time goes by ...
Qinghai-Tibet still knows the way, and Pingsha has nowhere to summon souls.
After years of war, the people are living in dire straits. Many battles ended in failure. I see corpses everywhere, and I hear people moaning. Do you want to continue your campaign? Do you believe that persistence is victory? No, a young woman came out quietly. She gave up the jade fence, gave up extravagance and luxury, and gave up gold and silk. In the long yellow sand, although the crooning of wild geese increased the bitterness in her heart, she was still deeply gratified. Because she knows that the reward she gets from doing this is national stability and unity, and she will see people live a leisurely life. She chose to give up her wealth, and she had no regrets all her life.
time goes by ...
Picking chrysanthemums under the east fence, you can see Nanshan leisurely
Tao Yuanming, who "picks chrysanthemums under the east fence and sees Nanshan leisurely", has a bumpy career. Think about his life experience. How many times did he fail? How many life experiences did he give up? I remember when he was working as Peng Lingze, he said to his subordinates, "I didn't bend over for five buckets of rice, I bent over for the children in the village." What does this mean? This means that he is incompatible with the decadent officialdom. He didn't insist, he chose to give up, give up fame and fortune and live in seclusion. He looked at life calmly, smiled at life, sang wine and wrote poems, and spent the rest of his life. Maybe there is nothing wrong with giving up at the right time.
time goes by ...
Spend a life covered with straw in fog and rain.
The flowers outside the window are getting more and more fragrant, and the pen tip is still surging with golden dreams from time to time. A generation of literary giant Su Dongpo thought of you, but I couldn't stop being excited.
You are brilliant and moody. You are the darling of the literary world, however, you are an outcast in official career. Because of your outstanding performance, you were treated coldly by others, envied by others and even attacked by villains. Since the Wutai Poetry Case, you have been cut off from the official life of the upper class. You have been demoted again and again to Lingnan, and you even said, "300 lychees a day, even if you grow up to be a Lingnan person." You have always been full of confidence in life. When you were demoted to Huangzhou, you once made a surprising remark: "Mist and rain are coming." Even if you are optimistic and proud of life, the years are ruthless and the sky is ruthless. Can you stand being demoted again and again? You finally chose to give up the pursuit of career, even in the desolate and remote Hainan Island. You have been an official all your life, risking your life, going through ups and downs, and finally defeating yourself. Yes, it's all the fault of persistence. Maybe there is nothing wrong with giving up.
time goes by ...
Give up the autumn moon in the Han Palace, gain fame and fortune, reward ambition and talent, and finally be able to smile at life with a detached attitude in the historical picture. History tells us that there may be nothing wrong with giving up.
Smile and face failure
"If one can face failure calmly, then every success must be happy and unforgettable." I forget who said this, but I believe it is absolutely true, because I have personal experience.
It was last year, and I participated in the 12th national "Golden Ball Cup" calligraphy competition. Usually, at school, I am definitely an excellent calligrapher, but I am not an excellent calligrapher, because my classmate Chen is obviously better than me. Under her aura, I feel a little inferior. With the idea of "focusing on participation", I tried to be cannon fodder. As a result, Chen won the gold medal, while I only won a bronze medal, but I didn't even win a silver medal. This is really frustrating.
When I got home, my mother knew the situation and encouraged me to say, "Failure is the mother of success. Don't worry too much about failure. It took Columbus 14 years to realize his planned voyage. " Edison failed to invent the electric light 1000 times; What is your little failure? "
It is also right to think about it. Knowing the news of the 13th "Golden Globe Cup" calligraphy competition, I secretly cheered and said to myself, "Try again, it is good to succeed, and smile when you fail." I bought a hard pen Copybook for calligraphy a long time ago, and I read it whenever I have time, trying to figure out the structure of the bookshelf and imagine the strength of using a pen. The students were fascinated by me and didn't agree. Some students are a bit mean, and they even quipped, "No matter how hard you try, a grass chicken can't be a phoenix." Every time this happens, I really want to swear and even give up my efforts. But when I think of my mother, I calm down again. When I think of Columbus and Edison, I feel ashamed of my thoughts.
As the saying goes, "haste makes waste", especially when practicing calligraphy, impetuous emotions are the biggest enemy. Whenever I feel stressed, when I think of possible failure, I pick up the mirror and smile at myself. I looked at my smile in the mirror and relaxed myself calmly. Gradually, I found the feeling of practicing calligraphy and made a great leap.
On the day of the competition, I finished my "masterpiece" with the spirit of 12.
A few months later, I received a letter from the "Golden Globe Cup" jury, and I won the gold medal. Ah, I am ecstatic, with a bronze certificate in my hand, and I don't know where to put it. What makes me happier is that I no longer worry about failure, and I can face the blow of failure with a smile.
After that, I want to say: "Nothing is difficult in the world. As long as you smile at failure and persist in your own efforts, success is always visible. "