A generation of kings, sitting in the world, dressed in 3 thousand makeup, but concentrated all his love for 3 thousand, preferring to lose the world and not fail you. No matter whether I believe in Buddhism or live and die together, which ending is enough to make me excited and envious of the girl who loves spring, and I wish I could become the heroine of absolute beauty. When I grew up, I saw joys and sorrows, experienced love and hate, and walked around the world several times before I realized that many things just looked beautiful. Looking at the emperor shunzhi and Princess Dong, we also have compassion.
(1) Dong Efei: The misty rain in the south of the Yangtze River moistened this beautiful and intelligent girl. In ancient times, women's status was low, with only surnames but no names. Dong Eshi is just her surname, and she has different names in different TV plays. In the ballad I first heard, her name was Wu Yunzhu, and I like this name very much. Just call her Wu Yunzhu.
Many people dream of having such a man with incomparable style like Wu Yunzhu, who is obsessed with himself and unforgettable. But getting to know Wu Yunzhu, I found that this girl is really excellent, and she definitely deserves Xiao Wang's love.
When Wu Yunzhu was young, he lived with his father Eshuo in the south of the Yangtze River. The misty rain and flowing water in the south of the Yangtze River moisten this beautiful and intelligent girl, so she worships Chinese culture without the pride of Manchu women, only the gentleness of Jiangnan women. This coincides with Fu Lin (the emperor shunzhi), who also admired China culture. At that time, in the upper class of Manchuria and Mongolia, Jiangnan was a barbarian and Han people were slaves. The two were heterogeneous and highly compatible with each other.
Wu Yunzhu is gentle in appearance and grand in heart. Her calligraphy is excellent, free and easy, magnificent and unrestrained. Fu Lin saw her handwriting for the first time, but she never thought it was written by a boudoir woman. Not only that, Wu Yunzhu is proficient in a subset of classics and history, and a hundred schools of thought contend. It was from her that Fu Lin became obsessed with Buddhism.
(2) the emperor shunzhi and Dong E Fei: They belong to love, not marriage. From our point of view today, they are absolutely incomparable partners, but they are not suitable couples. They belong to love, but not to marriage. As for love, they have the same heart and appreciate each other, and can understand each other and the world from the height of the soul. Such lovers are rare in the world. I am lucky to get it; No, my life.
With regard to marriage, the emperor shunzhi, as the first monarch after entering the Qing Dynasty, is a country. His marriage can only be the product of politics, and his harem can only be the balance of imperial power. He can only spoil, but not love. It is doomed that he can't live with love, and it is also doomed that Wu Yunzhu's entry into the palace can only be a tragedy.
Young and energetic kings don't think so, but they can envy the world and how they can't control their love. Fu Lin overcame all difficulties and welcomed Wu Yunzhu into the palace (she entered the palace at the age of 18, which is by no means a draft. I can only believe that the king plundered it in the name of love.
Like all men and women who fall in love, Fu Lin believes that love should be together and never part. However, no matter how much pain this brings to Wu Yunzhu. Because of this love, Wu Yunzhu endured this pain until the final liberation. This is what I admire most about Wu Yunzhu. For this love, she gave everything until she died. No matter how much I admire her honor and status, I can't and don't want to be her, for nothing but that she lives too hard. And love is not the whole of life. But she used her whole life to fulfill her love.
(3) Dong E-fei: If you don't come in one breath, where can you stay? Wu Yunzhu entered the palace in an awkward position and was promoted to the imperial concubine at a rocket-like speed. After being the deputy, everyone looked askance and became the target of the harem. She has no friends and no family, only high palace walls and strict palace rules. The harem system in Qing Dynasty also doomed that she and Fu Lin could not be close all the time. She is lenient with others and strict with herself. Even though everyone doesn't like her, she still wants to get on well with everyone. She visits her mother-in-law every day, but she is rejected every day. Even so, she gave Fu Lin more guidance, persuasion and comfort, and said nothing about her emotional grievances.
She dragged her body to Xiaozhuang's illness shortly after delivery and took care of it for a month, which directly led to her postpartum disorder and premature return of youth. She became a virtuous empress, but she didn't become an ethereal black cloud bead. Perhaps, in her mind, junior positions are not important. What she likes is mutual affection with Fu Lin. "Where can I stay if I don't come in one breath?" Today, I still feel awkward.
(4) Postscript: Please choose a marriage that can nourish each other and achieve a win-win situation. Today, we are far away from the unpredictable battle between the court and the imperial power. We only saw Fu Lin, Wu Yunzhu and a couple of marriage-seeking men and women coming from the ancient historical road. What can we get from their lost love? Love is not enough. When it doesn't arrive, don't look around, it will hurt spring and grieve autumn. Strive to improve yourself, enrich yourself, and be a better and more comfortable self. You are good enough to meet good enough love.
In love, don't care about gains and losses. If you want to take it, you must give it first. When we haggle over every penny, we may have moved away from love. I think, in this life, people still need a moth to throw herself into the fire and burn herself to death. This is the best proof that we were young, passionate and loved. It is also the best proof that we have been to this world.
The world is worth it. Compared with love, marriage is more realistic and emphasizes the balance of power. So, please choose your marriage carefully. Please choose a marriage that can nourish each other and win-win. I hope you and I can enjoy vigorous love and find an ordinary marriage in the secular world.