The speaker is the very famous xu teacher. There are photos in the group, a beautiful woman. Although we have been close friends for some time in the group, we left in a vacuum for a while as soon as we met, and returned the Xu given by xu teacher to her. I can't help it It is easy to drop the chain when you see big coffee. Fortunately, many parents were as excited as me, so everyone rushed into the crowd as soon as they saw the teacher, which solved my little embarrassment in an instant.
All right, let's go straight to the parent-teacher conference. The contents of the parent-teacher conference mainly include these contents. I reviewed it roughly and wrote it down to share with you.
First of all, teachers' morality is very important.
Xu teacher attaches great importance to teaching children manners. She and her team will lead by example and bow to the children in every class. And they will encourage children to be polite in various small ways. Say hello to the aunt at the reception desk, for example. Under the long-term encouragement and influence, children will take the initiative to greet people and take pride in being polite.
At the same time, xu teacher also led her team, working hard and writing constantly. They rush to various remedial classes every day, and at night they will correct their children's homework until twelve o'clock, and then hold meetings on time after twelve o'clock to sum up their teaching experience and improve their teaching ideas. Every teacher in learning should not only have good handwriting, but also have experience in teaching children, and study and practice with xu teacher for one year before taking up his post until he is mature. At present, there are not many learning teachers in xu teacher, but each teacher can be independent and has rich experience in teaching children.
Second, perseverance is the key.
You must practice writing every day. In addition to being sick, you should stick to it whether you are on vacation or traveling. And suggested that parents sparring. Because only after sparring, can you really understand the places that need attention and the difficulties in writing, and you can guide your children with empathy. At the same time, I also progress with my children. Don't get off the bus in the middle of writing, study hard with your children and complete two stages.
Third, strict requirements and checks are the key points.
Only by writing carefully in the right way and forming habits can we write good words. One horizontal, one vertical, one left and one press, all between two fingers. It is normal that the writing is not good at first and needs to be revised, but once it persists and passes the bottleneck period of 7-8 weeks, the child will make rapid progress. And with the progress of writing, self-confidence will also improve.
Fourth, respect children and encourage criticism.
Every child has his own characteristics. Xu teacher and her study attach great importance to observing and understanding children's personality and characteristics, and guide and educate children according to their own characteristics in the teaching process. They don't always accuse children of writing badly or doing badly. Instead, I will chat with my children like big friends and make suggestions for improvement. They will pay great attention to their children's thoughts and take care of their feelings. Let children improve their emotional intelligence while writing.
Fifth, good habits, starting from an early age.
Now xu teacher and her team only teach big classes and first-year students. If the child is too old, once the habit is formed, it will be difficult to correct it later. At the same time, writing good words is a matter that requires meditation, perseverance and time. Once you are old and your studies are heavy, you don't have much time to devote to writing. At the same time, because writing is ugly and slow, it will affect learning efficiency. Similarly, if children can learn to write well before going to primary school, their writing speed and good handwriting will give them extra points and enhance their self-confidence after grade one. At the same time, the improvement of writing speed will help to improve the speed and efficiency when you are still doing math problems and writing English, which will be very helpful to learn other subjects well. Therefore, for the basic skills of writing, it is recommended to learn to write first.
At the same time, xu teacher suggested that children should do their homework in public places at home as much as possible, mainly for the convenience of parents' supervision, and at the same time, let children get used to doing homework at an early age.
A good family atmosphere is half the battle.
Xu teacher, a calligraphy teacher, is busy correcting children's homework every day and doesn't go to bed until after twelve o'clock at night. It is said that xu teacher's family also has a "pig teammate", who is responsible for the children's counseling in various subjects. Their hobbies at home are thanking each other, practicing calligraphy, and then learning from each other. This learning atmosphere has also influenced their children since childhood. So xu teacher suggested that we should spend more time with our children when they are studying.
Seven, hard pen to learn first, soft pen to see fate.
If you learn the soft pen first, because the posture of the soft pen is completely different from that of the hard pen, you may even get used to the posture of the coin, which will affect the posture of the hard pen, such as holding the pen with your wrist inward and your hand flying when lifting it. And learning soft pen calligraphy is a very important thing, which requires meditation, persistence and persistence. Seven points of hard work, three points of talent. Learning interest is the key. Hard pen is now a compulsory item in primary and secondary schools, so it must be practiced. And learning hard pen calligraphy well can get twice the result with half the effort.
Finally, the teacher sent us a sentence from her "pig teammate":
Our time with children is so short, please cherish it! Well, I think many parents want a dozen such pig teammates. )
Hearing this, I couldn't help leaving my brother who was climbing the sofa, and quickly applauded xu teacher's speech with other parents. That's all for sharing. I hope it's useful to everyone.