Being a man, doing things and social common sense 1. Life or common sense?
1, often eat supper, will get gastric cancer, because the stomach can't rest.
2, you can only eat four eggs a week, eating too much is not good for your health. 3, chicken * * * contains carcinogens, it is best not to eat.
Eating fruit after meals is a wrong concept, and it should be eating fruit before meals. Eating fruit in the morning is gold, eating fruit at noon is silver, and eating fruit at night is copper.
6. Don't add eggs and ponds to drink soybean milk, and don't drink too much. 7, don't eat tomatoes on an empty stomach, it is best to eat after meals.
8. When you wake up in the morning, drink a glass of water first to prevent stones. 9. Don't eat three hours before going to bed, you will get fat.
10, drink less milk tea, because milk tea is high in calories and oil, and has no nutritional value. If you drink it for a long time, you are prone to diseases such as hypertension and diabetes. 1 1, freshly baked bread is not suitable for immediate consumption! 12, away from the charging stand, the human body should be away from more than 30 cm, not on the bedside.
13, drink eight glasses of water every day. 14, ten glasses of water a day, bladder cancer will not come.
15, drink more water during the day and drink less water at night. 16, don't drink more than two cups of coffee every day. Drinking too much can easily lead to insomnia and stomachache.
17, eat less greasy food, because digestion takes 5~7 hours, and the blood in the brain is concentrated in the large intestine, which will make you sleepy. 18, eat a big meal early after five o'clock in the afternoon, because your body doesn't need so much energy after five o'clock.
19, 10 Food types that will make you happy: deep-sea fish, bananas, grapefruit, whole wheat bread, spinach, garlic, pumpkin, low-fat milk, chicken and cherries. 20, lack of sleep will become stupid, you must sleep for eight hours a day, and you will not get old if you have a nap habit.
Tips for family life12003/0513 Tips for life: Use toothpaste skillfully: If there is a small area of skin injury or burns, applying a little toothpaste can immediately stop bleeding and relieve pain, and also prevent infection, and the curative effect is quite good. 2 2003/05/ 14 Life Tips: Skillfully remove greasy screen windows: You can put the washing powder left by smoking and cigarette butts in water, dissolve it and use it to clean glass windows and screens, and the effect is good.
3 2003/0515 tips for life: put the shrimps into a bowl, add some refined salt and edible alkali powder, rub them with your hands for a while, then soak them in clear water, and then wash them with clear water, so that the fried shrimps can be crystal clear, fresh and delicious. 4 2003/05 1 6 Life Tips: jiaozi Noodles 1 Tips: Add 6 egg whites to1kg flour to increase the protein in the noodles. After the wrapped jiaozi is put into the pot, protein will quickly solidify and shrink, and after jiaozi is put into the pot, the water will be collected quickly, making it difficult to stick to the pot. Residual tea leaves can be dried in the sun and smoked in toilets or ditches, which can eliminate the stench and drive away mosquitoes and flies.
6 2003/0518 Life Tips: Reheat uncooked rice: If it is uncooked rice, you can stick some holes in the rice that go straight to the bottom of the pot with chopsticks, sprinkle a little yellow wine and stew it again. If the surface is only immature, turn the surface to the middle before stewing. Life tip: If you have to cook vegetables, you'd better make full use of water to cook vegetables.
If jiaozi is cooked, appropriate amount of boiled water can be put into the meat stuffing, which not only retains the nutrition, but also makes the dumpling stuffing delicious and the soup delicious. 8 2003/05/20 Life Tips: Scrambled eggs Tips: Beat the eggs into a bowl, add a little warm water, stir them evenly, pour them into the oil pan, and drop a little wine into the pan when frying, so that the scrambled eggs are fluffy, tender and delicious.
9 2003/05/2 1 Life Tips: How to use the casserole 1: When the newly bought casserole is used for the first time, it is best to cook porridge, or use it to boil concentrated rice washing water to block the tiny pores of the casserole and prevent water seepage. 10 2003/05/22 life tips: use the "thirteen spices" skillfully: use dried tangerine peel when stewing meat, which has a strong flavor; Eating beef and mutton with angelica dahurica can remove fishy smell and increase freshness; Cinnamon for homemade sausage is delicious; Bacon smoked chicken with cloves has an endless aftertaste.
1 1 2003/05/23 life tips: jiaozi noodle tip 2: stir the noodles a little harder, put them in a pot, seal them tightly, and simmer for 10- 15 minutes until the gluten in the noodles absorbs water and expands, and then wrap jiaozi 65433. 13 2003/05/25 Life Tips: Don't touch the door glass when washing or drying clothes at high temperature to avoid burns.
When taking out the dried clothes, be careful of the metal parts on the clothes, such as zippers and buttons, to avoid burns. 14 2003/05/26 Life Tips: If the collar and cuffs are dirty, you can soak the clothes in warm water with washing powder 15-20 minutes, and then wash them normally, so that they can be washed clean.
15 2003/05/27 Life Tips: How to Use Casserole 2: When you use a casserole to make soup and stew meat, you should first add water to the casserole, then put the casserole on the fire, first with slow fire, then with strong fire. 16 2003/05/28 Life Tips: When cooking, add some starch to thicken the soup, which not only makes the cooked food delicious, but also protects the vitamins because the starch contains glutathione.
17 2003/05/29 Life Tips: If the rice is burnt, turn off the fire quickly, cover the rice with a hard shell and cover the pot. After 5 minutes, the shell can absorb the burning smell. 18 2003/05/30 Life Tips: The amount of washing powder: If the clothes are not too dirty or there is too much foam when washing, the amount of washing powder should be reduced.
Avoid excessive use of washing powder, which not only saves money and is environmentally friendly, but also makes the washing machine more durable. 19 2003/05/3 1 Life Tips: Add enough water when cooking jiaozi, add 2% salt when boiling, and add it to jiaozi after dissolving, so as to increase the toughness of gluten. jiaozi does not stick to the skin or the bottom, and jiaozi turns white and the soup is fragrant.
20 2003/06/0 1 Life Tips: Many people like to eat vegetables but don't like vegetable soup. In fact, most vitamins have been dissolved in vegetable soup when cooking. For example, after Chinese cabbage is fried, 70% of vitamin C will be dissolved in vegetable soup.
2 1 2003/06/02 Life Tips: If white socks turn yellow, soak them in detergent solution for 30 minutes before washing them. For milk stains on clothes, you can pretreat the stains with detergent and then wash them normally.
22 2003/06/03 Life Tips: How to Use the Casserole 3: When you put the casserole from the top of the fire, you must put it on a dry wooden board or straw mat, and never put it on a tile or concrete floor. Born in June/April 2003.
2. Let's talk about common sense in dealing with people. Thank you.
I recommend you to read some books.
Tan Caigen, Xiao Chuang, Six Chapters of Floating Life, a cautionary tale.
The above are all classical Chinese series. The wisdom of dealing with people mostly comes from the experience of life, one's own view of life and one's own understanding of oneself. We have a history of 5,000 years. Let's face the present life with our own understanding in the experience of our predecessors' life and make our life better.
First of all, you should have the habit of keeping a diary, recording some things that happen to you, writing your own thoughts, what happened to you, why it happened, how to solve it, and how to make yourself better.
Each of us lives with one or two beliefs, and then slowly polishes them to become our own rules and principles for dealing with people. Why not sum up the whole human society in one or two sentences? The times are still progressing and changing. Modern science is so developed that there are still incurable diseases, so many disciplines are still developing, so people's exploration is endless, and so is their own exploration.
Analyze yourself, what kind of person you are, what kind of people you like to associate with, and what kind of people you don't like to contact. Ask yourself more and why. Try to make yourself better
3. Common sense of doing things
In this society where natural selection of the fittest survives, it is very difficult to gain a foothold and achieve certain achievements.
Knowledge is just what you learn in books; Knowledge is not only written, but also the experience learned in society and the methods of dealing with people; Doing things means working hard at work, not being lazy, and pursuing the improvement of work efficiency; Being a man is what you have to do in the working environment, how to make leaders like you, and how to deal with complicated interpersonal relationships. Therefore, it is not enough to have words without knowledge; With knowledge, it is not enough to work hard. Try hard, but if you just do it blindly, it is wrong to do it foolishly; Only by knowing yourself and yourself, knowing what you should and shouldn't do, can you really succeed.
4. What should I learn when dealing with people in society?
Being a man seems simple, but it is actually a profound knowledge. It is really not easy to apply what you have learned. Mastering certain skills in dealing with social interpersonal relationships will make you swim like a duck to water. On the contrary, it is difficult to enter and retreat. There are many such examples in life. As a person, I think I should have the following basic knowledge. This may be my one-sided view, but if it can play a certain role in awakening the world, it will not waste my painstaking writing. Be a man, be good at giving up. Don't always stand on a high diving platform and force yourself to do what you can't do. I have a friend who is now a graduate student. He wants to take the PhD exam again. After several efforts in self-study, I finally entered the ranks of Bo's practice. But when I am old, I can't remember English words and can't take the exam. He was annoyed because he retaken the exam for two years. I encourage you to forget it if you can't take it. Don't give yourself too much pressure. Actually, you're fine now. If you blindly ask yourself to stand at the top of the mountain of life, then when climbing the mountain, you should first consider whether your physical strength can do it, otherwise even if you climb to the top of the mountain and lose your health, what do you think is the point? The friend nodded and said yes. Sometimes, giving up is a beauty. Be the second person and make good friends. A good friend is a mirror that can reflect your own thoughts; Good friends will point out the direction for themselves when they make mistakes; A good friend will help you when you are in trouble; A good friend will never forget to share with you when you are happy or sad. A good friend is your forever companion in the journey of life. Friends have always been a very important part of my life. Things can be lost, but friends can't. I believe it is everyone's wish to make good friends. Third, know how to turn. The man who knows how to turn is a wise man, and he will not let his thoughts enter the valley of death. But in real life, some people, who hit the south wall, don't know how to turn back, don't know how to go backwards, but they still plunge into it. We can only call such people ignorant. Smart people will use reverse thinking to decide the way they should go. In fact, many times, if you change your mind a little, you will get unexpected gains. Let's say qq, the king of modern hard-pen calligraphy, has been written for decades, and none of it has been published in magazines. The editor said that your handwriting was getting better and better, so he adjusted his direction wisely, learned calligraphy and became famous in one fell swoop. This is the advantage of knowing how to turn. If he continues to write, he may still be a nobody.
Be the fourth person and be honest with others. Honesty should be the first criterion in dealing with people. Only by taking off the mask of hypocrisy can people see each other's thoughts clearly, so as to further understand and reach a certain ideological understanding. In fact, many friendships and love develop and coexist in sincerity. Honesty is like a powerful preservative, which inhibits the erosion of loyal love and friendship by all external unfavorable factors. Be the fifth person, give music, be kind. This is the standard to measure a person's love. A caring person doesn't mean that you have to be rich to think of helping people who are more difficult than yourself. A caring person, even if he only drinks half porridge, will give it to him even if he sees a tramp; A caring person, even if his annual salary is very low, has to support his family, and will also take out some money from his meager salary and donate it to children who can't afford to go to college in poor mountainous areas; A caring person doesn't want to make much contribution to society and others, but just wants to get a little help to solve the temporary worries for others. Be a man and learn to be patient. As the saying goes, take a step back and broaden the horizon, endure a moment's anger and solve a hundred days' worries. Indeed, many times, in fact, a little concession can completely reduce or even eliminate contradictions. Things are always solved with a smile. People who blindly pursue victory actually lose a lot when they win, such as image, word of mouth and so on. Concession is neither fear nor cowardice. This is a full expression of love. It can be said that a person who is good at making concessions must be a caring and intelligent person. Because he knows it's a fool's job to punish himself with other people's mistakes. Be a man, study more, read more books in this field, and improve your ability in this field.
5. What are the main points of being a man and doing things?
These days, if you are too honest, you will not only be laughed at by others, but also suffer a lot. However, those who are too smooth and appear treacherous will certainly win the praise of others. In the end, isn't it that cleverness is turned into cleverness? Do we need to learn smooth skills for those of us who are inexperienced?
Here, I still believe that a person should be loyal to himself, master an appropriate life skill, and be tactful in dealing with others, which is conducive to getting along with others, but please don't turn tactfulness into treachery and honesty into mental retardation. The present society is like this, and people are like this. I think it is not too much to live up to my conscience.
6. Basic knowledge of getting along with people
1, don't think highly of yourself, there are people in the world who are indifferent to Zhi Ming, quiet and far-reaching.
When others treat you as a leader, don't treat yourself as a leader. When others don't treat you as a leader, you must treat yourself as a leader. Power is temporary, money is external, the body is your own, and life is long. Don't promise blindly, keep your word.
If you plant actions, you will reap habits; If you plant habits, you will gain character; Plant character and reap fate-habit makes man. 3. Don't easily ask people to treat themselves as others-reduce pain, be normal, treat others as themselves-sympathize with misfortune, understand needs, treat others as others-respect independence, don't invade others, treat themselves as themselves-cherish yourself and live a happy life.
Being able to know others is a kind of wisdom, being known by others is a kind of happiness, and being able to know yourself as a saint. 4. Don't impose on others. It's not necessarily human. The world is the world, so there is no need to be careful.
Three realms of life: seeing mountains is mountains and seeing water is water-the beginning of life; Looking at mountains is not mountains, and looking at water is not water-people reach middle age; See the mountain or the mountain, the water or the water-return to nature. 5. Don't make fun of others and damage their personality. A moment of happiness hurts a lifetime. The whole of life is interdependent, and everything in the world depends on other things, so learn to be grateful.
Grateful for the gift of nature, grateful for the upbringing of parents, grateful for social stability, grateful for the sweetness of food, grateful for the warmth of clothes, grateful for flowers and plants, grateful for adversity. 6, don't lose your temper, one hurts your body and the other hurts your feelings. Everyone is equal in sickness and death-cry, cry.
Be careful that you are reluctant to leave, while others have made up their minds. Life depends on three mountains: Mount Putuo in Jinggangshan and Babaoshan. Take a step back and be calm. If you complain too much, be careful. 7, don't talk too much, silence is golden, listening is a kind of wisdom, a kind of cultivation, a kind of respect, a kind of spiritual communication, calm is a state of mind, a kind of maturity.
8. Don't underestimate the musical instruments that spread beauty and harvest happiness. Musical instrument is a kind of mood, and musical instrument is a kind of strength. While examining beauty by yourself, let others appreciate it. Mind yoga-adjustment, cultivation and transcendence. 9. Don't shut yourself off. Helping others is noble, understanding people is open-minded, tolerating people is a virtue, serving people is fun, the full moon is a poem, the moon is a flower, it is spring to look up, and autumn to bow down.
10, don't bully honest people. Compassion for the weak is a virtue, a realm, a kind of harmony and mental health, so that you can be healthy. You have more temperament if you have measurement. Temperament makes you more popular. With popularity, there are more careers, more good deeds and more self-cultivation. Share it with friends, go to my space and copy the website log address: please copy it with Ctrl+C and post it to your friends.
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7. Basic knowledge of being a man
The characteristics that distinguish people from other creatures: thinking, behavior, tools and high IQ! Man is the tallest species in society. We should not discuss any basic conditions. We should face up to our words and deeds. The conditions for human survival are very simple: air, water and food! People's work is also very simple-breathing, as long as we can breathe, we are still alive.
But we still have a lot of work to do. If you just breathe, ordinary plants and even algae can do it. Then why are we still human? People live in the world and have a lot of meaningful things to do.
People are empty without pursuit. Find something meaningful to do. Duty-responsibility-right, understand it deeply. If you can't figure it out, we can discuss it deeply.