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You can find a sense of accomplishment on it. No one on the internet knows who you are, so you can vent whatever you like. This is something you can't get in real life. Over time, Wu Bin (a pseudonym) aged 16 has been sent to Anding Hospital for a week, and his parents suddenly look a few years older. They are allergic when people talk about surfing the Internet, because Wu Bin is insane because of surfing the Internet. In 2004, Wu Bin just entered middle school. Since I fell in love with an online game called Magic, I seem to be a different person, and I often play truant and surf the Internet. 140 level game, it reached 100 level or above in a few months, which is considered an expert. At first, I was able to listen to my parents' criticism, but later I became fearless and even stopped studying. In addition to eating and sleeping at home, I surf the Internet, and the online time is more than 10 hours every day. As long as his parents advised him to stop surfing the Internet, he began to lose his temper. For a time, when the broadband Internet access at home was cut off, Wu Bin seemed crazy. Not only was he anxious to walk around the house, but one morning he scratched his father's face. Mom was so angry that she cried. Wu Bin rushed into the kitchen and took out a kitchen knife, threatening her mother: "If you cry again, I will kill you!" "This is a couple's call for help just received by the Internet addiction counseling center of Tianjin University. Facing the extreme behavior of minors caused by internet addiction, the teachers in the counseling center feel very sad. Quitting internet addiction is as difficult as quitting drug addiction. Parents' training of their children is mainly based on exam-oriented education. "Quitting Internet addiction is like quitting drug addiction!" Li Yidan, director of Tianjin University, believes that it is not an exaggeration to use this sentence to describe the difficulty of quitting Internet addiction. A junior one student was so anxious that he slapped himself in the face, hit his head against the wall and even set himself on fire because his parents removed the broadband internet access function at home. Many children who are addicted to the internet are usually depressed and too lazy to talk to others, but once they get online, their eyes will be bright, their faces will be red and their thinking will be fast. The teacher of the counseling center told the reporter that the age group that children are most likely to indulge in the internet is concentrated at the age of thirteen or fourteen, that is, in a person's adolescence and rebellious period. Teacher Li Yidan believes that these teenagers are influenced by their families, schools and society, and at the same time, colorful networks are very attractive to them. If the first three are more attractive than the latter, teenagers will not be addicted to internet, on the contrary, there is a great possibility of internet addiction. Of course, there are also students' own qualities and personality characteristics. Why in the same social and school environment, some children can resist the temptation of the internet, while others can't? Li Yidan analyzed that family education is the most important factor. From the perspective of parents solving their children's internet addiction, only family education can change control. Teacher Li Yidan has been doing research on family education, and he summed up the problems existing in family education of Internet addiction students. -Most families have a serious impact on family life because their children go to school. For example, they don't watch TV or listen to the radio, and they are usually in a state of war. -because of the children's education, family members have different opinions and the relationship is tense; -The family's satisfaction with their children is low, and they are always dissatisfied with their academic performance; -children's poor life and survival ability are just learning tools. Many families don't let their children do anything in the name of learning. "The reason for these problems is that parents mainly focus on exam-oriented education for their children, which is also the fundamental problem for children to form Internet addiction. "This is the conclusion reached by Teacher Li after treating children with Internet addiction and inspecting their family education environment. In order to get a child into a good middle school and a good university, from the moment he or she goes to kindergarten, he or she is only allowed to study a few courses, and the child has no other hobbies. In order to leave their children undisturbed, some families prepare separate rooms for their children, stipulating that children are not allowed to watch TV after school, and they are not allowed to read extracurricular books, so they can only study in the study-this way is like the confinement of prisoners, completely ignoring the psychological needs of teenagers, and it is easy for children to form a withdrawn and rigid character. The student's name is Wu Bin. His parents are both businessmen, and they seldom spend time with their children since childhood. When I am busy on Saturday and Sunday, I lock him in the house and seldom go out together. Usually, what parents and Wu Bin talk about most is study. Parents who adopt cramming education are eager for success. Children should not only attend various cram schools and advanced classes, but also learn music, painting, dance and calligraphy. They are at a loss. Instead of cultivating children's interest, they rebelled. In addition, clubbing, indulging and nagging have become common educational misunderstandings of parents, and some parents have material stimulation. One child has a serious internet addiction. His parents have stipulated the reward amount for each exam in detail since his first grade, but the children are not very clear about the concept of money. Slowly, children lose interest in this kind of reward and lose the motivation to learn. When parents see that small rewards don't work, they add more, and even lure them with trips to Singapore, Mattel and seven European countries, but they still can't change their children's interest in learning. " These manifestations are all parents' wrong education methods with learning as the center and grades as the only goal. The end result will make children lose interest in learning and even hate the real world. At this time, the emergence of the network makes children find fun in the virtual world. "Li Yidan said that it can be said that the reason why children form Internet addiction is not the network itself, but the biased family education. Usually, no one wants to listen to quality education, but parents of internet addiction children like to listen. "I told many parents to educate their children to have quality, which is very