatively speaking, I don't care much about his affairs. He can do whatever he wants in extracurricular time and participate in any interest studies. His father and I will basically respect the child's choice of interests. I hope that children can try out various aspects and have a wide range of interests when they are very young.
My child has many extracurricular interests and hobbies. In terms of learning, she enrolled in a Mathematical Olympiad class in Xueersi. The main reason for enrolling in the Mathematical Olympiad class is because the child is very interested in Mathematical Olympiad. She can always come up with several ideas for solving problems. . The child saw that some students in his class were studying for the Mathematical Olympiad outside, so he also clamored to learn. She said that studying with classmates is better than studying alone.
First of all, there is a strong learning atmosphere, and secondly, there are dedicated teachers to provide learning guidance. In terms of literature and art, we learned calligraphy, piano, painting, dance, and vocal music in the Children's Palace. It mainly improves children's personal accomplishment and enables them to become well-rounded people with broad interests.
2. Comprehensively weigh the primary and secondary relationships between learning and interest.
As age increases and the learning environment changes, many things need to be handled by children themselves. The learning in junior high school is different from that in primary school. There are relatively more courses in junior high school than in primary school. For this reason, children are very distressed that they do not have enough spare time. Calligraphy, piano, painting, dance, and vocal music are all children’s favorites. At the same time, learning in junior high school is also As the most important thing for a student, how to choose?
I communicated with the teacher in the child’s class and guided the child to put learning first and interest second. Children are also smart enough to spend most of their time studying and a very small part of their time on their own hobbies. This kind of choice made the child have a clear learning direction. Since entering the experimental class affiliated to the National People's Congress, his grades have been stable and he is also an active member of the class's literary and artistic activities.
3. Interest is a prerequisite for children to be willing to learn.
I very much agree with what Rousseau said: "The art of education is to make children like what you teach." My children have learned a lot of things from childhood to freshman ***, such as: piano , painting, foreign languages, etc. Learning these is the child's own choice. If a child doesn't like it, I will never let him learn it. Our family’s educational principle: children make their own choices, and the whole family fully supports them.
The prerequisite for children to be willing to learn is to cultivate their interest in learning. I strongly disagree with the approach of some parents. Their children don’t want to learn musical instruments at all, but the parents are wishful thinking and use the money they save to force their children to learn many things. I think this is unnecessary. This can easily lead to children's rebellious psychology and dislike of learning.
A colleague of mine plays the piano himself and insists on his children learning the piano, but his children are not interested in the piano at all. Children are forced to play music for several hours every day. As a result, the children felt psychologically uncomfortable when they saw the piano. Therefore, I would like to remind parents that parents must not force their children to do things that their children do not like to do.
4. Learning in advance makes my children more confident.
When entering junior high school, this change is all-round for children, with new classmates, new teachers, new textbooks, new knowledge, and most importantly, new teaching methods. Junior high school teachers place more emphasis on teaching classroom knowledge. Junior high schools have more coursework than primary schools and more homework than primary schools. However, supervision is relatively loose and more methods such as test rankings are used to stimulate children's learning enthusiasm.
For this reason, the test has become a standard for measuring children's academic performance. Let’s see what kind of children are confident in the class at the High School Affiliated to Renmin University of China? Of course, they are students with good grades. Such students are very popular with teachers. Children in junior high schools mainly study mathematics, English, physics, and chemistry. Faced with the study of these subjects, after many communications with Xueersi teachers, I provide targeted tutoring to the children. If they are not good in any subject, I will make up for it. Which subject.
At the same time, children will also propose to learn some knowledge in advance according to their learning needs.
For example, after the school starts this year, the children will enter the third grade of junior high school. In the third grade of junior high school, a new course, chemistry, will be added. This course is completely new to the children in the second grade of junior high school and has no foundation. For this reason, my child chose to study chemistry in advance during the summer vacation of the second grade of junior high school. The stupid bird flies first, so that it can fly higher and further than others. I hope that children all over the world can be willing to learn, think well, dare to act, be excellent in both character and academics, thrive, and become pillars of society!