Can you be friends if you don't agree with your consumption concept?

The concept of consumption doesn't conform to that we can be friends, because besides the concept of consumption, there are also outlook on life and values. If the consumption concept doesn't match, let's go shopping together.

Contradictory consumption view, as its name implies, refers to people's attitudes and views on consumption level and consumption mode.

Two people with different consumption views are nothing more than different units that buy things and different views on evaluating goods.

For example, it is common for a girl with a rich family and a girl with an ordinary family to buy thousands of pieces of clothes, while the girl with an ordinary family mostly buys one or two hundred pieces of clothes.

As long as two people respect each other, seek common ground while reserving differences, rich girls don't dislike ordinary girls, and ordinary girls don't blindly pursue things beyond their spending power, they can become good friends.

Of course, if it is really impossible to unify, then two people should not go out shopping together. As friends, it is not a big problem that their consumption views are inconsistent.

It is more important that the outlook on life and values fit together. Two people can become friends, the most important thing is the ideological fit.

If you have the same or similar views on one thing, and you are both hateful or enterprising, you can study together, encourage each other to make progress together, comment on current events together, and talk about your parents' shortcomings together. ...

If we can talk together, we are true friends.

I have a good friend whose father is a senior official. She also married the son of a real estate owner. She lives a rich life and often travels abroad. And I am an ordinary woman in an ordinary family, married to an ordinary person.

When we sit together, we can often talk all day, talk about what we have seen and heard around us, talk about hot news, and spit out our husband who is "seeing a dragon without a tail" together.

Her children are older than mine, and we always pack their clothes. I will also buy new clothes and shoes for their children on holidays.

She won't dislike clothes and shoes because they are not brands, and I won't complain because her children's clothes are not new.

She will share her experiences of traveling abroad with me, and I will tell her interesting stories among my classmates in the writing class.

Values and outlook on life are similar, which makes us live different material lives, but our hearts are close.