For life, youth is always full of passion and romance, as well as positivity and sunshine. However, as age increases, many people will gradually mature and become more calm and restrained.
However, there are also some people who will gradually become decadent and slack after entering middle age. After experiencing the hard work and struggle in their youth, in middle age, they seem to have lost their drive and motivation, and more There will be some dawdling ideas.
When such thoughts occupy the hearts of middle-aged people, you will find that characteristics such as the so-called middle-aged greasy man begin to appear.
In fact, middle-aged people still need to pursue and persist. It is a blessing for middle-aged people to still have these perseverances, which will bring blessings in the future.
Many middle-aged people will think that they are older and no longer know nothing like young people, and they have rich enough experience. The things to learn should be the things of young people. Middle-aged people People definitely don’t need to study anymore.
This is actually completely wrong. Why?
The inevitability of continuous innovation and development of the times determines that people of all ages will always face the problem of learning. If you regard learning as a matter only for young people, then you are destined to gradually become out of touch with society in your middle age, and will eventually be eliminated by society.
This is definitely not alarmist. For example, there are endless new technologies and new things emerging now. Which of them do you not need to learn? Many middle-aged people and even elderly people have gradually learned how to use mobile payments and online shopping. Are they just eager to learn?
In fact, it’s impossible not to learn, because if you don’t learn, it will be difficult to move around outside. Many places rarely accept cash. If you don’t learn mobile payment, you can’t even buy food.
Going further, with the birth of new science and technology, the times are constantly advancing, and your own thinking must keep up. Communicate more with young people and learn more new things, so that you can Will keep up with the times.
The principled here means that you cannot help your children blindly without principles. By middle age, the children have gradually grown up and it is time to become independent.
This period is exactly when children need exercise the most. If you have no principles and just care for your child and don't want him to go through hardships, then you are actually harming your child.
Some parents, who are very well off themselves, feel that it doesn’t matter whether their children work hard or not. Anyway, if the family has money, their children will not suffer from poverty. But why does the old saying once say that you can only be rich for three generations?
It is just that some parents have not learned to educate their children to establish a spirit of independence. They spend all their money on their children, and as long as their children make requests, they will be satisfied unconditionally.
In the long run, this will actually harm him, because he has no abilities under your education. Once he loses the care of his parents, he will achieve nothing.
Therefore, principled assistance is to help children appropriately when they really need it, but more importantly, to cultivate their sense of independence and fighting spirit. Only children educated in this way will truly gain a foothold in society and will become your pride in the future. Of course, they will also bring you more care.
For middle-aged people, they often face relatively high pressure in life, not to mention the state of being old and young. The work pressure and mid-life crisis alone are enough for middle-aged people to bear. .
Under this kind of pressure, many middle-aged people gradually seem to have lost themselves. They are busy going to and from work every day, tutoring their children with homework, and living like a war. They have long lost their own life and given up. Develop your own hobbies.
Such a life is not only embarrassing, but also often loses one’s self.
In middle age, it is indeed very busy, tiring, and stressful. However, smart people can still persist in themselves, adjust their lives well, and maintain their own attitude and personality in life.
Time always needs to be planned. When you learn to arrange your time reasonably, you can always take out some time for yourself in the busy life.
You can calm down, drink a cup of tea, write a calligraphy piece, read a book, or play a piece of music.
You might as well continue to persist in your original hobbies when you were young, because these things belong to your spiritual wealth.
Middle age does not mean helplessness. As long as you persist enough, you will have a better life in the future.
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