Older children are stubborn. What should parents do? That's your influence.
You did the same to your children when you were young.
It is best to care more about children.
Educate children. Reasoning with children,
What if there are "stubborn" children at home? Some children are stubborn, but it's easy to say that you touch his nature.
What should senior one girls do if they pout with their parents every day? When she grows up, it will be fine. The older she grows, the more she will understand her parents' difficulties. Don't go against him. The more she wants to do it, the more rebellious she is. Tell him well.
The obvious feature of children who have just entered high school is "change" Physiologically, children begin to develop; Psychologically, it is also changing. Parents will find that they don't know when their children are disobedient, and they may even "oppose" their parents. If you want to face east, he will face west; If you want to go west, he will face east. This phenomenon is called "rebellious psychology" in psychology. This period is called "psychological weaning" in psychology. How does the child's rebellious psychology come about? It is a leap for children to enter middle school from primary school. They think they are not children but adults, and their desire for independent activities is getting stronger and stronger. On the one hand, they want to get rid of their parents and make their own decisions; On the other hand, we must rely on our families. Children in this period, due to lack of life experience, do not have a completely correct understanding of self-esteem, and strongly demand that others treat themselves as adults. If parents still treat them as children at this time, they will be bored and feel that they have hurt their self-esteem, have rebellious mentality and sprout antagonistic emotions. If parents discipline them in front of peers and the opposite sex, their "rebellious psychology" will be stronger. No wonder at this time, many parents often complain that their children are becoming more and more disobedient, and they don't want to go home all day, nor do they want to talk to their parents, exchange ideas and do things willfully. However, many children say that their parents have been nagging and annoying! It's a nuisance to stipulate that this is not allowed and that is not allowed! Obviously, parents and children are "opposite". Junior high school children, with the expansion of contact and the increase of knowledge, enrich their inner world and form their own values, which are sometimes different from their parents' values, opposed by their parents and not understood by them. So they looked for songs among children of the same age, and their parents became less close. At this time, if parents don't understand the children's psychological and physiological changes, they will simply and stiffly force their children to have rebellious emotions and behaviors. Children in this period, although their self-awareness has developed, their self-control ability is still very poor, and they often violate discipline unconsciously. They like to argue with others, but they often have insufficient arguments; Likes to doubt, but lacks scientific basis; Like to find opinions, but not sure; Like to criticize others, but easy to be one-sided. Parents know these characteristics of "psychologically weaned" children, so they should avoid being simple and rude and should not treat them as "coaxing". Parents often have two psychological States when disciplining their children: one is to regard their children as private property and have absolute authority over them; Second, parents regard their children as the reappearance of their own ideals, hoping that their children can realize their own ideals, but they don't. Therefore, parents' ideal is to instill their own life experience into their children in an attempt to let them live according to their parents' ideas.
How children cheat their parents, the key is the guidance of parents and teachers ~ ~ ~ ideological education, the kind of heart-to-heart, may I ask, why do you do this? Some of them are out of inertia, and the elders talk without talking to the younger generation, which is easy to cause children's psychological rebellion, which is counterproductive and can be used as a joke, otherwise the children will not accept it easily!
Sometimes it is also a way to turn a blind eye: let him know your cheating behavior at a glance, just wait for him to take the initiative to admit his mistake!
The key is the child himself, and parents can encourage him in any way to make him feel honored.
What should children do if they scold their parents? We must educate them well! Respecting the elderly is a traditional virtue of China people ~
What should parents do if they have arranged for their children? Reasoning with my parents: I want to cultivate my independence and learn some life skills. I don't want to be a bookworm who can only learn, and I don't want to be an idiot with high scores. Otherwise, I won't look like a fool in the future, and your parents don't want to see it! I don't want you to do anything for me. It looks like I'm incompetent. I want to have my own opinion! There are some things I have to do by myself! Please give me the right to experience growth!
What should parents do if their children are absent from class? People generally don't recite an article unless they really understand it, realize its meaning and are completely uninterested in it. First of all, tell the child something worth memorizing, make him like it, read it consciously, and naturally recite it.
Take him to a calligraphy exhibition or buy some copybooks to edify him, discuss the style of calligraphy and encourage him to practice.
The child was beaten by other children. What parents should do depends on the situation. If others beat them for no reason, they must inform teachers and parents, educate the children who beat him and make him apologize.