When it comes to outstanding children, I can immediately think of him.
He is not a celebrity at the moment, and it is difficult to say about his future, because I think he is the best, and it depends on his personal wishes to go further.
His mother is a middle school teacher and his father is a university teacher. They live in a second- and third-tier city and do not have as good educational resources as first-tier cities.
His elementary school and junior high school were not prestigious schools. He attended the school where his mother worked. In high school, I was admitted to a local key high school with excellent results. This high school is one of the top schools in the area.
While in high school, he also took time to learn seal cutting and saxophone. In addition, he often painted in his spare time, and he once won an award in the city for calligraphy.
After the college entrance examination, he was admitted to Tsinghua University, and instantly his mother's school was abuzz. In this small middle school, some students will be admitted to key high schools every year, and some students will be admitted to 985 or 211, but this is probably the only student from Tsinghua, who is considered outstanding enough.
All the teachers who taught this child gave positive comments. He is sensible, polite, good at learning, and has strong hands-on ability. Because his mother is a teacher, this boy has special respect for the teacher and often helps the teacher and teachers. The class does things.
Many people ask this mother for advice, how does she raise her children?
She said the following:
1. Respect the children. Both parents are teachers, and they are usually busy with study and work. The father often writes at home. When the son sees it and wants to learn, the father teaches him seriously. Parents have the same attitude towards many things their son wants to learn, including when he was a freshman in high school, he wanted to learn seal cutting, and when he was a sophomore in high school, he wanted to learn saxophone. Although his parents were also worried about whether this would affect his studies, and they were a little reluctant, but once their son mentioned it Once it came out, they immediately supported it. 2. A good family atmosphere.
My parents are both people who love to learn. When my son was young, he often did homework in his mother's office, watching her preparing lessons and looking up information. He would read his own books and draw his own pictures beside him, quietly and without disturbing her. Back home, in addition to reading, my mother also likes music and is good at singing and dancing. In addition to reading, my father also likes to play basketball, so he also likes music and sports. Of course, there is also a very good reading habit, which is something the whole family loves to do.
3. Don’t pamper your children.
Although he is an only child, his parents have never cared about him. My mother is the eldest sister in the family. She has to do a lot of things since she was a child, and she also has to take care of her younger siblings. When she came to her son, she also nurtured him in the same way, letting him do everything he should know how to do.
Of course, Tsinghua University was just the first step for this boy. He successfully enrolled in Tsinghua’s graduate program and became financially independent from the beginning of graduate school, spending all his own money. When he was preparing to go to the United States to study for a Ph.D., his mother planned to buy him a house to pay for his tuition and living expenses. As a result, he directly applied for a scholarship from a top American university, which was enough for his tuition and living expenses. He heard that he still had extra money.
His mother said happily: It's good, I saved a house.