"Have the Skill" is a very personal literary essay. It is also the first work that Uncle Feng Tang published at a turning point in his life when he started writing full-time. The internal and external seals are simple, with pictures and texts, and the articles are short and insightful, making them interesting and easy to read. In addition to collecting photography works related to the uncle, there are also uncle's calligraphy works. His calligraphy is quite eye-catching. There are also two bookmarks attached, which are the uncle’s soft-pen calligraphy and paintings.
This book has five parts. In each part, the uncle explains his thoughts as if chatting with friends. The language is humorous, the words are surprising, and the ideas are very interesting. The uncle is over 50 years old. He shares his thoughts on life, money, life, emotions and other aspects with everyone, but the core of them is to cultivate the ability to settle down and live in peace, which corresponds to the title of this essay "Have the ability". "Impermanence is permanent" appears repeatedly in the book. It can be seen that only by having the ability can we remain unchanged in response to all changes, and we can act magnanimously and smoothly.
"Continue to practice the skills that best enable you to live a stable life. If you have the ambition to move around the world, if you don't have the ambition to live alone, be calm and calm."
Because the uncle already has everything, standing and talking does not hurt his back, And it is difficult for me to be calm and calm. If I were in his shoes, I could be calm and calm. It can be seen that in order to do what the uncle said, I must have the ability. How important it is to have the ability. But I think if I read more of Uncle's "Have Ability", I will definitely become more capable.
The uncle’s words are always rough and unreasonable. Although sometimes I can’t help but laugh when I read them, and I blame the uncle for being too explicit in his words, they are quite reasonable and his thoughts on some issues in life are also very clear and clear. . I think if you are confused about life, you may be able to find the answer in the book.
In the article "Let's Just Talk About Straight Men's Cancer", the uncle talks in a self-deprecating tone about online violence, how black fans treat him, and what he thinks about it. Feng Hei, a male, feels that his uncle is too narcissistic. In fact, since the uncle is so powerful, it's better to allow him to be narcissistic. It's better than ordinary belief, isn't it? The female Feng Hei accused straight men of cancer. The uncle introduced in detail the three symptoms and four causes of cancer in straight men. In the end, I came to the conclusion that being straight is not a disease, it is nature. Straight male cancer is a disease. "I am at best a straight man's cancer." Among them, the second point among the cancer symptoms for straight men mentioned by the uncle:
"If a beautiful woman becomes a family member, she must not be allowed to drink to her heart's content, walk freely, and achieve a lot."
I think this is common in real life, and these men have such low ideological awareness that they don’t even know that their ideas are wrong, which makes me very anxious. I once met a boy who had very strict requirements for his girlfriend's appearance. She could not have plastic surgery, she must keep her hair long and straight, and so on. Then I told him that even if a girl is your girlfriend, she is an independent individual and has the freedom to change her appearance. Turns out he said this was what he wanted from his girlfriend. I just think that as a boyfriend, you can make suggestions and the girl will consider them instead of you making the decision for her. This is too pitiful and girls are not respected. I decisively broke up with this boy.
Human life is too short, it is better to waste your time on people who are worthy. For example, it is better to read this book than to make some friends that are not there in life. Chatting with Uncle Feng Tang will make life more transparent and interesting.