Poor parents of school-age children in the world. One child goes to school and the whole family is on standby. On the difficult project of "accompanying the baby to do homework", parents wasted their time, devoted their energy, suppressed their anxiety, and even got sick all over-< P > How did the homework of primary school students become the chief culprit that drove their parents to a heart attack and cerebral hemorrhage?
Parents said:
Teachers only know the layout, and the burden of schoolwork falls on parents. It is impossible for children to finish too much homework independently, and it is impossible to do it without help. The child's homework has become a parent's homework. If it is not done well, it is wrong, and the handwriting is sloppy, it will be caught by the teacher and criticized. Is this criticism still a child? Isn't it criticizing my dereliction of duty? How can I not be anxious ...
The teacher said:
The educational concept should be the trinity of school, family and society. Parents can't send their children to school just because they think they can give up. It is natural for parents to help their children learn. If you are always mad because your children can't master and often make mistakes, it can only show that your level is limited and your patience is insufficient ...
This is the reality-parents are overwhelmed and angry with teachers, and teachers are also full of grievances and helpless ...
Today, Let's have a round-table discussion on the epic topic of "doing homework with my baby"-the guests present are parents of school-age children who are anxious or lucky enough not to worry, teachers' representatives who are full of grievances, and parents' reserve who are prepared to do something big in the future. They have shown us many realities and helplessness in the work world through fierce collision of views ...
After a year and a half of accompanying students, their blood pressure can't be rubbed down!
Yiming: I was just about to go to bed when I remembered an online answer to a question about the national defense competition arranged by my teacher. Hurry to take the iPad in one hand and use the mobile phone to answer Baidu questions in the other. Because even I can't understand these national defense questions! Excuse me, a second-grade child, how can he understand? I've been in primary school with you for a year and a half, and my blood pressure can't come down!
Lu Lingyun: I helped my nephew with his holiday homework once. I was so angry that I called his class teacher for 4 minutes to express my dissatisfaction. As a result, my sister was frightened and went to apologize to the teacher. I still remember the content of my homework at that time. I asked a first-grade child to search for information about bridges at home during the National Day holiday and write an article about his favorite bridge!
Should the first-grade children write about their favorite cartoons?
what's wrong? Primary school enters in September, and the first-grade children in the National Day holiday are just children who have been studying for a month. It is simply too much to ask for an article! No matter what it is about, I haven't learned a few words yet
Huihui: Some school assignments are sent to parents, who supervise their children's homework and then sign it. Signature is not so easy to sign, not even if the homework is completed, but only if there are no mistakes. Moreover, it has to be revised separately, and the original title is not allowed to be revised. Every unit should be tested, and homework should be added if the score is below 95!
the fifth day: my cousin's son goes to school this year. The school euphemistically says that students are not graded or ranked, but the red list and black list are published every day among parents. Whoever writes wrong homework and scribbles, assign tasks to parents, and the homework must be neat and correct. Isn't going to school a process of constantly correcting mistakes and learning correct answers?
syngas: My child has just entered the first grade of primary school, and many parents think that these two months are stressful. Homework will be practiced every few days, unit tests, etc., and the analysis of the test paper at home will be no less than 5 words. As soon as the Chinese math homework is arranged, the mobile phone will turn over several screens ... In fact, it has become a habit to stare at the children's homework and then check the work, and there is no big problem. It's just that as soon as we get close to the exam ... My children's exam scores are in the middle of the class, and the teacher said that our parents' requirements are too low, so we should practice more papers at home! In addition, the handwriting is too poor, so you must ask to practice hard pen calligraphy!
Tian Ma: My daughter is in a large kindergarten class, because the kindergarten doesn't teach elementary school knowledge, and now the knowledge of the first grade of elementary school can't connect with the kindergarten. In order not to be criticized by the teacher on the red and black list next year, I have to use my evening time to teach her preschool knowledge, and I feel that time is completely insufficient. Sometimes I can't control my emotions and scold my children loudly. What is the teacher responsible for now? Is it responsible for taking care of children at school?
qmb197: My daughter just entered the first grade. She can't recognize a few Chinese characters, and she hasn't finished learning Pinyin. Now the math topics are all Chinese characters, and children can't recognize them. How can they do their homework? I remember when we were young, the textbooks were not like this, and parents didn't need to help their children with their homework!
Xiao Renyu: Now when I go to school, my parents are tired and my children are tortured! For example, my baby has just been in the first grade, and she has only been in school for two months. There are five homework items in math alone, such as books, exercises, online, app, etc. If she accidentally misses them, she will call the roll in the group. Sometimes she is upset and can't help but scold the children for not writing quickly. In this way, where can the children get interested in learning?
It is true that children are under great pressure to study nowadays, so teachers and parents should be patient. School homework can be arranged less.