Chapter 1: Learn to respect speeches.
Respect is a bright but not dazzling brilliance, a mellow but not greasy voice. In ancient times, respect has always been praised by people. Corporal Liu Bei courtesy, take care of the thatched cottage, invited Wolong out of the mountain, and won the world's big picture, which is respect; It snows in Shi Yang only for the sake of teachers not being disturbed, which is also respect.
To learn to respect others, we must first learn to respect ourselves. Imagine, how can people who don't even respect themselves respect others? Tao Yuanming showed his self-esteem by not bending over for five buckets of rice. Learning to respect yourself, doing things seriously and responsibly, and conforming to the norms are the manifestations of self-esteem.
In modern society, respect is also indispensable. When we face teachers who preach, teach and dispel doubts, have we considered respecting them? Teachers are hardworking gardeners and selfless spring silkworms. When we lose our way on the road of learning, the teacher will guide us. When we achieved gratifying results, the teacher was proud of us. Respect them! Listen carefully in class and finish your homework independently after class. Respect for teachers is reflected in these simple behaviors, which is also the most basic quality that a qualified middle school student should have.
As children, we should respect our parents. Our parents are our first teachers. They gave us life and their love. Under their careful care, we grew up healthily. But as time goes on, we take our parents' love for granted. So, we learned to rebel. Sometimes, when you don't do well in the exam, your parents want to talk to you and only hear a bang. 1.
The door was kicked open and they were blocked by a door. When the door closed, their hearts were instantly cold. Respect them! When they talk to you, listen carefully; After a busy day, when they come home from work, they will offer a cup of hot tea. Perhaps just these simple actions, their hearts have been greatly comforted.
Students also need respect. We are facing each other day and night on campus, and it is inevitable that there will be some unhappiness. At this time, you should learn to respect your classmates, understand him and be considerate of him. The patient interpretation of students' questions and the warm applause after students' wonderful speeches. It is such a small tribute that the flower of friendship between us once again blooms in the most beautiful color.
"People who love others will always love others, and those who respect others will always respect others." Respect is also a virtue. However, respect is being ignored and forgotten by more and more people. As teenagers and a member of the province, we should carry forward this virtue. I believe that with respect, the sky will become bluer, the sun will become brighter and the mood will become happier!
Chapter II: Respect for Speech
Dear leaders, brothers and sisters, dear students,
A greeting, a smile, even an action and a look can bring us a happy mood, and even generate great motivation to change the direction of life, achieve classics and create brilliance. Today we will talk about respect.
Everyone present, no one will feel that respect is redundant, and no one will refuse to be respected by others. This is because everyone knows the correct black and white standard, has the correct moral concept and value orientation, and has a strong need to be respected.
There is a phenomenon that some teachers present really feel. Every year, students are sent to Xinzheng to take the national and college entrance examinations. In order to avoid being too high-profile, the school advises students to wear their own clothes during the exam. Except for a few students who may have a soft spot for school uniforms, all the other students wear casual clothes. Hundreds or even thousands of students in various schools scattered in various examination rooms, except for a few students who may have taught themselves, almost all teachers of the North Attached School can accurately judge which ones are the North Attached School. Even the students confirmed by the teacher are puzzled. Why is this? This is because of your image temperament, especially your eyes and expression when you see the teacher who sent you to the exam, and even unconsciously say "Good teacher", which has clearly told us that every teacher who sent you to the exam is a student attached to the North. Even though some students were delayed by shopping and heard the teacher's urging, they kept saying "OK, soon" and got on the bus with a smile. What is this? This is respect that has been incorporated into your behavior habits.
A successful businessman saw a very poor pencil salesman in the street and immediately felt sorry for him and decided to help him. He gave him some money, and after a few steps, he suddenly felt uncomfortable. He hurried back and said to him apologetically, "Sorry, I forgot my pen. I hope you don't mind. " Then put your hand on the salesman's hand: "You are a businessman like me." A year later, in an important social occasion, a personable salesman took the businessman's hand and said, "You gave me confidence, otherwise I always thought I was a beggar."
"You are a businessman like me." This simple and ordinary sentence has infinite power. This sentence makes a person who has lost confidence and thinks he is a beggar regain his confidence. If no one had encouraged him, would he have seen a personable salesman in social occasions? This is the power of respect.
Henan Branch of the High School Attached to Peking University stands in the Central Plains because we have trained a large number of students with excellent academic performance and both ability and political integrity. North Attached, if it is full of foul language, flying scraps of paper, cross-flow of sewage, graffiti all over the wall, among students, can it achieve the reputation of "Tsinghua Peking University DreamWorks"? We can send thousands of people to key universities at home and abroad. Everyone present would like to be here?
I came to Beifu in 2008, from the school worker comrade to teacher Zhang Jichao of the school, to Cui, who took my class, and then to President Xu. After completing the interview, I walked around the campus and met an old man who was cleaning up garbage in the lighting stadium. My two-year life in Beifu has made me feel more friendly and respectful among my classmates, teachers and students, colleagues and superiors.
Of course, students and even teachers present may have questions. Yes, although we continue to create miracles and pass them on, there are still some phenomena around us that don't respect others and ourselves.
Our headmaster said more than once: "It is easy to run a school with excellent results in the college entrance examination, but it is difficult to run a school with civilized language on campus, always polite to people, no scraps of paper and graffiti on the walls."
On the evening of 165438+ 10/2, the school organized senior high school students to watch the opening ceremony of the Asian Games in the open air. Two and a half hours later, the venue was a mess. If the time is fixed at that moment, no one will believe that this is the legendary Henan Branch of Peking University High School. When announcing the students' dissolution, President Wang said two words: "Senior one students stay to clean the venue, and Senior three students do the finishing work." As soon as the voice fell, every student present picked up the garbage around him. When the students left the meeting place, the huge square had been cleaned. This is the campus attached to our north. At the same time, I also wonder, if President Wang doesn't ask, will we clean up the scene so soon? No matter whether it is cleaned in time or not, we can't avoid a problem: we ruined the work of the cleaning staff and threw the originally clean square everywhere.
Respect is not so much a quality or a conduct as a habit. When you get along with others, everything you say and do shows how much you respect others. Some students may say that when I meet the headmaster and leaders, my teachers and classmates will naturally respect them. So-and-so is not my teacher, it has nothing to do with me. Why should I respect them? Dear students and teachers present, have we respected everyone around us equally? Occasionally, I saw or heard that some students clashed with comrades in the security department, restaurant chefs and life teachers, and even hurt people by exporting. Students, school leaders, teachers and classmates who live together day and night should of course be respected, and those who you think are not directly related to you deserve your respect.
Some comrades in the security office and canteen are about the same age as some of our high school classmates. You live a well-fed life, and their young shoulders have shouldered the burden of life. School cleaners and garbage cleaners are cleaning the whole school all year round. No matter what the weather is, it will not affect our study and rest. When we were still asleep, they were already cleaning silently, and even at this moment, they were cleaning and cleaning the garbage on all floors. The life teacher urged us to get up and go to bed, but some students were extremely impatient with him and even insulted him. In daily life, they care more for you than their parents, but they don't get the minimum respect, let alone gratitude.
If. For example, the high school attached to Peking University, the security department is sloppy and lazy; If the cleaning staff is negligent and the garbage is cleared late, the restaurant chef will spend less time and the food will be born; If you stay for a while, sleep for a while; If the students were a little more grumpy and restrained, I believe everyone has outlined the appearance of the North Attached.
Everyone here is lucky because we will celebrate the tenth anniversary. What will we give to our alma mater? I propose: respect yourself, respect others and respect everyone around you.
Respect, we don't need a big hand, just a greeting, a smile, an action, a look, an understanding and an tolerance. I hope:
Warm and harmonious, civilized language demonstration everywhere, colleges and universities are always fragrant calligraphy.
Respect and understand, always be polite to others, and be a gentleman everywhere in the middle school attached to Peking University.
Thank you all.
Chapter 3: Learn to respect —— Speech by peers of beauty and respect.
I once heard such a story:
A master felt pity when he saw a pencil salesman in rags. Without thinking, he stuffed 10 yuan into the pencil seller's hand and walked away without looking back. After a few steps, he suddenly felt that this was not appropriate. So he hurried back to apologize for forgetting to take the pen, hoping that the other party would not mind. Finally, he said solemnly, "You are a businessman like me."
A year later, in a warm and grand occasion where businessmen gathered, a salesman in a suit and tie met the businessman and introduced himself gratefully: "You may have forgotten me long ago. I don't know your name, but I will never forget you You made me regain my self-esteem and self-confidence. I always felt like a beggar selling pencils until you told me yourself that I am a businessman like you. "
I didn't expect such a simple sentence to make a person with inferiority regain his self-esteem. It is a person who has built up confidence in a difficult situation.
With this self-esteem and self-confidence, he saw his own value and advantages, and finally succeeded through hard work. It is not difficult to imagine that if there were no such words of respect and encouragement at the beginning, even giving him tens of millions would not help, and there would be no great change from beggar to self-confidence. This is the power of respect.
Respect is a kind of cultivation, a kind of character, an equal treatment of others, and a full affirmation of others' personality and value. No one can be perfect. We have no reason to look at others with lofty eyes, nor are we qualified to laugh at others with dismissive eyes. If others are inferior to ourselves in some ways, we can't hurt others' self-esteem with arrogance and silent respect. If we are inferior to others in some places, we don't have to replace our due respect with inferiority or jealousy. A person who truly knows how to respect others will face the strong and weak in his career and the lucky and unfortunate in his life with an equal mentality, a normal heart and a calm mood.
Respect is a spring breeze, a clear spring, an antidote to warmth and an inspiring medicine.
Spiritual agents are often incompatible with sincerity, humility, praise, kindness and friendship, and with hypocrisy, arrogance, harshness and ridicule. Respect for successful people is admiration and praise for others' success, and respect for unsuccessful people is sympathy, comfort and encouragement for others' failure. As long as there is respect, there is true feelings in the world, there is hope in the future, and there are winners who continue to forge ahead.
Respect is not blind worship, disgusting flattery, unprincipled cheap pandering, or condescending without self-esteem. Knowing the importance of respecting others does not mean learning how to respect others. In this sense, respect is also a science. Learn to respect others, learn to respect yourself, and learn to master the key points of life.
Let's savor and explore slowly on the road of life!
Chapter Four: Speech on "Respect for Others"
Psychologist Robert said, "When people leave the environment, there is no behavior". Innovative education aims to scientifically provide an environment for the generation of creativity and create an educational atmosphere with the concept of free and harmonious humanistic education. Education is not giving, but awakening. Like sunshine and air in life, it provides good conditions for the seeds of potential creativity to germinate and bloom. Educational atmosphere is an important part of educational environment, which has a subtle influence on people's growth and development, especially on people's innovative consciousness and behavior. Therefore, we educators should learn to respect, tolerate and praise in the process of education, and create a good educational atmosphere for students.
First, learn to respect.
Teacher Yu Yongzheng has a famous saying: "Squat down and look after the children". "Squatting down to look after the children" means that our teacher unloads the image of "tall" in front of the students, looks at the students attentively, understands the students and respects them. In the eyes of students, the world is a poem, and they are curious about everything. There is a student in our class who is called "picking up garbage" by classmates. He likes to pick up some bottles and cans on his way to and from school every day. Everyone thinks he is selling junk to earn some pocket money. When I found him and asked him about it, he just smiled. Judging from his expression, I thought that his economy was not very good, so I proposed to visit his house. When I entered his room, I was immediately attracted by some very "expensive" decorations, such as flower baskets made of Sprite bottles and vivid figures made of sour milk bottles ... In an instant, I understood that what people regarded as waste products magically turned into works of art in his hands, what rich creativity and imagination!
In the ever-changing world, a ray of sunshine, a green leaf and a bird will arouse students' reverie, and they will discover, think, explore and innovate. They are full of endless vitality, creativity and imagination, and they are full of wisdom and enthusiasm for life. Because of respect, we find; Because of discovery, we encourage. The children's world is a wonderful and dreamy world. Small creative behaviors can sprout in every corner of life because of discovery and encouragement. Innovation is children's nature, children are curious about new things, and they love exploration and innovation. As teachers, "crouching down" will make us put down our authority, bend down, let us always be a member of children, be their intimate friends, show understanding and respect, talk to them on the basis of complete equality, listen and discover with children's eyes and hearts, blend into their world and enter their hearts with sincere smiles. Catch the spark of children's creative thinking, encourage children to explore, guide children to think independently, cooperate with children, climb and trudge hand in hand, tap the gurgling spring of knowledge and get the pleasure of innovation.
Second, learn to be tolerant.
Tolerance means allowing others the freedom to act and judge, and being patient and fair with opinions different from their own or traditional views. Tolerance is the premise of freedom, and freedom is the premise of creation.
Ji Bolun said: "You can give your love to your children, but you can't give your thoughts to your children, because children have their own thoughts." In order to stimulate children's creativity, innovative education must give children full freedom of mind and thought.
Once in a Chinese class, I found a student bending his head to draw something. When I walked beside him, it turned out that he was drawing my sketch, which was a bit exaggerated. When he suddenly discovered it, he felt very scared and covered it with his hand. I'm not furious. I just gave him a look and accepted it. Since then, the student has never painted in class. He has studied well in all the courses, and his paintings have won many awards. After entering middle school, send me a photo every semester. This seemingly "weak" move has effectively "conquered" students and received unexpected results, which is tolerance. Tolerance can have a "soft" and "silence is better than sound" effect.
Einstein once said: "Being good at tolerance is also an emotional problem of educational literacy. Understand, trust,
Waiting shows that education has accumulated enough confidence in itself and the object of education, and it is also permeated with a sincere love for the cause and children. It is impossible for all our students to "understand" and "know a little", and it is impossible for every student to "concentrate" and "concentrate". We should think about some unsatisfactory performances in students' learning from the perspective of psychology and pedagogy, learn to understand and guide them scientifically, and don't let them be in the "should" and "shouldn't" of the adult experience world. Being too harsh will stifle children's lively nature, restrain their creative talents and make them feel at a loss. Without a clear opinion, their creative consciousness will die out in various concerns and frequent failure experiences. "Emancipate the child's mind so that he can think; Liberate the child's eyes so that he can speak; Free the child's hands and make him capable; Liberate the child's mouth so that he can speak; Liberate the child's space, let him get in touch with nature, free the child's time, and let him learn what he wants to learn. " Only with a tolerant attitude can educators realize the educational ideal of liberating students. Because in the process of liberation, children will have many mistakes that need our tolerance. Therefore, if we treat students' accidental mistakes in a kind attitude and tactfully and implicitly, which can not only achieve our educational goals, but also prevent students from suffering from loss, then let us be more tolerant and less punished, and the outcome may be more perfect.
Third, learn to praise.
Pedagogy tells us that students need teachers' praise, and praise is the performance of teachers' love. Without teachers' love for students, there would be no heartfelt praise. Only when teachers carefully capture the sparks that flash on students will they say concise and profound words of praise. There is a naughty student in my class, and every class gives the teacher a headache. When I first started to write the word "Yong" in Chinese calligraphy, I told some knowledge about the eight methods of "Yong". Other students couldn't write well, but he wrote like a god. Even though I seized the opportunity to praise and encourage him in front of everyone, he was very proud at that time. I will encourage him in time as long as he makes a little progress in the future. Gradually, some bad habits have been changed, and calligraphy can be imitated by analogy, which is very successful. The teacher's seemingly ordinary words can play a subtle role. Teachers encourage and praise students. First of all, he is a great discoverer and can see the advantages of students. As we all know, everyone has strengths and weaknesses. A person's ability is multifaceted. If he is not good at this, he may be better than others in other aspects. Even the worst person has advantages, and even the perfect person has disadvantages. What your eyes are fixed on, you are sure to see. If you look at a person with appreciation, praise and beauty, you will find something beautiful from him. As Rodin said, "Beauty is everywhere. For our eyes, it is not the lack of beauty, but the lack of discovery. "
Praise is spring breeze, which makes people warm and moved. Praise is a kind of encouragement, which can fully reflect students' beautiful dreams and ideals. Life needs praise, and children need enthusiastic encouragement. We should learn to praise. A teacher who is good at praising every student must be a happy person at any time.
If respect is to discover the creativity of children, then tolerance is protection and praise is encouragement; If respect is a bridge for students to create their minds, then tolerance is his space and praise is his stage. Innovation is supreme, and innovation is truth. Teachers learn to respect, tolerate and praise, and create a relaxed, free and democratic atmosphere for students to think freely and imagine boldly.
Chapter 5: Learn to respect _ Speech
Everyone has a certain degree of self-esteem. If you want others to respect you, you must respect others first. A person who doesn't know how to respect others will never be respected by others. In our study and life, our attitude towards others often determines others' attitude towards us, just like a person standing in front of a mirror, you smile, and the person in the mirror also smiles; You yell at the mirror, and the people in the mirror will yell at you. Therefore, in order to gain the goodwill and respect of others, we must first respect others. Only by respecting others can we get praise and respect from others. Students, in the process of interacting with others, you must not hurt each other's self-esteem, otherwise, you will only suffer. Next, I will tell you a true story that happened in Manhattan, new york, USA.
One day, a middle-aged woman in her forties led a little boy into the garden downstairs of the headquarters building of the famous American enterprise "Giant Elephant Group" and sat down on a bench. She is talking to the boy indecisively and seems to be very angry. Not far away, an old man with gray hair is pruning shrubs.
Suddenly, the middle-aged woman took out a shiny tissue from her carry-on bag and threw it on the bush that the old man had just trimmed. The old man turned to look at the middle-aged woman in amazement, and the middle-aged woman looked at him coldly. The old man didn't say anything, so he went over and ordered paper towels and threw them into the garbage basket.
After a while, the middle-aged woman took out another paper towel and threw it over. The old man went over and picked up the paper towel and threw it into the basket, then went back to the original place to continue his work. However, as soon as the old man picked up the scissors, the third paper towel fell on the bush in front of him ... In this way, the old man continued to pick up the papers thrown by women in Zhang Zhongnian in 1967, but he never showed dissatisfaction and boredom.
"Look!" The middle-aged woman pointed to the old man pruning shrubs and said loudly to the boy, "I hope you understand that if you don't go to school well now, you will be as worthless as him in the future and can only do these humble jobs!" " "
Hearing this, the old man put down his scissors and walked over. He kindly said to the middle-aged woman, "madam, this is the private garden of the group." It is stipulated that only employees of the group can come in. "
"Of course, I am? Giant elephant group? The department manager of a company belongs to work in this building! " The middle-aged woman said proudly, and at the same time took out a certificate and waved it at the old man.
"Can I borrow your mobile phone?" The old man was silent for a while and said.
The middle-aged woman reluctantly handed the mobile phone to the old man, and at the same time lost no time to enlighten her son: "Look at these poor people, they can't even afford a mobile phone at such a big age. You must work hard in the future! "
After the phone call, the old man returned the mobile phone to the woman. After a while, a man came in a hurry and stood in front of the old man respectfully. The old man said to the bearer, "I propose to take this lady away now? Giant elephant group? The position! ""ok, I'll follow your instructions at once! " The man repeatedly replied.
After the old man told him, he went straight to the little boy. He reached out and touched the boy's head and said meaningfully, "I hope you understand that the most important thing in this world is to learn to respect everyone …" Then the old man left them three and slowly left. The middle-aged woman was stunned by what happened suddenly in front of her eyes. She knows that man, who is a senior employee in the Giant Elephant Group who is responsible for the appointment and dismissal of employees at all levels. "You ... how can you respect this old gardener so much?" She asked in confusion. "What did you say? Old gardener? He is Mr. James, the president of the group! " The middle-aged woman suddenly collapsed on the bench.
Middle-aged women paid the price for their disrespect. She not only doesn't respect the elderly, but also doesn't respect herself.
What about you? Do you respect your parents who have raised you hard? Do you respect the teacher who preaches, teaches and dispels doubts? Do you respect your classmates who grew up and studied with you? In fact, what I want to say most is, do you respect yourself? You are students. What is a student? Students are people whose main task is learning. Do you take your study seriously? As you sow, you reap, and you will pay for today's behavior in the future. Students, please learn to respect yourself. I hope you can strive for a regretless youth in this flower season.