Who doesn't want to be a person with outstanding temperament and interesting soul? Beautiful skin is not given by heaven, but interesting souls can be cultivated through cultivation.
So how to be an interesting person? Let the inner soul and temperament bless themselves, free from all external factors.
In this regard, Zhang Dai, a famous essayist in Ming Dynasty, gave a good answer. He clearly pointed out in Tao An Meng Yi that people are not addicted, so they can't communicate with each other because they have no affection. "
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The premise of making friends depends on whether he has hobbies. People without hobbies must be extremely boring and can't make friends. It's not unreasonable to think about it carefully. If a person doesn't have his own fun and hobbies in life, he is immersed in busy life and work all day, exhausted, but he doesn't know how to vent on interesting things, then he must be short of gas field and depressed. People around such people naturally don't want to make friends with them.
Zhang Dai is a person who brings the fun of life to the extreme. When he was young, he was fun, carefree and arrogant. He likes to be lively, and you can catch a glimpse of him in a noisy and quiet place.
He summed himself up appropriately: "Good clothes, good food, good horses, good lanterns, good fireworks, good pear gardens, good propaganda, good antiques, good flowers and birds ..." His first half of life was full of fun, which enriched his spirit and gave him enough time to feel the joy of life. In his own hobby, he indulges in outdoor activities.
It is precisely because he has all kinds of hobbies to ponder over life that he can face the collapse of his country and face the ups and downs of personnel in the second half of his life. When he is old, he can face loneliness without pessimism or disillusionment.
Look at him. In my later years, in the silence of a snowy night, I got up alone, walked to the snowy night and looked at the lake. There is nothing in the world. Seeing the snow in the middle of the lake, the shadow on the lake is just a trace on the long beach, a spot in the middle of the lake, a mustard and Yu Zhou, and two or three people on board. Only he can be thorough, humble and forget everything, only heaven and earth, because his heart can hold all the prosperity and everything.
People who have hobbies pretend that they are all beautiful in the world, and the mountains and mountains of art make him not enjoy enough and have no time to take care of other distractions.
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The climax of the Qing Dynasty described addiction just right: flowers must have no butterflies, mountains must have no springs, stones must have no moss, water must have no algae, trees must have no vines, and people must have no addiction.
Compared with the muddleheaded and lifeless people, those who carve their hobbies into steaming hot air can still get happiness in their hobbies even in the face of stormy waves and the torrent of life.
Look at Lin Bu, a poet in the Song Dynasty, who was indifferent to fame and fortune all his life, lived in seclusion in a lonely mountain and loved plum blossoms and white cranes. He just took plums as his wife and cranes as his sons, and lived in complete seclusion. He loves Messiah and lives with them. No matter what the world thinks of him, he has followed his soul all his life, and he is also very affectionate.
Calligrapher Wang Xizhi loves geese very much. At first glance, this hobby is rare. In fact, Wang Xizhi likes geese, which is also related to calligraphy. He realized the mystery of calligraphy in the posture, walking and swimming of geese.
He thinks that the index finger should be slightly bent like a goose's head when holding the pen, and the stroke should be like a goose's foot when lifting the pen, so as to absorb the spirit into the pen. So, you see, everything in the world is interlinked, and these wonders can only be seen by people with hobbies.
Wang Huizhi likes bamboo and is crazy. Even if you live with friends for a while, you should plant bamboo in the yard. Others don't understand: "Just stay for a few days, why bother?" But the prince said, "how can I live without this gentleman!" " Obviously, in his mind, bamboo is an irreplaceable gentleman. Without bamboo, I can't live. I'm addicted to fun, and I'm also a real person.
Mi Fei, a painter, loves stones, Tao Yuanming loves chrysanthemums and Shen Fu loves flowers ... They always have their own hobbies in their spare time, study their hobbies deeply, express their feelings about things and feel their interests. They are also full of fun, and their lives are full and lovely because of a hobby.
It is understandable that addiction is a kind of spiritual comfort, which is used to comfort the depression of life and fill the pallor of life, while some people often interpret "addiction" and "fun" as eternal songs.
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These ancient people freely let go of their souls in their hobbies and lived in a posture. This spirit of clinging to things is still out of date.
It's amazing to mention a beautiful dancer.
Yang li Ping was born in beautiful Yunnan, which may be a gift from heaven. She tried her best to integrate herself into a landscape and be a natural child.
When she dances, she is the soul of a peacock. She is as beautiful as a fairy and shows the charm of all natural things crystal clear. She loves dancing all her life, so she is spotless, hardly eats fireworks, and eats little food every day, just to show her dancing more perfectly.
Faced with the fact that she can't get pregnant because of low body fat, she has long been relieved: "I have been like a mother since I was a child. Now, I will be the mother of a flower and a bird. In my eyes, flowers and plants are all my children, so I won't feel lacking and have no regrets. "
In her world, mountains and rivers stand upright, flowers and trees flourish, and all natural things have already become her children and the source of her life. She grows flowers and plants, and meditates. At that time, she and the noise of the world were silent.
For Yang li Ping, 60, she is still elegant and romantic. For her age, she has no bondage and bondage, and her soul is free. And she regards dance as her career, and has already lived out of the realm in her hobbies. But everything in life, the meaning of living.
Gu Cheng said in his first poem: "People can be born as ants and beautiful as gods." May be the best annotation for interesting souls.
When you are tired of trivial things, find pleasure in your hobbies. Life is long and turbulent. Only by rooting hope with hobbies and filling life with fun can we bloom gorgeous flowers on the ruins of life.
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A flower and a grass, everything has feelings, so that interesting souls can attach themselves to their favorite hobbies. When those external appearances, possessions or fame and fortune haunt us, we can send our feelings away and put them away freely without admiring Fanghua.
If you love tea, you are proficient in tea art, making and cooking tea, and practicing meditation in a piece of matcha fragrance;
If you love flowers and plants, you can plant flowers and grass, learn to arrange flowers and enjoy yourself in a vine;
If you like calligraphy, you can splash ink, find elegance and tranquility at the turning point of the pen, and show the profound meaning of life.
To be a person with hobbies, you don't have to think about those who live in seclusion in the mountains, live in the world of mortals or eat fireworks, but you can hide in the city, enrich your soul, appreciate the endless flavor of the world in the life of the city and add some drama to your life.
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