The discipline of jstars has much to do with Qiao Zhiyong's personal pursuit and feelings.
In the social environment at that time, it was incredible that Qiao Liujia didn't obey the family rules and family instructions ~ ~ ~
1 & gt； No concubinage-in order to avoid unnecessary disputes caused by concubinage for future generations, it is a kind of love for the family to have such a request;
2> Don't go whoring-it's to prevent future generations from entering bad places and catching bad habits. What happens with someone is also a protective measure to prevent future generations from making bad friends;
3> Don't mistreat servants-Qiao's family is very kind to servants, not only paying high salaries, but also giving gifts on holidays, even helping servants when they have something, and all the maids in the family must be married women;
4> Don't take drugs-prevent your body from being destroyed and your family from dying;
5> Gambling is not allowed-to prevent financial failure;
6> Don't drink too much-lest you lose your mind and morality.
The above six prohibitions are the basic bottom line, concise but not simple, simple but not shallow, and each one is the basic principle of being a man.
Although there are only 24 words, it clearly tells Joe's family that they should establish their personality in an upright manner, put an end to bad habits, and be pure, gentle and noble.
The six-forbidden family rules and family precepts of the jstars pinned Qiao Zhiyong's hopes on future generations.
At the same time, it also gives a good reminder to modern families. Many times, in the process of educating children, there is a lack of bottom line awareness. Sometimes some behaviors of children are inappropriate, but they are not prohibited. Teach children not only to be gentle and persistent, but also to be gentle and firm, so that they are loving and not doting.
Summary: rules and love go hand in hand, establish a good family style and achieve a better life.