Huang Songting Jian
Ting Jian has been learning and has knowledge from a general point of view. In the tense of 40 years, we can see that Runwu has a surname, Haoyou has a royal family, and the golden beads are full. After several years, I saw that the abandoned fields were not cultivated and the empty fields were not given. A few years later, I saw them again. Some people are tired of the court. He asked, "When your family was prosperous, how did it get so fast?" There is a response: "Hey! My great-great-grandfather began to be worried and diligent, and he was a number of people. His uncle and brother are very kind, and his brother and nephew are very obedient. A son told his mother, "There is no dispute, no hostility over trifles." Add up my brother and uncle. The husband told his wife,' Don't be suspicious, don't take anything for granted. Add up my brother and nephew. So * * * eats ⑦, * * eats ⑨, * * swallows ⑨, * * springs ⑩, * * eats and millet in the hall. Take it cold, and its cloth is the same; When you travel, so does your car. Benevolence is based on righteousness, modesty is based on benevolence, many mothers are like one mother, and many sons are like one son. I am no different from myself, no suspicion of size, no selfless greed, no wealth. The warehouse box is folded in the eye, and the gold silk is closed in the force. Therefore, regardless of official and private governance, wealth and respect. There are many sisters-in-law, many taboo words, different opinions, little courtesy and righteousness, few poems and songs, a wolf face, stars divided into melons, and shame in private rooms. When you meet someone who knows you, you are strong, saying that you are the same family, and your father doesn't care for his son? Husband is heartless and heartless, the aspirant is small and the loser is big. As for danger and isolation, the legacy is not maintained, so it comes faster than suffering. Hearing this, he cried bitterly and said, "Is the family situation uneven? If so, I can think that this is a lesson for my family. "
[Note] ① Full-angle: In ancient times, the front hair of underage men and women was divided into two knots, which looked like a horn, so it was called full-angle. ② Truth (dì): Be careful. Moisturize the house: making the room gorgeous and bright means having money at home. 3 Haoyou: Very rich people. Clothing: refers to officials and gentry. ④(qūn): round barn. ⑤ "lé i xiè": stretch the rope that binds the prisoner to the prison. ⑥ (nǎng γ ng) Time: Once upon a time. Fan Yan: That is reproduction. ⑦ jiāo: Animals that can eat and drink, especially the living. ⑧ (zh Χ): a vessel for holding wine. Pet-name ruby feast. ⑩ Spring: the name of ancient coins. ? Shame protection: it means that what you do is contrary to righteousness, and everything is just shame. ? Masako: A son who can remonstrate with his parents. Controversy: communication. ? Qi: rectification.
[Author] Huang Tingjian (1045— 1 105), a Taoist in Guli, was born in Fenning (now Xiushui, Jiangxi). Writer and calligrapher of the Northern Song Dynasty. Naoshi I first swam under Su Shi's door, and was one of the "Four Bachelor of Su Men". He is as famous as Su Shi and is known as the "Su Huang" of the world. Poetic Du Fu, who can find his own way, is the ancestor of Jiangxi Poetry School. On poetry, it is emphasized that "there is no word and no place" and "taking a fetus and turning iron into gold" have great influence in the Song Dynasty. Being good at calligraphy is one of the "Song Sijia". There is "Gu Ji", and its poem name is "Gu Jing Lu", and its ci collection name is "Gu Qin Interesting Foreign Articles". Another Book Trace has been handed down from generation to generation.
[Appreciation] General family precepts are always in books, either serious or earnest, or proved by history or guided by experience. I hope that the so-called lessons and home wind energy will warn future generations, inherit the future, and keep the family name from falling. However, Huang Tingjian's family precepts are quite clever. There is no narrative of family history, no historical allusions, no alarmist persuasion. It only records a dialogue that may be completely false: the story of the rise and fall of the family was revealed by the well-dressed nobles who used to be in "Happy Ever After", but now they are prisoners and prostitutes. Prosperity lies in harmony and Qi Xin within the family. "I'm no different from myself, I don't doubt quantity, I'm selfless and greedy ..." The whole family is rich and rich; Fading is the opposite. In "Home", "many words are taboo, people are different from me, etiquette and righteousness are declining, poetry and books are rare, people are cruel, and stars are divided into melons ..." So the family was quickly defeated. This is Huang Tingjian's sincere call to the family based on his 40-year experience. Formally, the whole book has a novel angle, and it is written in the form of dialogue. People have their own opinions, repeated sentences and consistent concerns. Although it is a short essay, I can still see everyone's demeanor.