The marriage view of intelligent women

1, don't take Excellence as a burden. I watched the news the other day. In order to find a blind date smoothly, some girls with high academic qualifications, who are obviously graduate masters, only dare to write an undergraduate course in their materials, saying that they are afraid that their academic qualifications are too high to scare away blind dates. After reading this news, there is only one feeling. Is Excellence a burden to solve the problem of marriage and love now? I have to hide it. In marriage and love, what we need is diamond cut diamond's company. If the other person is far away from you, why should we grovel to his level? To build a good self, a woman is obviously adding chips to herself. A good woman should be more confident! A man who makes you feel that Excellence is a burden can only show that this man is too low-end and should be a man who should improve, not a woman who regrets. A good woman just needs to meet a better man, so don't take Excellence as a burden. Excellence is not your fault, because Excellence can make us better! 2, know how to actively pursue opportunities is to grasp, don't miss a person worth a lifetime because of your reserve, hesitation and cowardice. Happiness does not fall from the sky for no reason, and the happiness of others is hard to find. Even if happiness can take the initiative to land, women will still let happiness pass by if they don't know how to reach out and pick it up! The chances of his success are really too small. Why can't women take the initiative to harvest beautiful love and happy marriage? How can you get happiness easily without hard work? 3, knowing how to let go of the past is sometimes not a good thing, especially for feelings. It is clear that a relationship is over, but a woman who is too nostalgic will still be trapped inside, unable to get out and let go of the past! In the TV series "I know, I know, it should be green and fat", after Sheng Minglan and Xiaoyegong missed each other, Xiaoyegong wanted to start over with Sheng Minglan, and Sheng Minglan only said: "Never look back!" In fact, the scenery in front is the best. Why have you been indulging in past memories? A woman who knows how to let go of the past can live a chic life and get happiness more easily! The marriage view of a wise woman 2 What is the greatest wisdom of a woman in marriage 1. Learn to rely on your husband and enhance his sense of responsibility. Every man has a hero complex. I hope to be the patron saint of the woman I love. Therefore, smart women should take advantage of this. You should always make him feel that you can't live without him, you will miss him if you don't see him, and you will be lonely without him. But you must know in your heart that no one in this world is equally wonderful and will not change because of anyone. 2, to be a big woman with softness and firmness, to be independent and strong, but the surface must be gentle! Especially in front of her husband, always be a delicate little woman. 3. Use romance to adjust that couples in love need romance, create some surprises after marriage, and make the dull couple's life ripple. Although after marriage, men concentrate on their careers, women have to work and do housework, and they have no more energy to think about romance, but it is better to show each other something on important days. 4. Respect each other. Two people in love are together. If you want to maintain this relationship for a long time, the most important thing is to respect each other, their preferences, their living habits, their families and their friends. 5. Stop nagging. Remember that silence is golden. Silence in time, you will find it more useful than nagging. However, if you meet a man who plays the fool, you can give him love violence, pull your ears and bite your nose, but don't use force. Making friends with your husband is based on "like-minded". No matter what happens between husband and wife, they are interested in doing it together. No matter what topic, they always have endless words, and the relationship between husband and wife will be stable for a long time. 7. Tolerance is a virtue and a kind of mind. Harmony between husband and wife is inseparable from tolerance. Only tolerant couples are more likely to get a happy marriage. Everyone has shortcomings and shortcomings. Men smoke, eat and snore. Women are vain, sloppy, unsanitary, nagging, etc. What are the three views in marriage? 1. In marriage, we must first do three things: appreciate each other's advantages, and both sides can be honest and tolerant. To achieve these three points, no matter what kind of feelings and marriage, you can basically live in peace and calm, so that your marriage life will be happy and harmonious. 2. What are the three views in marriage? In fact, the three views in marriage refer to: outlook on life, values and world outlook. Whether in life or marriage, both husband and wife should establish a correct outlook on life, values and world outlook, face their choices correctly, and face them bravely regardless of the outcome. In this way, your life and marriage will be happy. What is the correct view of marriage 1. Getting along in marriage is a pleasure. If you can experience this kind of fun in your marriage life, your love will become sweeter and sweeter. In fact, no matter how busy you are at work, you should spend more time with each other and give them more care. This can reduce many contradictions between husband and wife, so everyone should treat their marriage life with a fun attitude. 2. Husband and wife get along for a long time, and it is easy to be indifferent to their mistakes and dare not admit them. When a husband and wife have an argument and lose their temper, they see the worst of each other. If you can sincerely apologize afterwards, I believe many contradictions can be resolved. In this world, no one wants to see his marriage become unbearable. If you accidentally hurt the other party, you must be honest with each other and strive for the other party's consent. What is the most terrible thing in marriage? 1, loveless marriage. Marriage is combined because two people love each other, but when there is no common hobby, language and interest between husband and wife, this kind of love will become dull, the most important spiritual communication between husband and wife will be hindered, and the emotional world will naturally become strange. 2. Asexual marriage. Sex is an indispensable adjustment in husband and wife's life. It is also the most direct way for couples to enhance their feelings. Couples with harmonious sexual life are close. On the contrary, asexual marriage will make couples lack natural intimacy. Such a marriage is extremely fragile. 3, often cold war marriage. A little quarrel between husband and wife can add some fun to ordinary husband and wife life. But the cold war can make couples feel extremely tired. The cold war is a kind of civilized violence, which can make both husband and wife feel a kind of despair from their feelings. The cold war will give each other the illusion that you no longer love him. This feeling will become more and more unfamiliar after a long time, and marriage will be in crisis. 4, often separated marriage. Nowadays, many couples live in different places, and some have to' separate' for their children. But this separation will become true after a long time. No one likes loneliness. Couples who can't live together always seem to have barriers. This is the law of human memory. The common feelings are deep, and they are alienated without touching feelings, so are friends and lovers. 5. Complain about picky marriages. There is a saying that "human beings make mistakes". When people live together, they must tolerate and understand each other. Always talking about other people's shortcomings. If you don't know how to solve things, you just keep complaining and finding fault with each other. After a long time, it will only make the other party more bored and annoying. A marriage that often complains and finds fault is likely to go wrong. 6. Comparison and transformation of marriage. Everyone has a vanity, some heavy and some light. People with strong vanity often compare with each other and envy other people's lives. So I want to transform my other half and ask the other side to live according to their own ideas. Everyone has his own ideas and personality. When you always want to reform each other, no one will be willing to live according to the lifestyle they don't like, let alone satisfy each other's vanity. No one can persist in such a marriage for a long time. 7. A marriage of distrust. The most important thing between husband and wife is trust. When one party is unreasonably suspected, the other party's heart is painful. Mutual suspicion will make the feelings between husband and wife more and more unfamiliar, and will also completely hurt each other. An insecure marriage will lead to more and more estrangement, and even make one party feel extremely wronged because of doubt, which will also escalate the contradiction and eventually lead to divorce. Smart women's views on marriage 3 How to improve the freshness between husband and wife 1. Care more about each other. No matter how long husband and wife are together, they should not run on each other and hurt each other. They should care about each other, be more considerate and care about each other. This is the mutual obligation of husband and wife. When two people are together, they also belong to cohabitation. After a long time, your lover will become your relative and an indispensable person in your life. Holding your hand and growing old with your son are not just words. Let's take action. Second, you should be more emotional at ordinary times. What China lacks most in marriage is the romance between husband and wife. If couples usually show more love, call relatives more, give warm kisses and hugs, and sometimes send each other a bunch of flowers to chat in bars and cafes, more emotions will be fresher. Why is it romantic? It seems that France symbolizes romance, where customs and ideas are the same. Forming a habit, such as praising women, such as being a gentleman, will make women crazy. Third, seek common interests. Husband and wife should try to seek common ground while reserving differences and change themselves to adapt to each other, including personal hobbies. Just like my husband and wife, she loves dancing, I am her partner, and I love calligraphy. She plays badminton and fishes with me. The purpose of doing this is to integrate into each other's lives, have common interests and hobbies, worship each other more and communicate more, so that the two people will become more and more tacit. Fourth, there are usually more small surprises. I remember that fur was very popular one year, and I saw that other colleagues were wearing well, so I bought one for my wife. It cost me half a month's salary. What a luxury! My wife was particularly moved and was gentler to me than before. Therefore, we must remember each other's birthdays and send our best wishes as soon as possible. Ways to enhance the freshness between husband and wife 1. Tolerance and attaching importance to marriage preservation are both necessary for couples to attach importance to tolerance and endure humility, because this is a foundation of their feelings. 2. Help each other. In addition, you can also help each other when they encounter something, in other words, ask them for help. 3. Private Space We should have our own private space in our marriage. Although they are husband and wife, private space is still necessary. 4. If we are romantic and warm-hearted, we can often do some romantic things to enhance the feelings between husband and wife. Why do you say that you can only do romantic things when you are with someone, and you can do that after you get married? Pay attention to improving the freshness between husband and wife 1. Even though you have been married for many years now, you will still prepare some surprises for him from time to time. For example, when you go home, you will buy him a rose by the flower shop and give it to him quietly when you go home. This will make this woman feel very happy, because no matter how old your wife is now, she will be very eager for romance. I am eager to get all my husband's love, so if you can do this, I believe your relationship will be very harmonious and husband and wife will get along quite comfortably. Even if we get married, even if you love your wife or husband very much, we don't want to love. If you lose yourself, you must keep improving. Only if you keep improving, the other person will feel different about you, which will naturally bring you freshness. It is also important for the couple to keep fresh. If we love someone, we don't have to lose ourselves or obey each other completely. This is the only way to treat each other. The code of marriage preservation is 1. Appear confidently in front of each other every day. When two people disagree, give each other some time. Don't speak ill of each other all day. 4. Spend time with two people every day. It's best for two people to cook dinner together after work. 6. Say some sweet words for each other appropriately. 7. When you get married, we can be soft-hearted and charming. 8, don't be too strong, let the other side have a dare not violate your meaning.