Athena Chu Wan Guze
The source of Tang Hanyu's Answer to Feng Sushu: "If you listen to it, you will be happy; Yan Wenchang said that he would get off the bus and worship. "
Interpreted as: negligence; Then: just. Welcome and be happy to hear others criticize your shortcomings or mistakes. Refers to accepting opinions with an open mind.
Used as predicate, attribute and adverbial; Talking about a person
Synonym: turn over a new leaf.
Antonyms cover up mistakes, and they don't change when they know them.
ancient times
Leading cadres should take a tolerant attitude towards the criticism of the masses.
A happy story after listening.
In the Spring and Autumn Period, there was a man named Gao Pian. He is very cautious. He worked as an official for three years under Yan Zi, the prime minister of Qi State, and never made any mistakes. But Yan Zi fired him for no reason. Why is this? Yan Zi said, "I am useless. Man, like a curved piece of wood, must be played with Mo Dou, chopped with an axe and planed with a plane to become a useful musical instrument. Everyone has his own shortcomings and deficiencies, but he can't see them unless others give hints. But Gao Biao, who has been with me for three years, never said anything when he saw my mistake. What's good for me? So, I fired him. " It can be seen that Yan Zi likes people to point out his shortcomings. He believes that it is the responsibility of subordinates to point out the faults of superiors, otherwise it is useless to fail to fulfill their responsibilities.
Yan Zi is good at listening to criticism from others. He is also good at criticism, with a wide range of knowledge, good use of metaphors, paying attention to the art of language, the way and attitude of criticism, paying attention to the environment at that time and responding flexibly.
Li Shimin, Emperor Taizong of Tang Dynasty, was a rare enlightened monarch in China feudal society. After he acceded to the throne, he learned lessons from history, spoke freely, encouraged ministers to give more opinions, and improved the status of admonishers. The famous admonishers used in the early stage of Zhenguan were,, Du Ruhui and Fang, and Ma Zhou,, and Chu Suiliang were used in the later stage. After Wei Zhi's death, Emperor Taizong missed him and sighed: "With copper as a mirror, you can dress; Looking at the past as a mirror, we can see the rise and fall; Take people as a mirror, you can know the gains and losses. Wei Zhi died, and I died in the mirror! "Emperor Taizong was able to choose people according to their abilities, take good advice and change as soon as he heard it, which is also an important reason why he was able to create The Rule of Zhenguan.
Liu Gongquan and Yan Zhenqing, famous calligraphers in the Tang Dynasty, were also called "Yan Liu". In calligraphy, there is a famous saying that it is difficult to write "Feifengjia" with a magic pen, which means that these three words are difficult to write. One day, Liu Gongquan, a teenager, wrote ten big characters on a banner, which read "I can write flying wind and dare to boast in front of people" and posted them on a tree. An old man selling tofu brains advised him, "Your handwriting is weak at all. What is there to be proud of? " The old man asked him to go to Huayuan County to find calligraphy and painting soup. Although Liu Gongquan was not convinced, he went to Huayuan County to find calligraphy and painting soup. As a result, he found that the calligraphy and painting soup is an old man without arms, but he can express it with his feet and pen like a god. Liu Gongquan suddenly woke up and begged the old man to accept him as an apprentice. Although the old man did not accept him as a disciple, he gave him "eight jars of water to write, and the inkstone dyed the pool black." "Only by winning hundreds of parents can Longfeng fly." A few words of encouragement to him. From then on, Liu Gongquan worked hard to learn from others and finally became a master.
Liu Gongquan finally became a master because he could listen to the advice of an old man selling tofu. Without the old man selling tofu, I'm afraid he would be buried by his own arrogance.