Therefore, when choosing a name at ordinary times, we must pay attention to accurately grasping the meaning of words and learn from professionals how to use words correctly. If we want to learn more from others, we need to pay attention to the following aspects.
1, smile, gentle voice
Everyone likes to talk to a person with a smile and a gentle voice, because you can hear a sense of intimacy from this person's speech.
Do you feel comfortable when the person you are chatting with keeps smiling? When his tone makes you comfortable, do you have the impulse to continue talking to him?
2. Be polite.
You must pay attention to your words and deeds when talking with people. As the saying goes, a gentleman is polite. If you want to talk with others effectively, you must learn to get along with others politely and let others have a good impression on you!
3. Find the same topic as * * *
The ancients said that lovers talk more than half a sentence, which means that to communicate effectively with people, we must find speculators, that is, people with the same topic. Therefore, the focus of effective communication with people lies in the same topic.
Don't talk about the same topic for too long.
Even if it is a topic that both people like, don't keep exchanging opinions on this topic. After a long time, the other party will get bored.
5. Don't talk about other people's sadness.
If you know something bad about the other person recently, don't mention it in the conversation, otherwise it will cause the other person's disgust and discomfort.
7. Admit your mistake bravely
In the process of communication, if you have any questions or make unreasonable suggestions, you should take the initiative to apologize to the other party and bravely admit your mistakes, such as "I was wrong because I didn't think well." Wait, everything's fine.
8. Show your ideas in advance
Everyone's conversation has a certain purpose. When the other party is talking, in order to improve the efficiency of the conversation, he should first show his thoughts and opinions so that the other party can understand.