Where is the artistry of speaking? Thank god, help me.

Cao Cao likes Cao Zhi's talent very much, so he wants to abolish Cao Pi and make Cao a prince. When Cao Cao asked Jia Yi for advice on this matter, Jia Yi kept silent. Cao Cao asked strangely, "Why don't you talk?" Jia Yi said, "I'm thinking about something!" Cao Cao asked, "What are you thinking?" Jia Yi replied, "I am thinking about the disaster caused by Yuan Shao and Liu Biao." Cao Cao laughed after hearing this, and immediately understood the implication of Jia Yi, so he stopped mentioning the matter of Cao Pi. In the Southern Dynasties, Qi Gaozu studied calligraphy with the calligrapher Wang Sengqian at that time. On one occasion, Gaudi suddenly asked Wang Sengqian, "Who has better handwriting, you or me?" This question is difficult to answer. It is against one's will to say that Gaudi's handwriting is better than his own. Saying that Gaudi's words are not as good as his own will make Gaudi's face untenable and make the relationship between the monarch and the minister very bad. Wang Sengqian's answer is very clever: "My word minister is the best, and yours is the best." There are only a few emperors, but countless officials. Wang Sengqian's implication is very clear. Gaudi understood the implication, ha ha ha smiled, also forget about it, no longer polite. Revelation: On many occasions, some things can't be said directly or clearly, so beating around the bush has become a method adopted by people. Feeling of threads: Speaking is artistic. Not only celebrities can speak, but ordinary people should also pay attention to the artistry of speaking. Say it when you should, and don't say it when you shouldn't; You should know when to say what, and how to express your thoughts and opinions should be more artistic. Once upon a time, there were two heavy smokers. One day, a believer asked the priest, "May I smoke while praying?" The priest was very angry and shouted angrily, "No, you don't have to ask?" . A few days later, another believer went to ask the priest, "Can you pray while smoking?" The priest said cheerfully, "Of course." The same purpose, because of different ways of speaking, will get different results, can you enlighten us? Billy and Lucy are brother and sister. They are very naughty. Once, my brother and sister were playing in the basement when there was a loud noise, followed by shouts and accusations. Billy came out of the basement with a crooked nose. He came to his mother and said angrily, "Lucy is so bad." He knocked down the house I built. " His mother gave him a look and said sympathetically, "Oh, then you must be very angry." "Yes, I am very angry." After that, he looked at his mother and saw that she didn't respond and went back to play. This is the first time that Billy's mother tried not to get involved in the children's quarrel. She didn't ask the question that might aggravate the contradiction: "Did she do it on purpose?" This can prevent the son from saying angry words: "Yes, she did it on purpose." If so, it will not end well. We can see that one sentence often leads to different endings. Liu Xiang won the championship in the Japanese competition. "Asahi Shimbun" reporter asked Liu Xiang: "Asians have always been weak in track and field sprints. Many people doubt the authenticity of their grades and think that they may have taken undetectable stimulants. What do you think of this problem? " Liu Xiang replied: "Japanese and American medicine has always been more developed than China, and the history of taking stimulants is much longer than that of China. If there is such a drug, athletes in Japan and the United States must have used it, but what is certain is that even if the Japanese take stimulants, they will not enter the top three, let alone win the championship! I said before that my achievements represent Asian and yellow people. I don't think Japan should be included! " Liu Xiang's words made the reporter of Asahi Shimbun speechless, which is the artistry of his writing. If you can understand how to speak in communication. If you still don't understand, learn the art of speaking first ~ There are so many similar textbooks and courseware on the Internet, so let's do it well and make it artistic ~ ~