He looked at me from a distance, and his eyes were as distant and sad as rainy days.
Our flame should ignite the world.
4, ten years of life and death, do not think, unforgettable. A lonely grave thousands of miles away, desolate and nowhere to talk about.
When we were children, we cried and laughed. When we grew up, we laughed and cried.
6, has been very shallow, but deep feelings.
7. Mandarin ducks and butterflies leaned quietly on both sides of the window, and they flew away-Phyl's red line.
8. Mourning the grass and setting the sun, half the city is willow and half the flute.
Waste green wax is like a ruby, full of clothes and no memories.
9. Brother, I wish you were dead and wandering.
10, recall failed.
1 1. Living in this precious world, the water waves are gentle and the sun is strong-Haizi.
12, see the world clearly, and then fall in love with it-romain rolland
13, for a long time, we were presumptuous and perverse.
13, after the end, everything is just a flowering process.
14, love is a curse, and we will all become demons. -"The Long Winter"
15, under such redemption, life extends with dignity.
16, years have ruined youth year after year.
17, I miss my seventeen-year-old bike.
18. Missing is a ritual, and real memories are born.
19, to have the simplest life and the farthest dream, even if it's freezing in the cold, the road is long and Xiu Yuan is Xi.
The sun is far away, but there must be a sun.
2 1, in the years, what we lost was a mood.
22. True loneliness is very real.
I hate you for filling my summer so wantonly.
24 years old, life must be very hard.
25. It's all destiny takes a hand. It's all destiny takes a hand.
26, a long time to compete with the moment, sadness refined into transparency.
27. My left hand is an unforgettable firefly, and my right hand is a long meditation for ten years.
28. Elegance refers to quicksand, and old age is a period of time.
29. The candle flickered on the ground.
30. Life is a gorgeous robe full of lice-Zhang Ailing.
3 1, forbearance is helpful, and there is no worry without love.
32. The wind is lingering and listening to the fallen flowers all night.
33. Missing is not a mistake, but a mistake-April.
34. Spread the years on the red carpet and witness our limits.
35. If we are all hoary heads, who will think of the distant past?
Love as if you have never been hurt.
Just like a girl, because she doesn't love you, everything you do is wrong. Because she doesn't love you, everything is wrong.
38. A lotus blooms in Tang Yingying.
Today, I will say goodbye to you forever.
40. It was just a fleeting glimpse of youth, but I tried to use it to coerce you to reveal a kind of sadness.
4 1, I'll wait for you in front, green summer in three thousand years.
42. Resisting a family is just a child's game, and resisting a world is the power of the devil.
43. On the throne of the abandoned family, only the king and the king embraced for warmth.
44. You only have these things, even if they are not as much as others, or even rubbish, you don't want to lose them, do you? I don't want anything.
45. I hate it when people take things that belong to me. I will take back what I lost one by one.
46. The long summer has passed and the years are quiet.
47. After the blink of an eye, the flowers covered by years become blank.
48. Waiting is the oldest in life.
49. Sadness is greater than heart death.
50. Whose loneliness covers my clothes and whose clothes cover my shoulders.
5 1, there are always people who have been caring for each other for twenty years, but they have lost to a naive or coquettish face.
52. Dare to forget how strong it is?
53. Some pasts can never be returned.
54. The phoenix flies, and the four seas seek to burn.
55. Our desire lends the color of the rainbow to the life that is just a mist-Tagore.
56. Many things that we thought we would never forget were forgotten in the days when we never forget them.
2. Read the child's mind. After reading it, junior high school students frequently jump off buildings. How do parents read their children's minds? "Why are children so fragile now, so don't cherish life?" The recent incident of students jumping off a building has raised questions among adults.
In this regard, Ceng Qi, the head of the training of children's psychological counselors in East China Normal University, asked: "How many parents and teachers really understand the spiritual world of children?" Based on the theory of children's psychological counseling and his status as a child's father, he called on adults to create an "ecological environment" for children's spiritual world. Why don't adults understand children's spiritual world? In China, neither family education nor school education has a tradition of respecting and caring for children's spiritual world.
First of all, the evaluation criteria of the whole society are grades and certificates. In parents' small talk, it is always "my child got the first place in this exam" and so on.
School education takes grades as the standard to evaluate students' quality. Students with poor grades are ignored everywhere and have low self-evaluation. Secondly, adults like to take care of children.
Ceng Qi said that many children are unhappy now because adults always let their children do what they want, which leads to a negative emotion in everything children do. Recently, Ceng Qi received a case in which a junior high school student was "forced" by his parents to take a piano exam for a long time. Before this, the child has been very obedient, but recently, the child said very firmly, "I don't want to play, but you want me to play." If you let me play again, I'll stand outside the window. "
"This is something that children have been negotiating with their parents. Nowadays, the relationship between parents and children is often: command-discussion-negotiation-negotiation is over. "
Ceng Qi said that by this time, parents' anxiety and teachers' anxiety will be of no help. [Change of concept] In the era of "blue ocean economy", more emphasis is placed on emotional intelligence. Recently, China Youth Daily published a report entitled "Why top students in teachers' eyes are" high before and low after graduation ". The article said that Chen, a special-grade teacher who has been teaching in Fujian for 37 years, told reporters that he has been educated all his life, and "the most regret and confusion" is "why the top student in his mind has accomplished nothing after leaving school".
Chen explained that teachers always have a mentality, and their academic performance in school is directly proportional to their future social development. But the fact is: students who have excellent grades in school are mediocre after leaving school; Students with average grades in school, even defined as "poor students", have made great achievements in their careers.
He reflected: "Now I understand and believe in the concept of' all students can become talents' and the concept of multi-specification talents." Ceng Qi pointed out that modern society is striding forward from "Red Sea Economy" to "Blue Ocean Economy", which emphasizes people's emotional intelligence, so the evaluation standard of "judging heroes by achievements" should be abandoned.
Communication Skills Parents need to change the way they communicate with their children. After changing the concept, parents also need to master the communication skills with their children. In addition to his professional status as a child psychological counselor, Ceng Qi is also the father of a primary school student. He told his parents some communication skills.
How to respond and affirm children's cognition Parents should give up their condescending attitude, put down their posture and communicate with their children, learn to respect the world in their hearts and feel the world from their children's standpoint. I believe that children can judge and do things. Nowadays, many children are unhappy and insecure at the same time, because adults always do all kinds of things for them, calling them good for children, which actually "deprives" them of their ability to do things, leading children to think that "I can't do it".
To change this situation, parents should learn to let go and give their children a chance to prove themselves. When there is a conflict with children, how to "soft handle" When there is a conflict between children's wishes and parents' expectations, parents should "soft handle" instead of saying "no" stiffly, which will eventually lead to a complete falling out with children.
If this happens more often, the relationship between parents and children will become more and more tense.
3. "Complete Works of Spiritual Stories that Benefit Children for a Lifetime" Excerpts Good Words and Sentences Thanks for Excerpting Tolerance: l Life is like the sea, and tolerance is a boat. Only by boating in the sea can we know the vastness of the sea; Life is like a mountain, tolerance is the path, climb along the path and you will know the height of the mountain; Life is like a song, tolerance is a song, and only by singing with it can you know the beauty of this song.
L tolerance is a kind of beauty. The deep sky endured the temporary ravages of lightning storms, and only in this way can the sun shine brightly; The vast sea is boundless only when the stormy waves are raging for a while; The vast forest temporarily endured the law of the jungle and was lush.
Only by sparing no effort can Mount Tai become taller. Rivers can only become bigger if they don't choose small streams. Tolerance is the towering Mount Tai, and it is the rivers and lakes that accommodate all rivers and lakes.
Life is often complicated and often boring. It is precisely because tolerance is like water that complicated things become pure after filtering; It is because tolerance is like fire that insipid becomes more and more distinct through calcination; It is precisely because of this poetic tolerance that life is endowed with art and eternity.
L tolerance, with a noble and sacred body and fragrant and warm sleeves, will come naturally and blow away the dark clouds all over the sky. No matter how difficult the knot is, no matter how heavy the trouble is, it will be relaxed. Tolerance, an elegant and fragrant character, stretches a tight smile in every casual, even if there are tears on the cheeks. Smile as bright as spring, the whole body is filled with endless comfort, and the chest is full of eternal sunshine.
L tolerance is an extraordinary tolerance, broad mind, tolerance and acceptance of people and things. Tolerance is a noble quality, a lofty realm, a spiritual maturity and a spiritual abundance.
Tolerance is a kind of light of love, a supreme blessing, and it is to let go of others, that is, to be kind to yourself. Tolerance is a kind of wisdom of survival, and the art of life is calmness, self-confidence and detachment gained after seeing through social life.
L Tolerance is a kind of accomplishment, a quality and a virtue. Tolerance is not cowardice, but generosity.
Self-confidence: l choosing self-confidence means choosing to be open-minded and calm, choosing to stand still in front of fame and fortune, choosing to hold your head high in front of forces, raising the sail of self-confidence and showing the style of fighting. If difficulties and obstacles are the night of life, then self-confidence is the torch to illuminate the night.
Confident eyes are proud, confident smiles are mature, confident strength is great, and confident manners are calm. People who give up self-confidence always stand on tiptoe with their eyes and their hands are always hidden in their pockets.
He can only stay in a narrow corner all his life, afraid to move and say nothing. L self-confidence, makes me feel "poor, gas does not change; Da, will not change "generosity; Let me feel the freshness of "the rain wakes up drunk and the flowers bloom and fall"; Let me feel the joy of "sitting without wine is intoxicating"; Let me feel the happiness and sweetness of "water can make love and flowers can melt sadness"
The power of self-confidence lies in that it can help you sail in adversity; The charm of self-confidence is that even if you encounter bad luck, you can summon up the courage to live; The greatness of self-confidence lies in maintaining a lofty heart even in the face of misfortune. Choosing self-confidence means choosing open-mindedness, self-improvement and optimism.
Gratitude: L leaves hover in the air, forming a grateful movement, which is the tree's gratitude to the earth that nourishes him. There are white clouds floating in the blue sky, depicting moving pictures. At that time, Baiyun was grateful for raising his blue sky.
Because of gratitude, there will be this colorful society, because of gratitude, there will be sincere friendship, and because of gratitude, we will understand the true meaning of life. L Gratitude is the appreciation of the gift of life, the liberation of survival, the concern for what we have now, the cherish of limited life, the concern for those who give us life, and the shock of caring for strangers ... l Gratitude is a grass knot and a dripping grace.
Gratitude is a virtue and a realm. Gratitude is a precious opportunity, which is worth waiting for all your life.
Gratitude is a century feat worthy of your life. Gratitude is a kind of love education that you should cherish all your life.
Gratitude is not a noisy moment of gratitude for psychological balance, but a silent and eternal return from the heart. Gratitude makes life full of sunshine and the world full of warmth.
Self-esteem: l Self-esteem is a person's backbone, self-esteem is a fearless spirit, and self-esteem is a moral character that a person must possess. It provides life with not only a kind of support, a kind of dependence and a kind of support, but also eternal enrichment, eternal energy and eternal spiritual motivation.
L Self-esteem is always lost in unconscious relaxation and always appreciated in unplanned efforts. Friend, we don't need to do everything possible to prove it. As long as we walk down-to-earth on sunshine avenue with a normal heart, your dignity will shine in the ordinary.
Life is like a chess game that can never be played. Every step you take will encounter hardships, and every step you take should be full of enthusiasm. Self-confidence, self-esteem and self-improvement, like a note on the road of life, interpret the movement of life. Everyone has self-esteem, and everyone should have self-esteem.
Self-esteem is like an inflated balloon. If you poke a needle, it will send out a big storm. Self-esteem is like a banner, which is above people's work and life feelings; Self-esteem is like an important fulcrum on the lever of life, giving life meaning. Motherly love, fatherly love: l Motherly love is like an idyll, long and pure, elegant and light; Motherly love is like a landscape painting, which washes away the lead sculpture and leaves it fresh and natural; Maternal love is like a deep love song, melodious and melodious, singing softly; Motherly love is like a warm wind, which blows away the snowflakes and brings infinite spring.
Father's love is dignified, silent, melancholy and far-reaching. That kind of dignified love permeates my skin and shakes my heart. It is like solidified magma after volcanic eruption, full of spongy cracks, extremely hard, but it contains the greatest emotion in the world.
It is also like a plow that cultivates the land day and night. It washed me again and again in the rolling black mud waves. In his ordinary silence, he reveals the family affection that he can't give up, and his pay is always greater than his demand. Father is a book, which records the dedication, care and hope for children.
A father is a sea, and his deep love for his children is engraved in his vast heart. L In my father's eyes, I read a wide range of family relationships.
4. What are the good words and sentences in I want to be a good boy? I look forward to being an excellent boy!
1: In the hard work, the teacher is like an excellent gardener, who has nurtured thousands of colorful flowers that are about to bloom.
It never occurred to me that simplicity in mathematics, no matter how simple, would not help.
3. There was a sad cry in the distance, and Jin Ling's nose was sour.
4. Isn't it that Jin Ling is crying every time, just having fun in pain? On one occasion, Jin Ling got the first place 12.
On Sunday morning, the weather was gloomy and the north wind roared, which made the trees stagger.
But I think as long as the teacher is knowledgeable, no matter how fierce, it is worth learning.
7: Jin Ling suddenly became emotional. Pull a long face all day
8. Jin Ling is a kind and simple little fat man who is enthusiastic about helping others. His little face is as fat as a pig's head, and everyone loves him. Every day, he always wears a bright smile.
9: I think someone will create a better world miracle.
10: In the end, it will be countered, so that Yu Panger has to catch it quickly.
5. Reading notes and summary of good words and sentences After reading Father and Son in the Earthquake, among the texts I have read, Father and Son in the Earthquake left the deepest impression on me.
This article is mainly about a father who dug for 38 hours and 50 minutes with the support of firm belief after the earthquake. Finally rescued his beloved son from the ruins.
"No matter what happens, I will always be with you." Relying on this belief, my father ignored people's discouragement and dug blood everywhere with his hands.
This great father's behavior reminds me of myself. I used to see my classmates who participated in the calligraphy interest group write well, so I asked my mother to take me to the calligraphy interest group.
At first, I was very interested and took everything seriously. But after a few days, I found that practicing calligraphy was not as easy as I thought. It is simply a chore: you can't have fun with your classmates during recess, so you can only sit in the classroom and wait for the teacher to teach; It's nothing. The most bitter thing is that the practitioners are sour, and sometimes they are criticized by the teacher for their poor handwriting.
So I began to hate practicing calligraphy. I don't want to go to the calligraphy interest group every recess.
Later, when I saw that the students in the art class painted beautifully, I asked my mother to come to me. My parents also bought me colored pens, drawing boards, drawing paper and pencils.
However, as soon as I started to learn painting, I found it difficult to draw the outline of the painting and to grasp the proportion of the size of the object. I also found it difficult to draw, so I gradually stopped going. In retrospect, I have participated in many interest classes before, but I always give up halfway, and finally I have not learned any skills. This is because I have no firm belief.
After reading the text Father and Son in the Earthquake, I got a great education. It made me understand a truth: no matter what you do, you must have faith, work hard and never give up until you reach your goal.
6. Ask for a sample of the format of the abstract reading notes (copy the original reading notes). (Good words, sentences, paragraphs) Ways and requirements of summarizing reading notes: Abstract, that is, excerpts from the main points in the book. You can also use extremely refined language to summarize the basic content of the article and sort out the context of the article. Copying means copying wonderful words, sentences and paragraphs that you like. Can be copied down. Copying: Copying is the easiest way for beginners, that is, copying all the particularly wonderful chapters, paragraphs or sentences when learning by yourself. Copying once is much more impressive than reading once, so copying helps to remember. At the same time, the copied materials are also conducive to preservation. It is convenient to review the past and learn new things in the future. After copying, the source must be indicated. Note-taking should pay attention to: first, copy those wonderful, valuable and necessary contents; Second, check after copying to ensure that it is correct and indicate the source; Third, it can be copied in a special notebook for easy storage and preservation; Fourth, it would be better if you could write some experiences and feelings at any time after copying; Fifth, pay attention to the consistency with the original when copying.
7. It is urgent to love a girl. It is better to keep her and work hard for her happiness than to give her up for her happiness.
Don't fall in love with a young man, he will regard you as a love school, and once he is successful in official career, he will leave you without hesitation.
The greatest sorrow of a woman is to pay all the pain she has suffered from a man, and call it "tolerance".
When a woman is no longer obsessed, no longer derailed, no longer moody, that is, no longer loves.
Maturity is not the aging of the heart, but smiling with tears in your eyes.
Man-when he doesn't belong to you, let you sigh what is perfect; When he belongs to you, let you sigh what is true.
I didn't know you when you knew me; I know you when you like me; I like you when you love me; You left me and I fell in love with you.
The so-called fate is the reason when love succeeds and the excuse when it fails; The so-called wedding is a ceremony for lovers to become "family"; The so-called breakup is something that a woman may not be able to do once she says it a hundred times, but a man can do it once.
Get angry 1 min, and then lose 60 seconds of happiness.
Only by sharing can happiness be doubled.
Never frown even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.
Never mention it, not because I forget it, but because I remember it.
Tiny happiness is around, and relaxed satisfaction is heaven.
Some people say that love is an invention that needs constant improvement. Unfortunately, this invention has no patent right and will be taken away by others at any time.
The beauty of this world lies not in itself, but in people's satisfaction with it.
Today's efforts are the sweetness of tomorrow, and tomorrow's happiness depends on today.
Everyone has a lot of genius ideas in his mind, but there is still two words between thinking and getting, that is "doing".
Happiness is not a destination you want to reach, but a travel attitude.
What is "love"? The definition of love is easy to be rash, and the definition of not being in love is easy to be mean.
Walking together is fate, and walking together is happiness.
You can't see your whole body with your eyes.
Balloon tells the world with its own destruction that there is a limit to self-expansion.
Girls like men who play guitar because they create poems; Women like men who play with cotton because they create benefits.
Happiness looks beautiful through the glass, but it can't be touched.
A woman says "hate" to you, which means she likes you. When a man says "hate" to you, he really hates you.
The distance between hearts, like the stars in the night sky, seems to be very close, but it is actually very far.
Smart people exchange what they can't keep for what they don't want to lose.
Don't do regrets when you are young, and don't do regrets when you are old.
Love is like multiplication, one of which is zero, and the result is always zero.
Try to make fewer mistakes, which is the criterion of being a man; It is an angel's dream not to make mistakes.
8. "How to read children's emotions" In the first year of life, various basic emotions will appear one after another. Babies can show facial expressions such as interest, pain, disgust and satisfaction at birth, but basic emotions such as happiness, anger, sadness, surprise, fear and disgust generally appear gradually between 2 and 7 months. For example, a newborn baby will show a satisfied or even smiling expression after eating. Novel visual stimuli may arouse the baby's interest, while painful stimuli will cause the baby's sadness and anger.
1, happy
Happy facial expressions are eyes shining or narrowing into a line, cheeks bulging and corners of the mouth smiling; The physiological reaction is rapid heartbeat, irregular breathing and increased skin electricity.
The baby's first expression of happiness is a smile. At first, it was just a reaction after eating or a response to soothing stimuli such as shaking and patting by nurses. This kind of smile is not a response to external stimuli, so it is called a reflective smile. Psychologists believe that these smiles are reflex reactions caused by changes in physiological state, rather than changes caused by social stimulation or social interaction.
At 6 ~ 19 weeks, babies begin to smile socially, which is triggered by external stimuli and is the most common in the interaction with caregivers. For example, adults may feel happy because of the baby's positive emotions, or respond to the child with a smile, or even continue to do things that make the baby happy. At this time, the child will smile back.
When a baby of 3 to 6 months is happy to watch an adult smile or interact with him, his cheeks will gradually smile, which is regarded as a sign that the baby can begin to share positive feelings with his peers.
At the age of six or seven months, the baby will show the happiest smile to his family and show anxiety and even fear when facing strangers. At this time, babies usually use smiles or other happy emotions as a social expression to share happiness with their families or hope to continue positive interaction.
Step 2 be angry
The angry facial expression is that the mouth is open, the eyebrows are wrinkled to the middle, and the eyes are fixed on the front; The physiological reaction is rapid heartbeat, high body temperature and blushing. A 2-month-old baby may be blushing and angry when he has an injection, can't control toys or meets other things, and these angry reactions gradually become stronger at 6 months.
Step 3 be sad
The sad facial expression is that the corners of the mouth curl downward and the middle part of the eyebrows rise; Slow heartbeat, low body temperature and low skin electricity. Sadness and anger have a similar development track, and infants of 2 to 6 months will trigger a sad response in some situations that trigger an angry response.
Step 4 surprise
The surprised facial expression is that the eyes are wide open, the eyebrows are raised, the mouth is open, and the stimulation is continuously watched; Physiological reactions are weakened heartbeat, apnea and disappearance of muscle tension. This emotion appears within 6 months after birth.
Step 5 be afraid
The facial manifestations of fear are frowning, wide-eyed, nervous and staring directly at stimulation; Physiological reactions are high and stable heartbeat, hypothermia and shortness of breath. Fear is the latest basic emotion, which usually appears in 6 to 8 months. Therefore, most babies will not feel anxious about being separated from strangers before 6 months, but they will gradually show up after 6 months.
6. disgust
The facial expressions of disgust are eyebrows down, nose wrinkled, cheeks and lips raised; The physiological reaction is a slow heartbeat, low body temperature and tight skin. This kind of mood usually appears at the age of three months.
At this point, I believe everyone will not make a fuss about the 6-month-old baby in the video mentioned above being moved to tears by music. This is mainly the expression of sadness in basic emotions. Different children have different emotional reactions to different stimuli at different stages. I've also heard that a few-month-old baby was in tears when he heard Faye Wong's Legend. A few-month-old baby will also show happiness, surprise and other emotions when he sees some pictures or pictures in the picture book. In the final analysis, these are the normal manifestations of children's basic emotions.