Speaking of home, there are big families and small families. In modern society, there are many big families, and the biggest difficulty is harmony. Because of the small population, small families seem to have no sense of dependence if they live in a big house and face an empty home every day. Living in a small house, facing hard and cold bricks and siding every day, you can't feel the warm atmosphere of home. So even if there is a home, there must be someone at home; Someone, you have to be tactful. As the saying goes: family members are not willing to be bullied; He also said: home and everything. In the family, you can be kind to your father, filial to your parents, respect your brothers and friends, and obey your husband. As the saying goes, as a family works together, even the dirtiest things can be turned into gold.
Nowadays, families generally have some problems, such as high debts, different ideas, eccentric personality, uneven labor and self-persistence. So the family changed from a comfortable nest to a cold battlefield, from a safe haven to a place of right and wrong. Even if relatives are not close, home is not there, and the meaning and fun of life will be reduced and reduced a lot.
Home is the basic unit of society. A country is not a country if it is not a home in society. Because the country is made up of many families; A family is made up of many people. Confucius said: "cultivate one's morality, keep one's family in order, govern the country and level the world." Self-cultivation can unite families and unite families, thus governing the country and leveling the world.
If a family wants "home and everything", it must be able to understand, understand, respect and tolerate each other. Most people say that they want to serve the society. Why not start by serving the family? Most people say they want to build a country, so why not start with family building?
A person who loves his family should not haggle over every ounce for his own interests, but should be able to plan for the whole family; People who love their families should not argue too much about their likes and dislikes, but should take the happiness and well-being of the whole family as the premise.
"Foguang Caigen Tan" said: "Brothers hate each other, and the victims are parents; Husband and wife hate each other, and the victim is the family; Colleagues resent each other, and the victim is the supervisor; Politicians hate each other, and the country suffers; Everyone hates each other, and it is themselves who suffer. He also said: compassion is the driving force of family happiness; If you want a good family, care is the most important thing. In a word, if a family wants to be harmonious and happy, warmth and humor in the family are an important factor.