People have been looking for dreams, self, happiness and meaning all their lives, and all these are to get rid of loneliness.
In the bustling crowd, people are talking, watching, listening and talking. In the process of getting to know each other, we find that they are so different, such as personality, preferences, beliefs, etc., which makes people feel that it is difficult to find friends in the world and they are increasingly lonely.
This feeling of loneliness is a dull pain. It seems harmless, harmonious and gregarious, but for the self, the existence of this emotion makes it difficult for people to be comfortable, enjoy and satisfied in life.
First of all, what is loneliness?
In other words, loneliness is an inner feeling, not an external appearance.
Therefore, a person does not mean loneliness.
Loneliness is a person's carnival. Sometimes a person can cure loneliness.
Teacher Li Bo once said that he likes drinking tea alone in a quiet room. When he thought of Lu Tong's seven bowls of tea poems, he drank them one by one, just like talking to a bosom friend.
A good cup of tea is rich in layers. In every brewing and drinking, you can savor the wonderful taste and stretch of your body. When making tea, I feel my mouth is moist, my bones are boring and my bones are light.
Enjoy this wonderful artistic conception of living in the present. There is no need to ask Mingyue to raise a glass, so why aren't there three people in the audience? Even if it is a person, it is also wonderful.
When listening to a song, some lyrics or melodies will touch the memories and emotions in the depths of the soul. Some people miss the past and old friends, some people feel sweet and gentle, and some people feel that their pores are open and have a profound touch.
Just like meeting a bosom friend, it helps you accurately express your emotions, your doubts, your stories and your feelings, so that you can find yourself at that moment.
This moment, even if lonely, is beautiful and enjoyable. Emotions and past events that can't be found anywhere are sent to your heart through such a faint melody. The moment the frequency vibrates, it actually relieves loneliness, because you feel a distant similarity, which makes people feel warm and moved.
When reading a book, you don't know the author, and the author doesn't know you. But when you read a paragraph, you are deeply touched by a nerve. The author's heart when he wrote these words has already completed a profound communication with your heart when you read these words at the moment. This kind of communication transcends the limitations of time and space.
For example, a small poem that has been circulated for thousands of years has changed with the passage of time, but it has nourished the modern soul after a thousand years.
For example, in a novel, the protagonist encounters similar confusion to yours, and the plot and experience in the book make you suddenly realize; Or you are reading this article today, which gives birth to a little affection and emotion.
These, without knowing each other, can quietly bring strength to people invisibly.
There was once a friend who couldn't settle down for a second.
It's okay when I'm busy at work. If I stay at home alone as soon as I have a holiday, I will be impetuous.
So he will definitely open WeChat and make friends. Sometimes friends are singing or drinking, even if they don't like singing and drinking, they will go to the appointment for the company.
As a result, I collapsed in a bright light and green wine, which consumed my energy and dragged my tired and empty body home.
It is everyone's innate ability to interact with the spirit of heaven and earth alone.
Gathering and holding groups has gradually lost this ability.
A person looks at a painting, overlooking a flower field, or occasionally a gust of wind blows through the fields, looks up at the little glimmer scattered in the cracks of leaves, and looks up at the starry sky in the dead of night ... Some beautiful moments will make people addicted and feel a higher level, greater and more secret communication from the bottom of their hearts.
At these moments, the heart is broad-minded and will not make people feel lonely. The more people have such moments, the more energetic and unique they will become.
I also know some people who seem to be out of the mainstream society. A man, after an age of no doubt, studies ancient books, writes calligraphy, plays guitar, and sometimes rides a bike to Tibet to take photos alone.
I come from a good family, but I never buy useless things. Every book you buy, you will take notes carefully. I have seen it many times, but it still looks clean and flat. There are not many clothes, but everything is elegant and decent, and they are carefully folded after each airing. Gifts and letters from friends are also carefully preserved.
Cherish your time and property. In today's materialistic expansion, you are a rare person who cherishes things.
Such people are really rare in today's society. His life is not lively, even a little deserted to outsiders, but his heart is full and he won't feel lonely at all.
His solitude brings him a lot of time, a quiet heart, a pair of clean eyes and a refreshing face. Over forty, still like a teenager.
So sometimes we have to love something.
These passions are not because they are the fashion that everyone pursues, not because they are useful and can be used for profit, but because of your own unique soul personality, which can touch your inner things vividly and sensitively.
Because of this love, to some extent, it eliminates the innate loneliness and makes us unique.
People with outstanding temperament often have a skill or can immerse themselves in something. Don't ask for gains and losses, don't care about losses. And you can be alone for a while.
The beauty of loneliness is really wonderful. It takes a soft and delicate heart to experience it slowly.
A man walked through a rice field and saw the grass grow and the warbler fly; Over the mountains and mountains, watching the stars and the moon; Reading with the light on at night, thinking about summer and late spring.
Your world is sometimes a golden horse, and sometimes it is poetic. Loneliness dissolved one by one, alone in this cool night.