Travelers have no borders-Be a good class teacher with your heart

I remember someone once commented on the head teacher: the head teacher is there, the students can do well, and the head teacher is basically qualified; Students can do well when the head teacher is away. This class teacher is excellent. However, if the head teacher is there and the students still can't do well, then the head teacher is undoubtedly a failure. If measured by this standard, I am only a basic qualified class teacher. However, as educators who are closest to students and have the most contact, we cannot fail. If we fail unfortunately, we may be buried with the happiness of dozens, hundreds or even thousands of children. Therefore, being a good class teacher is very important for education.

Like the head teacher here, I am busy, thinking, improving and improving every day. I have been a class teacher for more than 20 years, and I have summed up my work in three sentences, namely, "educating people with emotion, managing with heart and guiding with wisdom".

The first is "sentimental education", that is, the class teacher must be caring and educate the students with true feelings.

Loving students is the starting point and foundation of educating students, and education is the extension of love. Love itself is the most beautiful language of mankind. Whether you have a clear commitment or not, it will sneak into students' hearts like spring breeze. Suhomlinski once said: "The whole mystery of educational skills lies in how to love children, and loving children wisely is the peak of educational literacy, thoughts and feelings." A teacher loves his students more than a thousand sermons.

Love is responsibility: the teacher's love for students is a responsibility. With this responsibility, teachers must be strict with themselves, love every student with their heart, and make themselves partners in students' learning and growth. Students will be happy if they make progress, and we will find out the reasons if they have shortcomings. During my time as a class teacher, I can say that I have devoted all my love to my students, and everything I have experienced and felt can't be expressed in words. I also feel stressed and confused, and want to get away with it, but love and responsibility make me regain my confidence again and again. Faced with the problem of students' multi-level and uneven learning ability and habits, I carefully observe and study each child, understand their likes, care about their warmth and coldness, and achieve the harmonious effect between teachers and students. Usually, I pay special attention to students with difficulties, such as Zheng Junjie in our class. The family situation is very special. My father left home and went out, and my mother was ill. The financial conditions at home are very difficult. Later, when his mother died, he was raised by his grandparents. My grandfather is still hemiplegic and has been ill in bed for a long time. When I learned about these situations, I took the initiative to communicate with him, which helped him enjoy the preferential policies of the state and exempted his book fees, so as to encourage him to study hard and repay the school and society with excellent results. I remember when he first entered school, he couldn't finish his homework, so my grandmother discussed with me how to encourage him and help him develop good study habits. From the conversation with grandma, I learned that he likes Altman very much, so I bought a toy like that with my own money, and then rewarded him when he could finish his homework in a week and encouraged him to stick to it! When I transferred to school in the fourth grade, his grandmother took my hand and sobbed several times: "Teacher Yang, if it weren't too far away, it would be inconvenient for me to pick up and drop off. We really don't want to transfer! We really hate to part with you! "

Nowadays, students are impetuous and difficult to meditate, so I use a few minutes after morning exercise every day to lead students to do meditation exercises. I also insist on the class "I am a reader" activity where a student goes to the stage to read aloud every day, providing a platform for each student to show and exercise. Jing Liu, Jia Xinting and other students stood out in such activities, built up their self-confidence, and won many awards in off-campus recitation competitions.

Teacher's love is deeper than father's love, more delicate than maternal love and more selfless than friendship. Soothe students' hearts with love, look forward to their progress with patience, and improve myself with my efforts to achieve students and enjoy the joy and joy of teaching. This is my pursuit as a class teacher.

Second, "careful management", that is, the class teacher should be patient, careful and confident in the management of students.

The head teacher should be careful in his work. The head teacher faces dozens of people, who come from different environments and different families, thus forming different personality differences. In daily life and study, the class teacher should be a caring person, observe their recent changes, understand their ideas, and encounter any difficulties or unhappy things. We should encourage the positive side, inspire the negative side and eliminate the danger. In some accidental events of primary and secondary school students, there is often a causal link. If the work of the class teacher is more detailed and in-depth, it can often prevent problems before they happen and avoid major events. I once established a "heart-to-heart" with students to understand their thoughts and establish equal communication channels with them; Later, I encouraged students to register and use ""to record what they think, see and hear; I always pay attention to the students' dynamics, so that students can sum up their own experiences, and teachers can also deeply understand students' psychology, so that education can be more targeted and achieve twice the result with half the effort.

The head teacher should be patient. Some students' repetitiveness in study and discipline cannot be solved by doing one or two jobs. They need the head teacher to do their work over and over again. Some students' bad habits have a long history, and it is normal to appear repeatedly. Just like patients with chronic diseases, doctors can't solve the problem by prescribing one or two doses of medicine. Clever doctors often adopt protracted methods, prescribe the right medicine, take medicine for a long time, and combine traditional Chinese and western medicine to achieve good results. The work of a class teacher should be the same, so be patient. Students take the initiative to learn the management of this kind of thing after arriving at school alone, which is a job that they repeat and do every day. Since the third grade, I have been committed to creating a "silent classroom"; I put up a poster in the classroom, "Be quiet when you enter the room, and read when you sit down". I use every possible time to tell students the requirements and the necessity of doing so repeatedly, asking them to form the habit of autonomous learning, keep their mouths shut and exercise their brains. But today, I dare not relax my requirements for students. At present, our class implements the system of "daily reminder and weekly summary". Every day, a shift monitor organizes morning and afternoon reading, and the squadron leader and monitor summarize the situation of the week in QQ group and WeChat group every week. Formed a situation in which both home and school are in charge. Even so, some students were deducted by the school for their bad habits and poor self-control, which affected the collective honor. I also need to continue to cultivate students' awareness and ability of autonomous learning.

The head teacher should be full of confidence in every student. Those who can become talents should become talents, and those who cannot become talents should become adults. I always uphold the educational philosophy of "educating people", and firmly believe that every child is a unique individual, and 99% of the students in the class can be well educated. Even if their academic performance is not good, he will become a good person and a successful educator. Therefore, no matter what kind of difficulties and setbacks I encountered in my work, I never lost confidence, but tried to improve. Faced with the educational concept that parents are eager for quick success and quick success, achievement is the primary pursuit, I initiated the establishment of a "be a good parent" parents' reading club to organize parents to learn scientific parenting theory, guide parents to change their outlook on success, accept their children's imperfections and guide them correctly. Compared with the students, the class teacher is the elder, the sunshine and rain. Students are seeds, seedlings and young trees. They need the care of their elders, sunshine and rain and dew. If the head teacher loses confidence in the students, the students will give up on themselves and form an opposition with the teachers. From the perspective of national interests, they will be unstable factors in building a harmonious society after entering the society; From the perspective of personal interests, gray life will accompany them for life. So I pay more attention to the healthy growth of students.

Third, "lead with wisdom", that is, the class teacher should use his brains in his work and seize the opportunity to guide the students.

The construction of class style and study style is the core issue of class teacher's work, and it is also the most important. I insist on "building harmonious classes and strengthening quality classes".

(1) "Harmonious Class" In a sense, harmony is the highest realm of everything, and education is no exception. It includes the harmony between home and school, teachers and students, scores and abilities, all-round development and sustainable development, and so on. Creating a harmonious class group is my unremitting pursuit. I mainly adhere to the principle of "three less and more" in my work. That is, "more intimate contact", "more squatting" and "more development vision".

1, a little more intimate contact.

My spare time life is monotonous, so I always regard close contact with students as a part of my life. Usually, I am happy to take part in students' spare time and extracurricular activities. When a child makes a mistake, I will touch his hair. When he is depressed, I will pat him on the shoulder ... and often show my truest and most natural feelings in front of students. I will be unabashedly happy for what they are happy about, even smiling at the sky; You will also be angry and painful about something unceremoniously; Of course, I will sincerely apologize for my own mistake in front of the students ... This close contact certainly includes the spiritual communication between teachers and students. While actively talking with students, I will guide and encourage them to talk with teachers again and again. I often say, "What is the teacher's favorite sentence? It is the students who say to me,' Teacher, I think …' and' Teacher, I think …'. I will definitely praise such students in class. "The so-called' learning from the teacher and believing in it' has unconsciously narrowed the distance in close contact with students, harmonized the mood and atmosphere, and laid a good foundation for other work in the class. .

2. Squat down a little more.

Experts say that the longer the class teacher works, the more serious the "teacher-oriented" psychology is. The best way to overcome it is "psychological replacement", that is, to squat down as much as possible, put yourself in the eyes of the child and look at the problem from the child's point of view. It is normal for students to be playful, naughty, active and fragile. I think it is helpful to change teachers' attitude and improve educational methods if we can understand and accept the psychological development law that life must go through. We might as well think about our unruly behavior and bad ideas when we were students. Have you ever spoken ill of your teacher behind his back? Did you make an excuse for being late? Have you ever forgotten to do your homework for fun? Do you hate teachers' criticism ... We can often find the shadow of childhood among students. Bai Xinghao, a classmate in the class, has been at the bottom of the academic record since the first day of junior high school, but this is determined by his learning ability and his learning attitude is correct. He can insist on finishing his homework, even if it is wrong, but he must finish it on time. Poor grades are beyond his control. So I gave him a full understanding and found that he raised his hand, so I quickly asked him to answer the question. Seeing that he had made little progress, I quickly praised him. Since last semester, I have assigned him the task of hanging the red flag every time the class gets the flowing red flag, so that he can feel that he lives in a class group and he can do what he can for the class. Therefore, most of the time, it is not the students who are bothering us, but we are asking for trouble. They are just children. How can we be satisfied if we look at them from the perspective of an adult and ask them? It's not that children don't admit to growing up! Therefore, at work, I will try to squat down and seriously consider the ins and outs of things; I will try to squat down, carefully grasp the essence of students' behavior, and distinguish whether it is malicious or well-intentioned, whether it is intentional or a "natural phenomenon" of physical and mental development; I will try to squat down and listen, understand and find out more. ...

3. develop a little more.

Many parents and teachers have such an educational concept: the so-called good boy is a child who has removed his own shortcomings, so the child's task is to constantly correct his own mistakes and always be careful not to run the "red light", while the adult's task is to constantly find faults and always warn him not to run the "red light". In fact, many great men have obvious shortcomings, but they are still great men. A great man is not a man without faults, but a man who gives full play to his own advantages. Development is the last word! If these great men are surrounded by criticism since childhood and have been careful to be "good children", then their strengths may be buried. In a sense, the education that pays attention to nitpicking is actually an uncreative education and a mediocre education! The result is often: the child's shortcomings have not changed much, and the advantages have not been brought into play. "I lost my wife and lost my soldiers." Therefore, in my work, I should keep my eyes open, look for children's advantages and strengths, praise them publicly, criticize them privately, be diligent in encouragement, pay attention to appreciation and try to help children develop. Of course, I am not opposed to correcting children's shortcomings, but I think that developing children's strengths and personalities is often the best way to overcome their shortcomings. In a good mood, a good mental state, shortcomings are often corrected with half the effort. And catching a little pigtail often has the effect of throwing watermelon and picking sesame seeds. The child prodigy that parents want is of course Tsinghua Peking University, but we know that one percent and one thousandth of the hope is far away from most people. As a class teacher, we can find the strongest side in the child and guide him to get full and harmonious development. I think this is the greatest help for children through education.

(2) Quality classes

Since teaching quality is the lifeline of school education, it is also the lifeline of our class teacher's work. I mainly want to talk about it from the following three aspects.

1. Persevere and guide students to define their learning goals.

When communicating with many peers, I found that today's children have no motivation to learn and lack initiative and enthusiasm for learning. The reason is that children have no desire. The so-called "no desire is just". So, I held a squadron meeting in my class with the theme of "correct learning attitude", one of which was to discuss "what is learning for?" Let students open their hearts instead of speaking freely against their will. Many of them said it was for their parents, and many of them got good grades. Even for myself, I think I will find a good job, earn more money and get ahead in the future. I seized this opportunity and immediately educated it. Life is like Gai Lou, now learning is the foundation. The quality of study now often determines the level of your building. "You are lucky to have someone to help you; No one helps you, it's fate! No one should do anything for you, because life is your own and you are responsible for yourself. " Of course, I won't be naive to think that chatting and discussing can clarify the purpose of learning. I just think the head teacher should seize every educational opportunity to strengthen this kind of education, because too many children simply don't know what learning is for. "What is learning for?" In fact, this is really a very profound topic, and it is a question of values related to children's life. So I've been working hard on this. Although the effect may be slow, I will always try to stick to it and accompany them at every stage of their growth.

2. "Make a mountain out of a molehill" and pay attention to the learning process.

Paying great attention to every learning process and detail of the day, managing by special personnel, carefully recording and "making a mountain out of a molehill" is another excellent practice in our class.

For example, who studies more carefully in the morning and afternoon, who speaks actively in each class, who is praised and criticized in class, who gets excellent homework every day and so on. Even extend this detail to students' homes. There is a special homework in our class, that is, "Seven Must Do", which is to insist on completing such seven homework every day: one minute sit-ups, three minutes reading aloud, five minutes dictation, memorizing three words and completing one. The inspection of these contents is supervised by QQ group. I will carefully check these trivial learning things and these boring learning processes every day. The group leader comes to the office to report to me after the first class every morning and praises the students who have finished it in time. Students who haven't finished are required to make up lessons, and all situations will be handled in time.

3. Set rewards and punishments skillfully, and strengthen target incentives.

In my opinion, according to the physical and mental characteristics of students, goal motivation is necessary. Therefore, in my work, I set them long-term big goals and small goals in stages, both class and group personal goals, both spiritual stimulation and material "temptation". In short, the forms should be diverse and let students like it. Combined with the school's grading mechanism, students' study habits, academic performance and academic performance are all reflected in each student's evaluation. For example, I personally check the students' hard-pen calligraphy homework every Monday, and the students who have completed it can be exempted from doing it in the next few days; Continue on Tuesday and Wednesday. The same is true of the oral arithmetic homework in the "homework box". If you can get full marks, you are not required to do oral arithmetic homework for one day. In fact, this kind of reward is more pleasing to students than praise or even some small prizes, and it can stimulate their enthusiasm.

Thanks to the concerted efforts of Qi Xin, a teacher of all subjects, and the efforts of the whole class, the class's academic performance is constantly advancing courageously. In the school's activities such as English word dictation, math oral calculation contest and Chinese character dictation contest, we have achieved good results. The overall performance of the class is also steadily improving.

Fourth, to do a good job as a class teacher, we must keep learning, update our educational ideas and keep pace with the times.

Students are alive and students are changing. We can't educate freshmen in the old way, nor can we educate groups of students just by experience. We should strengthen our study, update our knowledge, keep up with the times and students. In the past, the teacher, the students answered the wrong questions and took out a ruler to hit them. Can they still do this now? I have read a lot of books about education recently, and I am very interested in many viewpoints. For example: "Let criticism be gentle"; " Education is a bit magical, but it is not a legend. "Education sometimes needs to be forgotten." You will see different scenery from different perspectives. ""Teachers should squat down and talk to children "and so on, which makes me feel a lot.

Education is a profound science. When I appeared in front of the students and announced that I was their teacher, fate and responsibility linked our teacher-student relationship. Since you firmly and persistently choose to be a people's teacher, you should love this job from the heart. I am willing to selflessly dedicate the knowledge and experience I have learned all my life to the students, so that they can grow up on this fertile soil and contribute my strength to the take-off of Dongguan No.2 Middle School.