The full text of Disciples Rules is easy to understand;
General narration
Abstract: Disciple Rules, originally named Xun Mengwen, was written by Li Yuxiu, a scholar during the reign of Kangxi in Qing Dynasty. Its content adopts Article 6 of The Analects of Confucius, that is, "Disciples are filial, younger brothers are close, sincere and trustworthy, and love all people, but kindness is more than mechanical literature" and the meaning in Zhu's Primary School, which is composed of three words and one sentence, two sentences and one rhyme. This primary school is a primary school in the Three Character Classics. It teaches people to do things, to cope with them, to advance and retreat, and to be filial first. However, this book is hundreds of years away from us, and some words in it are far from the current social situation. Therefore, Li Yuxiu in Qing Dynasty rewrote Xun Mengwen based on the main points of primary school, listing the etiquette and norms that children should have when they are at home, going out, treating others and studying, with special emphasis on family education and life education. Disciple Rules, revised and adapted by Jia Cunren in Qing Dynasty, is the best reading for enlightening self-cultivation, educating children to "try their best to be idle and honest" and cultivating loyal family style.
Filial piety when entering.
Parents should call, don't drag down their lives, and don't be lazy.
Parents should respect and listen to their responsibilities.
Vernacular: Parents should answer the phone in time. It won't take long to answer. If parents have something to explain, they should start at once, without delay or laziness. Parents teach us the truth of being a man and doing things for our own good, and we should listen respectfully. When parents blame and admonish themselves for doing something wrong, they should accept it with an open mind and not argue irrationally to make their parents angry and sad. A gentleman smells joy, but a villain smells anger. )
It's warm in winter, warm in summer and calm in the morning.
Sue when you go out, but face it.
Vernacular: Be considerate in serving parents. Huang Xiang (Xiang Jiuling), a 24-year-old, will help his father cool his bed before going to bed in summer and warm his bed when it is cold in winter. It is really worth learning. After getting up in the morning, you should visit your parents first and say hello to them. After returning home in the afternoon, you should tell your parents what happened outside today, and report your safety to your parents to reassure the elderly. When you leave home, you must tell your parents where you are going. When you get home, you must report to your parents in person to reassure them. At ordinary times, we should keep the normal routine and do things regularly. Don't change it at will so as not to worry your parents.
Although things are small, don't be overjoyed.
Although things are small, don't hide them.
Vernacular: Even if it is a small matter, don't be willful and make a decision without telling your parents. If you are willful and easy to make mistakes, it will be detrimental to your duties as a child, so it is unfilial to worry your parents. Although the public property is small, it can't be privately taken for yourself. If you hide it, your character will be lacking, and your parents will be very sad to know.
Do what you like, do what you hate, and do what you want.
Physical injury worries parents, while moral injury shames parents.
Dear, why is it so hard to be filial to me and hate my filial piety?
Pro-advice makes me more comfortable, my color is softer and my voice is softer.
If you dare not remonstrate, you can cry and scold.
Vernacular: Parents should try their best to prepare what they like and carefully remove what parents don't like (including their own bad habits). Take good care of your health, don't let yourself get hurt easily and worry your parents. (Ceng Zi said that "parents with physical problems dare not harm them"). Pay attention to your moral cultivation and don't do anything immoral to humiliate your parents. When parents love us, filial piety is easy; When our parents don't like us, or the discipline is too strict, we are just as filial, and we can also reflect on our own behavior, understand our parents' wishes, try to mend our ways and do better. This kind of filial piety is the most commendable. When parents are at fault, be careful to persuade them to be good. Be sincere when persuading, and your voice must be soft and pleasant. Confucius said, "Color is difficult." If parents don't listen to persuasion, wait patiently until there is a suitable opportunity, such as when parents are in a good mood or happy, and then continue to persuade; If parents still don't accept it, or even get angry, at this time, although we are so sad that we cry, we also ask our parents to make up for it. Even if you are beaten, you have no regrets, so as not to trap your parents in grievances and let them make mistakes again and again, making a big mistake.
If you are sick, try it first and stay in bed day and night.
It is often sad to live in a land of sorrow and joy after three years of mourning.
Worship the deceased, offer sacrifices, and serve the deceased honestly.
Vernacular: When parents are sick, children should take care of them wholeheartedly. Once they are seriously ill, they have to wait on them day and night, and they can't just leave. After the death of parents, during the period of filial piety (three years of ancient ceremony), we should always remember and feel the kindness of parents' upbringing. One's daily life must be adjusted and changed, one should not covet enjoyment, and abstain from alcohol and meat (please refer to the Tibetan scriptures, how dutiful sons bless the dead). Dealing with parents' funeral should conform to etiquette, not sloppy, not extravagant for face, which is true filial piety. (The Analects of Confucius: Live with courtesy, do with courtesy, die with courtesy, be buried with courtesy, and sacrifice with courtesy. Be sincere when you worship, and be as respectful to your deceased parents as before. (The Analects of Confucius: Sacrifice is like being present, and sacrifice to God is like being present. )
Go out and be young.
Brothers are friends, brothers are respectful, and brothers are filial.
What's the point of hating property? What's the meaning of words?
Vernacular: Brothers and sisters should love brothers and sisters, and brothers and sisters should know how to respect them. Brothers and sisters can live in harmony, parents are naturally happy, and filial piety is also among them. If you don't haggle over property when you get along with others, resentment can't be generated. Words can be tolerant, say more good things, don't say bad things, hold back angry words, and unnecessary contradictions and resentment will naturally disappear. Words are the door to good or bad. Confucius has four subjects: morality, speech, politics and literature. This shows the importance of words. )
Or after eating or taking away the old and the young.
Call a person long and call a person far away.
Vernacular: a good life education should be cultivated from an early age; Whether you are sitting or walking, you should be humble and polite, and the elders should follow the order, giving priority to the elderly and putting the young behind. An elder should summon someone for something. If that person is not here, ask what it is. Help if you can, but tell him if you can't. (Dr. Sun Yat-sen said: "The purpose of life is to serve, not to take." The Youth Code clearly points out that helping others is the foundation of happiness. )
Don't call your elders by their first names. I can't do it now.
Lu Yu's long illness worsened, and he was speechless, ready to stand.
It's still more than a hundred steps to dismount and get off.
Vernacular: call your elders by their first names, be modest and polite in front of them, and don't show off your talents; When you meet your elders on the road, you should greet them. When they have nothing to do, you should stand back respectfully and wait for them to leave. Gu Li: Whether riding a horse or riding a car, you should get off the horse or get off the bus to greet your elders on the way. You can't leave until your elders go a little further, about a hundred paces. (Respecting the elderly and respecting the virtuous)
Don't sit for the elderly. Sitting for the elderly is sitting for a lifetime.
It is not appropriate to whisper in front of elders.
Advance is retreat. Don't move if you have a problem.
Treat your father like a father and treat your brother like a brother.
Vernacular: Stay with the elders. When the elders are standing, the younger generation should stand with them and not sit by themselves. After the elders sit down, they are told to sit down before they can sit down. When talking to elders, the voice should be soft and moderate, and the volume of the answer is too small to hear clearly, which is also inappropriate. If you have something in front of your elders, you should step forward quickly and respond slowly, which is in line with etiquette. Listen attentively when the elders ask questions, and don't look around.
Treat uncles, uncles and other elders with the same filial piety and respect as your own father, and treat brothers (cousins) of the same race with the same love and respect as your own brothers.
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careful
It is easy to cherish this time by getting up early and going to bed late.
Wash your hands, gargle and urinate in the morning.
Vernacular: To be a child, you should get up early, seize the time and work hard in time. If you often stay up late or even stay up late, it will not only be bad for your health, but also affect your daily routine. Time and tide wait for no man, so cherish youth. A young man who doesn't work hard is pathetic. After getting up in the morning, be sure to wash your face, brush your teeth and rinse your mouth to refresh your mind and get off to a good start. Be sure to wash your hands after urinating, develop good hygiene habits and ensure your health. To prevent enterovirus, you should learn to wash your hands and carefully rub your palms, backs of your hands and fingers. It's time for people to encourage themselves when they reach middle age. Time goes by and waits for no one. )
The crown must be straight, the buttons must be fastened, and the socks and shoes must be important.
The clothes with a crown are positioned, so don't mess them up and cause pollution.
Clothes are expensive, but cleanliness is not. China calls home.
Don't be picky about your diet, but don't overdo it.
Vernacular: Pay attention to the neatness and cleanness of clothes, wear the right hat, fasten the clothes, wear socks evenly, and fasten the shoelaces, otherwise you will easily stumble, so it is advisable to wear everything with stability and dignity. After returning home, clothes, hats, shoes and socks should be positioned to avoid clutter, and it will take half a day to find them when necessary. Focus on the overall situation, focus on small things, and develop good living habits, and you will be half successful. Dressing needs to be neat, not expensive, famous and gorgeous. Dressing and dressing should consider one's own identity and occasion, and also measure the economic situation of the family. This is the way to manage the family. Don't save face, and don't let vanity decide. Unnecessary spending is a waste. ) Pay attention to balanced nutrition in daily diet, eat more fruits and vegetables, eat less meat, not picky eaters, not partial eclipse. Always eat eight points full, avoid excessive consumption, so as not to increase the burden on the body and endanger the health.
Don't drink when you are young. Being drunk is the ugliest.
Take your time, stand up straight and take a deep bow to show your respect.
Not practicing the threshold, limping, leaning back, leaning back, shaking a moustache.
Vernacular: drinking is harmful to health, so you should obey the law. Teenagers are not allowed to drink alcohol. Adults should not drink too much. Let's see how much right and wrong this drunkard has caused by talking crazy and exposing his dirty laundry. ("The Analects of Confucius": "Good food is not tired of essence, and details are not tired." Master warned us not to be too particular about food and not to be too meticulous about cooking. Laozi said: saints don't aim at the stomach. Diet is to fill the stomach, not to satisfy the mouth. Today's civilized cases, such as cancer and diabetes, are mostly caused by overnutrition and unbalanced nutrition. It should be noted that over-processed and exquisite foods contain chemical additives, which are harmful to health and unfit for consumption. When walking, the pace should be calm and steady, unhurried and unhurried; Stand up straight, stand up straight, hold your head high, be full of energy, and don't stoop and become dejected and despondent. Stand like a pine and cypress, walk like the wind, sit like a bell and lie like a bow. Greeting others, whether bowing or handing, should be sincere and respectful, not perfunctory. Don't step on the threshold when entering the door, don't stand askew, don't stretch your legs when sitting, and don't shake your legs. These are frivolous and arrogant actions, and they are not gentlemanly.
Don't touch the edge when you slowly open the curtains.
If the virtual device holds the rest and enters the virtual room, if someone.
Don't be too busy to make mistakes, don't be afraid of difficulties and don't be careless.
Vernacular: When entering a room, you should gently and slowly lift the curtains and open the door to avoid making noise. When walking or turning indoors, you should be careful not to touch the edges and corners of objects to avoid injury. Be careful when taking things, even if you are holding an empty vessel, be as careful as if it is full of things, and don't fall or break it. When you enter an empty room, you should act like someone is there, not casually. Don't be in a hurry, because you are prone to make mistakes when you are busy, don't hesitate to retreat because of difficulties, and don't be hasty and handle things casually.
Never go near noisy places and never ask anything.
Ask who will get started and who will save, and you will hear voices in class.
People ask who is right to name me, and I don't know.
Vernacular: Anyone who is prone to quarrels and fights, such as gambling and pornography, should dare to refuse and stay away from it to avoid being adversely affected. Some evil, obscene, absurd things should also be declined, don't listen, don't look, don't ask questions curiously, so as not to pollute the kind heart.
Before you start, you should ask, "Is anyone there?" Don't rush in. Before entering the living room, you should raise your voice to let people in the room know that someone is coming. If people in the room ask, "Who is it?" Answer the name, not "me, me!" "People can't tell who I am.
Don't ask is stealing.
It is not difficult to borrow characters in time, and it is not difficult to borrow characters in time.
Vernacular: If you borrow something from others, you must make it clear in advance and ask for permission. Taking it without prior consent is stealing. Borrowed things should be used sparingly and returned on time. If there is an urgent need in the future, it is not difficult to borrow it again. As the saying goes, it is easier to borrow than to borrow. )
Don't be stingy when others borrow things from you, as long as you have them.
think
You say your words first, how can you cheat and ridicule?
It's better to talk more than to talk less, but not smart.
Swearing, foul language and gossip are strictly prohibited.
Vernacular: Speak with sincerity first. When you promise others, you must keep your promise. You can't promise anything you can't do. As for deception or rhetoric, you can't use it! (The Analects of Confucius: Keep your word to your friends. Believe in the meaning, and you can answer it. Note: people who repeat reading also need to practice, and the agreed things can only be practiced if they conform to justice. ) It is better to talk more than to talk less, and it is better to talk less than to talk more. Speak appropriately, say what you should, and never say what you shouldn't. In this world, you should be careful what you say and do, and the content of your conversation should be realistic. As the saying goes:' words are just words!' ; Don't sweet talk, it's nice but unreliable. Treacherous language, foul language and vulgar tone of street hooligans should be avoided. (The Analects of Confucius: A gentleman speaks slowly, but acts quickly. )
Don't speak out of turn when you see the truth, and don't spread what you know.
Don't make mistakes if you don't want to.
Where the words are comfortable, don't be hasty or vague.
Gossiping is none of his business.
Vernacular: Don't express your opinions easily until you see the truth. If you don't know things clearly enough, you can't spread them at will, so as not to cause adverse consequences. Rumors stop with wise men. Don't be used by rumors. Don't promise meaningless things easily. If you agree easily, it will lead you to do nothing, and it will be bad if you don't do it, which will put you in a dilemma. Speak clearly, articulate clearly, speak slowly, not too fast, and don't be vague. When you meet people who are right or wrong, listen to them and make wise judgments. Don't be influenced, get involved in right or wrong, and don't mind your own business.
Seeing people's kindness, thinking strange things will go far and gradually converge.
If you see someone who is evil, you will introspect. If you have it, you will change it without adding police.
Vernacular: When you see the advantages or good things of others, you should immediately think of learning to keep up. Even if there is a big difference in ability at present, we should make up our minds to catch up step by step. When you see other people's shortcomings or bad behaviors, you should reflect on yourself and see if you also have these shortcomings. If there is, we should correct it, if not, we should encourage it. (See xian Si Qi how, see not xian and introspection. Confucius said: A threesome. There must be teachers, and those who choose should follow suit, but those who can't be corrected. )
Self-discipline is better than virtue.
Don't be sad if food and clothing are not as good as people.
I have heard of anger, fame, happiness, hurting friends and benefiting friends.
I'm afraid I'll be surprised to hear fame, and I'm afraid I'll be surprised to hear happiness
Vernacular: Everyone should pay attention to the cultivation of their own morality, knowledge and skills. If they feel inferior to others, they should encourage themselves to work hard. As for the way you dress, or eat worse than others, you don't have to worry about it, and you don't have to worry about inferiority. (In The Analects of Confucius, Yan Hui lived in a mean alley. A person could only eat and drink. If he could not bear it, he would be worried, and he would not change his pleasure when he went back. (A gentleman cares about Tao but not poverty) If a person is angry when he hears others say that he is lacking, and happy when he hears others praise him, then bad friends will come to you, and real good friends will gradually alienate and shrink back. On the other hand, when you hear compliments from others, you will not get carried away, but will reflect on yourself, lest you do not do well enough and continue to work hard; When others criticize their shortcomings, they are not only not angry, but also willing to accept them, so honest people will gradually like to be close to us. People respond in groups with the same voice and seek in the same spirit. )
Unintentional is wrong, unintentional is evil.
If the past can be wiped out, if it is concealed, it will increase the bitterness.
Vernacular: An unintentional mistake is called a mistake. If you make a mistake on purpose, it is a crime to make a mistake on purpose. It is the behavior of a brave man to know his mistakes and correct them. Mistakes naturally gradually decrease and disappear. If he refuses to admit his mistake in order to save face, he still has to hide it, which is equivalent to adding mistakes to his own mistakes. Confucius said: knowing what you have done and being able to change it is not a big good thing! Say it again: shame is almost brave. )
Pan lover
Everyone must love the sky and share it with others.
People who walk high have a high reputation, while those who value high are not tall.
A talented person expects to be persuaded by an arrogant person, but he won't talk big.
Vernacular: As long as they are of the same kind, regardless of nationality, race or religious belief, they should love each other. Everything in the world lives and grows together. We must help each other and cooperate with each other, regardless of you and me, in order to maintain this * * * * * * identity. (Species aim at competition. The goal of mankind is mutual assistance and cooperation. People with noble virtues will naturally have a high reputation. Everyone respects his virtue, not his appearance. A talented person, with excellent ability to handle things, has an extraordinary reputation. However, people admire him because of his ability to do things, not because he is good at bragging.
Don't be selfish about what you can, and don't despise what you can.
Don't flatter the rich, don't be arrogant, don't be tired, don't like the new and hate the old.
Don't disturb or talk when others are not idle.
Vernacular: When you have the ability to serve everyone, don't be selfish, just think about yourself and be reluctant to pay. We should learn to appreciate and admire the talents of others, instead of criticizing, jealous or slandering them. Don't flatter the rich, don't be arrogant in front of the poor, or despise them. Don't like the new and hate the old, cherish old friends and don't covet new friends or new things. Don't bother those who are busy. When others are in a bad mood, don't disturb them with gossip, which will increase their troubles and anxiety.
Don't expose people's shortcomings, and don't talk about them.
Kindness is kindness. The more you know, the more you think.
To preach the evil of others is to do evil.
Good advice and morality have caused violations and losses.
Vernacular: Don't expose the shortcomings of others, and don't publicize their privacy. Praising others' good deeds is doing good deeds. When the other person hears your praise, he will definitely encourage good deeds. To publicize the shortcomings or shortcomings of others is to do a bad thing. Too much criticism will bring disaster to yourself. Friends should discipline each other, persuade each other and establish good moral cultivation. If you can't convince each other if you are wrong, then you are both flawed in character.
There are points in taking it, and there are differences in your value. It is advisable to have more and less.
Ask yourself if you want to quit.
Vernacular: The acquisition and giving of property must be clearly distinguished. It is better to give more to others and take less from yourself, so as to get along well with others. Before adding things to others (asking others to do things), we must first ask ourselves: If it were me, would you like it or not? If you don't even like yourself, you should stop at once. Confucius said: Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you. Always put yourself in others' shoes. )
If you want to repay kindness, forget to repay kindness. It's been a long time.
Being a maid and servant is kind and generous, although it is expensive.
Persuade people, or persuade them to be speechless.
Vernacular: People should always think about repaying their kindness. If others are sorry for themselves, they should be lenient and forget it. Don't stay too long and forget the past. Don't always take it to heart, punish yourself and worry about yourself! As for others' kindness to us, we should be grateful, always keep it in mind and always want to repay it. Treat the servant girl at home, pay attention to your own moral integrity and set an example. Although moral integrity is very important, kindness and generosity are more valuable. If we force others to obey in a high position, the other party will inevitably be dissatisfied with it. Only by persuading others with reason can others be persuaded without complaint.
Qin people
The same human beings, uneven, vulgar and benevolent.
Many people are crazy, and they dare not speak out.
It is good to be kind, and it is good to be virtuous and enterprising.
If you don't treat others well, you will hurt the bad guys.
Vernacular: people are all the same, good and evil are evil, but the spiritual level is mixed. There are many laymen who follow the trend, but few who are kind and loving. If there is a benevolent person, everyone will naturally fear him, because he speaks impartially, does not hide anything, and does not please others. So everyone is in awe. It's really great to get close to people with kindness and learn from them, because it will improve our virtue and reduce our mistakes. If you refuse to approach a kind-hearted gentleman, there will be endless harm, because unscrupulous villains will come in and approach us, and over time, our words and deeds will be affected, leading to the failure of the whole life. (near Zhu Zhechi, near the ink is black. )
Li Yu Wen Xue
Who will learn to be flashy without practice?
But don't study literature and make your point of view unreasonable.
Vernacular: You can't practice the duties of filial piety, filial piety, honesty, faithfulness, fraternity and kindness to others. Even if you have some knowledge, it will only increase your flashy habits and become an unrealistic person. What's the use of reading like this? On the other hand, if you just do it blindly and refuse to learn, it is easy to do things according to your own prejudice and blind the truth, which is also wrong. Confucius said, "Learning without thinking is useless, and thinking without learning is dangerous." )
There are three ways to read: heart and mouth.
Don't admire each other when you read this, and don't get up until the end.
Forgiveness is the limit, but effort is the end.
If you are in doubt, follow the notes and seek justice.
Vernacular: Reading methods should pay attention to three aspects: eyes, mouth and heart. All three are indispensable, so that we can get twice the result with half the effort. To learn knowledge, you must be single-minded and specialized in order to go deep. You can't have finished reading this book not long ago, and you still envy other books and want to read other books. You will never settle down. You must finish reading this book before you can read another one. When making a reading plan, it may be easier. In the actual implementation, we should step up our study and strictly implement it. You should not be lazy. After a long time, if you work hard, all the difficulties and doubts will naturally be solved. The golden mean: I have worked hard for a long time. Once I suddenly get over it, everything is fine and rough, and the overall purpose of my heart is unknown. When in doubt at school, you should always take notes. Ask your tutor for advice whenever you have the chance, and you must really understand its true meaning. (Don't be embarrassed to ask)
Several boxes of clean walls, clean pens and inkstones.
Ink grinding is eccentric, improper words are disrespectful, and heart disease comes first.
There is a fixed place to list ancient books, and there is a place to restore them after reading them.
Although there are urgent rolls and bundles, there are defects and flaws that can be made up.
Vernacular: The study should be tidy and the walls should be kept clean. When reading, pens, ink, paper, inkstones and other stationery on the desk should be placed neatly, not messy, and everything should be in order, so as to calm down and study. The ancients wrote with a brush. Before writing, they must grind the ink. If you are absent-minded, the ink will deviate from the center. If your handwriting is crooked, it means you are impetuous. Books and textbooks should be classified, arranged neatly, put in a fixed position, and put back after reading. In spite of the emergency, you should put the book away before you leave. Books are the crystallization of wisdom. If there is a defect, you should repair it and keep it intact. The ancients couldn't find books, so they had to make them up. )
Don't hide your cleverness and ulterior motives unless you are a holy book screen.
Don't give up, don't give up, saints and sages can be tamed.
Vernacular: Books that are not about words and deeds of sages and bad books and periodicals that are harmful to physical and mental health should be discarded, so as to avoid physical and mental pollution, being blinded by wisdom and unhealthy mind. When encountering difficulties or setbacks, don't give up on yourself, don't be cynical, and see nothing pleasing to the eye. You should make up your mind to study hard. Although the realm of sages is high, it can be reached step by step. (Mencius said: the fittest, Antuo also, promising also! Tang Poetry: Advise you not to cherish golden clothes, and advise you to cherish youth. When the flowers should be folded, we should fold them quickly, and don't wait for the flowers to wither before folding one. )