Nowadays, interest classes are everywhere, and the prices are still very expensive. There was once an article about summer classes for those who can’t afford a child with a monthly salary of 30,000 yuan, which aroused everyone’s discussion. To put it bluntly, One problem is that extracurricular classes are really expensive!
It’s actually quite difficult for parents. They say they don’t want to enroll their children in a class. The children see others going there but they don’t have to go. They always feel like they’re missing something. Especially during the summer vacation, many children have nowhere to go, and parents do not have time to stay with their children at home every day, so they can only enroll their children in some class, and at least there is a teacher to watch the children.
Enroll your children in classes, the fees are really not cheap! This is really a problem. On the other hand, if you enroll some children, but the middle child is unwilling to study, and the tuition fee cannot be refunded, parents sometimes feel really sad.
Whether to enroll children in interest classes, I personally think that the following aspects should be considered
1. Start from the child’s interests
We parents often start from our own perspective After thinking about it, I think it is better to let children learn this and that, so many children are forced to learn, and the children are naturally unwilling to learn. You can take your child to see it to see which one he likes, and then start from the child's interests. This way, the child will be more willing to learn what they want to learn.
2. If possible, let the children go to trial reading first
Some interest classes can trial reading for a day or half a day, then you can take the children to trial reading first, and then read It depends on whether the child likes the teacher, whether he likes the interest class, and whether he likes his classmates. If you can't try it out, see if you can visit and let the teacher talk to the children. Some children will like this teacher better, this teacher is better, and they will be willing to learn.
3. Lower your expectations
Going to interest classes is just a place for children to play. Parents should not have too many expectations. Don’t just learn piano and think that your children will do it. If you can play the piano very well, not everyone can train Lang Lang. Don’t think about asking your children to take this level or that level. Sometimes, if you force your children to take the exam, they will lose interest. You should be clear about your expectations and just provide your child with a channel for learning or a channel for him to relieve himself when he is emotional. Then you will not have too many demands and your child will learn easily. If your goal is to let your child take the exam, then it’s better not to do it. If your child suffers in the future, you will suffer too.
4. Make an agreement with your child.
If your child wants to study in a certain class, you must first make an agreement with your child. Tell your child that mom will choose the one you like, but If you choose this, you have to learn it to the end, and you can't stop learning it halfway. This agreement in advance also gives the child a constraint.
You can consider the above and, if family conditions permit, choose a few for your children. Do not schedule them too full and leave your children with no time to rest.
I am Teacher Xu Fang, a baby care lecturer. I have been a lecturer in the pregnancy and baby industry for more than 9 years. I have a public account with the same name. I look forward to your attention! If you find it useful, please like and comment