Writing about Ni Ni’s life experience and love history, Master Hong Yi’s life story immediately came to my mind: the intersection of sorrow and joy.
It was October 1942. In a small room in a nursing home in Quanzhou, Fujian, the sixty-year-old monk Li Shutong was seriously ill and lying on his side of the bed, but he was still calm and kept chanting sutras. . However, at about 8 p.m., when someone walked into his room, they found that the old man had no vital signs and passed away peacefully.
Although the old man has passed away, his face is like a peach blossom. On the small table beside the bed, there are four words "a mixture of sorrow and joy". He has solid calligraphy skills and a sharp pen. It is not written on the front of the letter paper. Instead, it is written on the back, which is easy to recognize but not easy to recognize.
Life is like the sun on the west mountain, and wealth is like frost on the roof.
Sadness is compassion, Xin is joy and harmony. Joy.
What has Ni Ni experienced in her life that reminds me of these four words?
Ni Ni, an actress from Mainland China, was born on August 8, 1988. Nanjing, Jiangsu, is now 33 years old. Single, sexy, talented, and beautiful.
Ni Ni has no background. >
In 2011, with the heroine Yu Mo in the classic movie "Jinling Thirteen Hairpins" directed by Zhang Yimou, she became a popular "Mou Girl" and made her official debut in "Jinling Ten." In "Three Hairpins", all the famous actresses are stunning, but the limelight is taken by Ni Ni. She is enchanting, sexy, but stubborn, a bit like the early Gong Li, but she is simpler than Gong Li, and Gong Li is a bit wild.
In the film, Yu Mo looks dramatic when sitting, standing, walking, and smoking. It makes people mistakenly think that Ni Ni was a mature actress back then. I never thought that in this film It was her "debut" in the film industry.
In 2013, when Ni Ni fell in love with Feng Shaofeng, her fame reached its peak, and she was known as one of the four most beautiful actresses in today's film and television. , first produced in 2000, were Zhao Wei, Zhang Ziyi, Zhou Xun and Xu Jinglei. Talented people emerged from generation to generation. Later, several batches were selected. By 2013, they were Yang Ying, Liu Shishi, Yang Mi and Ni Ni.
Today, Yang Ying, Liu Shishi and Yang Mi are getting married, divorced, and seemingly separated. Only Ni Ni, after several emotional tug-of-wars, is now single and enjoying sad happiness.
There are many famous people. When Ni Ni entered the film industry 10 years ago, because she was not a professional, there were many rumors about her life experience. Some said she was Ni Ping's niece, and some said she was her niece. His father had been friends with Zhang Yimou for many years, but Ni Ni later rejected them one by one.
The actual situation is that Ni Ni’s parents were ordinary workers, and their relationship was not good. When Ni Ni first became famous, her mother was not. She knew how to use computers, and once voted for her, she cast the wrong vote, causing Ni Ni to vote for herself. Ni Ni got angry for a while and yelled at her mother: "Do you know how much negative impact this will have on me?" "
That's normal. Back then, Ni Ni was on her way up and had a tough personality. Especially after witnessing all the chaos in the entertainment industry, she thought that with her own strength, she should be more famous than she is now. Although She studied language communication and graduated from Nanjing University of Communication, not acting. She was admitted to university at the age of 19 and repeated her studies for another year.
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In public. , Ni Ni once said that she had never been in love during college. I didn't believe it, but I can understand why she said that. It is also self-protection for people to have reservations about their sad history.
At the press conference of "That Year in a Hurry", Peng Yuyan generously revealed his first love: "When I first fell in love, I fell in love with the girl in the next class, and later she fell in love with my good friend. "Zheng Kai also revealed his first love, so Ni Ni also said something: "When I was in elementary school, I had a crush on the senior of the swimming team, but his boss just said one sentence to me, and nothing happened. ”
Ni Ni is good at swimming and is a national second-level swimmer.
When she was in the sixth grade of elementary school, she was 1.64 meters tall. She was accosted by a senior in her senior year of high school. The senior asked: "I didn't notice you before. How old are you and which school are you from?" Ni Ni said: "This is my school. Yes, I'm in sixth grade." The senior realized that Ni Ni was too young to play with children's feelings, so he withdrew.
What a kind and lovely senior.
The senior’s words lightly affected Ni Ni’s feelings about men.
However, when Ni Ni was a child, she was not as reluctant as she is now. At least, she was not attractive or alluring. It made people feel depressed, and even forced people to pursue her.
Ni Ni’s debut took a lot of trouble. In 2009, Zhang Yimou was going to shoot "The Thirteen Hairpins of Jinling" and asked deputy director Pu Lun to go to Nanjing to select the heroine. The requirements are strict, you must be from Nanjing, you must be able to speak Nanjing dialect, and you must be able to speak foreign languages. The most important thing is to have a little bit of that: the rippling in the bones, not a wave, nor a coquettishness, but a charming and vigorous one, which makes men feel unsteady, but there is no sluttishness at all.
Zhang Yimou's requirements are high, but the assistant director searched various universities in Nanjing, and several months passed without finding anything. Later, Ni Ni's teacher recommended him Ni Ni from the broadcasting department. Pu Lun glanced at Ni Ni and knew that she had it.
Ni Ni looks a bit sweet, but if you look closely, she is a bit irritating. If you look closely, she is a bit bitter, a bit sad and stubborn. But it is very easy to make men feel affection.
Ni Ni’s eyes were full of desire.
When Zhang Yimou was casting the film, he also lamented: There are too few pure girls nowadays. Ni Ni has been highly regarded since her role as Yu Mo in "The Thirteen Hairpins", but her fate was unlucky. As soon as the filming was completed, she was involved in the "separation of two families". To put it simply, Zhang Weiping, the boss who has been working with Zhang Yimou for a long time, no longer wants to work with Zhang Yimou because he interferes too much in Zhang Yimou's filming, and Zhang Yimou is also very angry. When the two first collaborated, they agreed that Zhang Yimou would be responsible for the art part and Zhang Weiping would be responsible for finding the money.
But as time went by, Zhang Weiping felt that there must be more sex scenes in the movie, otherwise no one would like to watch it. I know a director, and the first thing he said to me was that I would never make an art film.
Director Zhang Yimou is destined to have artistic pursuits. He is also interested in sex scenes, but he will never do sex scenes for the sake of sex scenes.
In fact, Zhang Yimou also made a lot of compromises for Zhang Weiping. In "Jinling Thirteen Hairpins", Ni Ni's kissing scene was added. This is quite difficult for a girl who doesn’t have much emotional experience. It is said that Ni Ni couldn’t get through several shots and couldn’t kiss her to say goodbye.
However, later, her emotional experience seemed to teach her this lesson.
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So what impact will the "separation of the two families" have on Ni Ni? Because Zhang Weiping controls the actors, filming is not allowed without his consent. Since then, Zhang Yimou has been very good to Ni Ni, but at that time he was involved in the "extraordinary scandal" and was sued by an actress who was not reused and fined more than 7 million. Money is a small thing, he has it, but it affects his mood. Therefore, I was too busy to take care of Ni Ni.
Some information shows that at that time, someone wanted to destroy Ni Ni and concocted a "four-fold door" for her, including a photo door: some large-scale photos before entering the industry were actually made out of nothing; plastic surgery It was revealed that she had had nose plastic surgery and double eyelid surgery, but in fact she had not done so, because Zhang Yimou did not use any actors who had plastic surgery, and neither did Feng Xiaogang.
In addition, there are naturally unwritten rules and so on, but in fact there are none. She is clean, she was personally selected by the assistant director and recommended by the teacher, and Ni Ni did not have high hopes at the time. , but wanted to get "free training".
Unexpectedly, the training lasted nearly three years. Even smoking and drinking are practiced. Think about it, let her play the role of a prostitute as soon as she comes on, and she has no love experience, what a huge challenge. Fortunately, it's not like Tang Wei, who has so many sex scenes. Otherwise, she would definitely not be able to bear it.
Well, after "Jinling Thirteen Hairpins", Ni Ni suddenly had no filming. As she said herself: "Everyone thinks I am famous, but in fact I am an empty air."
But I have to say that Zhang Yimou was also one of the men who changed her destiny.
Later, in order to maintain popularity, Ni Ni took photos in various fashion magazines, so that everyone gradually forgot about the jade ink she performed in "Jinling Thirteen Hairpins", because originally everyone thought jade ink was She is a mature woman, not a young girl.
This gives people the impression that Ni Ni is a fashionable girl who relies on hype, connections, and people who swipe the screen sooner or later. Because she was very sexy and in good physical condition, Ni Ni once joked: "Don't be greedy for my body." Of course, by this time, Ni Ni had already been in love several times, her body had relaxed, she was more relaxed and less tight.
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In April 2012, Ni Ni ushered in her first official relationship. She was invited to a Harper's Bazaar dinner, where she met Feng Shaofeng, who played the "Eighth Prince" in the TV series "Gong Lock Heart Jade".
Feng Shaofeng is 10 years older than Ni Ni. His pursuit method is very special but not special, that is, he does practical things for Ni Ni and puts practical things into her heart. First, he took the initiative to help Ni Ni and Zhang Weiping in their lawsuit. What does it mean to litigate with Zhang Weiping? It means there is no more scenes to film. Who is Zhang Weiping?
That was easy. Feng Shaofeng used his connections to find movies for Ni Ni and set up a studio. Ni Ni starred in "Waiting for the Wind", "I Want to Be Good with You", etc. Film and television works, and Ni Ni, Yang Ying, Liu Shishi, and Yang Mi were rated as the Four Little Actresses. She was in the limelight for a while and was about to join the first-line actors. Ni Ni was so moved that she quickly fell into his arms. .
Feng Shaofeng’s love history is very complicated. Almost every time he shoots a movie, there will be a love story with the heroine. Later, there are rumors of a relationship with Zhao Liying. It is said that the Internet is paralyzed. Click on Weibo The number of likes and comments has reached one million, which shows that young people are very leisurely and are so active in learning that they are afraid that several postdoctoral fellows have finished their studies.
On May 20, 2012, Internet Valentine's Day, 25 seconds apart, Feng Shaofeng and Ni Ni posted photos on Weibo of their representatives expressing their love with a sticky middle finger ring, spreading dog food to their fans.
In the beginning, Feng Shaofeng was very impulsive and said a lot of things that later seemed childish, but I believe he was sincere at the time and the two of them truly loved each other.
For example, Feng Shaofeng said: "If I break up with Ni Ni, I will pronounce my name backwards." Also: "Dear Mr. Ni: Ever since you walked into my life, my days have been like colorful glass balls. When I think of you, my heart is filled with colorful flowers. After having you, all girls It’s just bullshit in my heart.”
Haha, Feng Shaofeng is also a true-hearted person, but now, he and Zhao Liying are also divorced.
This is how I see it. For Feng Shaofeng, he must be hurt by the failure of any relationship or marriage, and he cannot be easily defined as a "scumbag". As long as we are together, there is no deception, and both of us are sincere. Times have changed, there is no right or wrong, only suitable or inappropriate, but love, if we are not together, who knows.
The relationship between Feng Shaofeng and Ni Ni lasted for three years before they broke up. Some said that Feng Shaofeng’s mother was dissatisfied with Ni Ni, and some said that the two had incompatible personalities. Anyway, after the two separated, Ni Ni cried , I was in pain, and numbed myself with overeating, and often suffered from insomnia.
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Just as Li Zongsheng sang about the relief and helplessness after a broken love in "When Love Is a Past", "One day you will know that life without me is not the same." "It will be different." If you are hurt by love, you still have to save it through love. Less than a year later, the relationship between Ni Ni and Jing Boran became a hot topic. At the same time, because of this relationship, Ni Ni's acting career also took a step forward. , successively participated in popular movies such as "Qi Men Dun Jia" and "The Legend of Wukong".
It’s a pity that two years later, this relationship had problems again, and Ni Ni and Jing Boran announced a peaceful breakup.
In fact, when Ni Ni and Feng Shaofeng were getting along, Jing Boran had a very fond impression of Ni Ni and showed his affection on various occasions. But later they actually got together. Jing Boran said in an interview: "I like to be clean. Clean girls don’t like heavy makeup. If they are in love, they will choose Ni Ni. If they get married, they will choose Zheng Shuang.”
But Jing Boran said in another interview with Venus: “ Angelbaby, Ni Ni, Zheng Shuang, who is suitable to be a wife?"
Jing Boran blurted out: "Baby." Jin Xing asked: "It's because baby is getting married soon, so choose baby. Who to choose?" Jing Boran said to Ni Ni.
Of course, I think this is normal. But some people say that Jing Boran is very wise and separates love and marriage. I don't agree.
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Love needs to be talked about, and life must go on.
On November 21, 2019, some media exposed news of a suspected relationship between Ni Ni and Chen Kun. Some media even claimed that Ni Ni was photographed spending the night at Chen Kun's house.
After the news was exposed, Chen Kun immediately came out to refute the rumors, saying that he and Ni Ni were neighbors, and it was normal to eat and drink together and call each other brothers and sisters, and it was not a relationship.
Also in August 2019, when Ni Ni celebrated her birthday, Chen Kun immediately posted on Weibo to send his blessings, calling her "Ni Xiaoni" and adding a bunch of photos of the two of them.
In public, Chen Kun and Ni Ni often hold hands and behave intimately, but the two said that they are not in a romantic relationship. No, it's not. Men and women can also become good friends. It mainly depends on their feelings and feelings, and whether they are willing. As long as the two of them are willing to do anything, others are not allowed to make irresponsible remarks. Only blessings, may the tree of their friendship be evergreen.