So we calm down and think about those extroverts and introverts around us, and we often find one thing: there are not many extroverts who are really talented.
Extroverted friends are always energetic, energetic, simple and straightforward, and speak quickly. In our daily contact with them, we can often be driven by their enthusiasm and vitality, so that our mood and mood will be improved. Because of this, in most people's social circles, extroverts are often more popular and have more friends.
But introverted friends are generally gentle and calm, and it is difficult for us to feel strong emotional ups and downs from them. Different from extroverted friends, it takes more time and communication to get in touch with introverted friends before they can gradually enter their inner world. Then you will find that their inner world is so colorful that you are amazed.
In love, being liked by extroverts and being liked by introverts are also two completely different experiences. For the former, I think they are more or less similar. They call you to send WeChat every day, pick you up at the door of the classroom or the company, buy beautiful gifts at various festivals and your birthday, and give you romance and surprises in public. Basically, they will not escape these routines.
But if you are liked by an introvert, if you are not careful enough, you may not even know that he/she likes you. And this kind of feeling, think carefully about the lyrics of the song "Onion"-if you are willing to peel my heart layer by layer, you will find that you will be surprised to find that you are my most repressed secret; If you are willing to peel my heart layer by layer, your nose will hurt and you will cry, as long as you can hear me and see my heart.
Even in the entertainment circle, which needs the openness of practitioners most, a few actors who are carefully appreciated by themselves are definitely not extroverted. But this does not affect their career achievements and their talents are recognized by the audience.
First of all, Leslie Cheung's artistic achievements and status are obviously beyond doubt: Leslie Cheung is one of the weathervanes of popular culture in China (evaluated by Newsweek); Film and television songs are all-around Asian superstars; One of the representatives of diversified life development in China entertainment circle. With music and movies, he gained a high popularity in Asia, and his performance in Farewell My Concubine won him a worldwide reputation (Encyclopedia Britannica Review). He is a successful singer, actor and musician. Showbiz is a representative of talent and diligence, which has a great influence on China's music and movies. He is very successful in performing arts. He is a talented and contributing artist. Excellent acting skills, film performance is one of the best actors in Hong Kong. He is also a good singer, a good dancer and good at personal creation. He is a generalist and has many abilities (British Times review). Leslie Cheung is an all-round artist who dares to try different ways of expression. He is a talented artist; His artistic achievements are role models for many artists. He is the top superstar in Asia and has amazing acting talent (CNN evaluation).
However, through numerous media reports on Leslie Cheung and comments from friends in the circle, we can completely outline Leslie Cheung's personality characteristics: high self-discipline in life, diligence in work, Excellence in art, gentleness and friendliness to friends. But it is such a talented person who ended his life early because of depression, leaving endless regrets and memories for fans.
Then there is Chen, a mainland actor who is recognized by most audiences as excellent in acting and artistry. Career achievements: 1985 won the best actor in the 7th China TV Golden Eagle Award and the outstanding actor in the 9th China TV Flying Award for his TV series The Last Emperor. 1990 "Fortress Besieged" won the third Oscar Award of China Film Performing Arts Society, the best actor award of the second outstanding TV series of National Studio, and the best actor award of the 11th Flying Award. My 19 19 won him the Best Actor Award in the 20th Chinese Film Golden Rooster Award on 1999. 200 1 Chen won the Silver Award for Actor Favorite in Meiling Cup and the Star of the Second Sunshine Health TV for his acting in Kangxi Dynasty, and was nominated for the Best Actor in the 20th China TV Golden Eagle Award.
Outside work, he is an otaku. He seldom goes out except for work. He never goes to entertainment places. He likes reading fine print at home, reading books, playing the piano and eating fried rice with eggs. He hates socializing. He doesn't like to leave a meal in less than 15 minutes. He doesn't drink. He is brilliant and proficient in piano, calligraphy and poetry. When he was young, he was an all-rounder in sports and a tango master. He writes essays like Lu Xun and plays mahjong well. The famous director commented on him like this: Chen is so lofty that he only wants to bow his head in the play. Both Wang and Chen ("Wang Dao Combination") are famous artists who don't like to be interviewed and cooperate with the media. Similarly, Chen, who is not keen on socializing, does not affect his talent and his position in the eyes of the audience.
After talking about the two predecessors, let's talk about a new generation of actors-Hugh. Hugh is born after 80, about the same age as most netizens. However, compared with many actors of the same age, when he was still addicted to playing the overbearing president and making money on variety shows, he resolutely chose to study in the United States at the most brilliant stage of his acting career.
And Hugh's character, we can also see clues from the comments of friends in the circle: Hugh is an actor with artistic morality and dual personality (Liu Mintao comments); When dealing with Hugh, I often lament his perfection (He Jiong review); Behind his playful tone, the power that makes people feel distressed (Ariel Lin comments); He has the boldness of a northern man in character, and at some moments he will show the delicacy of a Shanghai man (Tang Yan comments); At work, he not only arrives on time, but also does his homework. He thought a lot and asked a lot of questions (Lai Shengchuan Review). Hugh is a person with high IQ and emotional intelligence, regardless of fame and fortune (Hou Hongliang's comments); From Hugh, I can see the good traditions, good styles and even good work habits of many performing artists or old actors (Sydney Review); He is very simple, and he has the initiative spirit of maturity, modesty and cooperation that is rare among actors in this era (Jiang Wei's comment); Hugh's appearance has changed in different plays, because he has integrated into the role from the inside out, so his external temperament has also changed (Liu Yijun review); After great difficulties, there will be great achievements. Continue to work hard and eventually become a great instrument (inscription by Jin Yong).
In the field of more familiar and favorite writers and painters, there are even fewer extroverts. In fact, the truth is not difficult to understand: extroverts spend a lot of time and energy dealing with the world; Introverts, on the other hand, use life and love to communicate with their hearts. And all great works of art are often created in the lowest valley or the most tragic stage of an artist's life. And almost all talents, half from talent, half from the persistence of enduring loneliness for many years. These are the most advantageous areas for introverts.