I am deeply convinced!
In this materialistic society, there is no doubt that our material life is getting richer and richer, but people's hearts are getting more and more impetuous.
If you really want to make your heart calm and your life simpler and simpler, you must learn to subtract from your life.
There is a saying in "Separation": "It is very important to change from a life of addition to a life of subtraction. It is not thought that changes action, but action that changes thought. It can be said that separation is a meditation. "
Therefore, if you really want to get rid of and subtract from life, you must take practical actions instead of paying lip service.
I remember a saying: "Silence nourishes the spirit, less things nourishes the spirit, less thinking nourishes the essence, and less desire nourishes the nature."
Therefore, if you want to go into battle lightly, you must start from these "four widows".
People who talk a lot are like walking at night, and they will inevitably step on the pit.
Real wise men always talk less and pay more attention! They don't talk through what they see, they don't talk through what they see, they give everything to themselves and leave space for others.
Silence can save a lot of troubles in life, on the contrary, talking a lot sometimes brings a lot of trouble to yourself.
I'm impressed.
I remember a colleague once had a visit from a foreign leader. While entertaining these leaders in the conference room, one of them inadvertently started a topic. Unexpectedly, this topic is like opening a colleague's chatterbox Colleagues talked endlessly and watched the meeting begin. She also said happily not to play. We winked at her and told her not to talk. Finally, she didn't stop.
Afterwards, our leader also held a summary meeting specially for this matter. I remember what our leader said: enthusiasm is good, and talkativeness is true, but we must look at the situation according to the occasion, otherwise it will be counterproductive.
Indeed, it is good to have Qiaozui Zhang, but it is the best embodiment of wisdom and self-restraint to grasp the discretion of speaking, divide the occasion, divide the object, and look at the situation, not to say much, not to be abrupt, but not to overdo it.
The real art of speaking is to get to the point, not to say too much, to be precise and to be less.
Indeed, it is not difficult to find that most people nowadays have many ideas. Today they have this idea, tomorrow they have that idea. As everyone knows, thinking too much and doing too little will only put shackles on the spirit and move on.
When we are carrying too many things on the road, it will only make us more and more tired, and finally we have to give up.
In ancient times, there was a person who was always worried that the sky would fall, couldn't sleep well every day, and was worried every day, so the idiom "worrying about the sky" came into being later.
The story of "worrying about the sky" tells us that too much worry and anxiety will only disturb our normal life; Thinking too much will only make us feel worse and worse.
So, don't always think too much. If you have time to think about this problem, you might as well read more books to enrich your brain and improve your thinking, as Jiang Yang said.
Cherish the present, live in the present, think less and do more, and enjoy the ordinary life is a person's skill.
Born as a man, being able to do many things is a skill, but being able to do one thing to the extreme is the real skill.
There are many people who want to do things now, but there are also many people who do things for three minutes.
This kind of person always wants to do everything, but can't stick to the end, fishing for three days and drying the net for two days. When they encounter a little setback, they want to stop and change direction.
As everyone knows, doing a lot of things at the same time or constantly changing direction and just trying a little will only make you more at a loss.
On the contrary, when we do something with our heart to the extreme, we can be handy and do it better and better.
As the saying goes, simple things are repeated, and repeated things are done with heart. Day after day, year after year, practice makes perfect and strives for perfection.
The story of the oil seller is the best example. His "accuracy" and his fierceness are all "skills" that he focused on one thing and practiced.
Thirty-six lines, the best in each line, as long as we focus on a certain line, a certain thing, and then do it with our heart, we will have good results.
A truly wise person does not do everything, but does everything for three minutes, and finally just exhausts himself.
A truly wise person will prioritize things, focus on what he has to do, and do things well.
Desire is something you must have, but not too much or too much.
Once desire is beyond our cognition, then desire will make us lose our way and eventually we will not be able to reach the other side safely.
Wang Xizhi, a famous calligrapher, died of improper desires in his later years.
Such a talented calligrapher wanted to be "immortal" after becoming famous, so he began to take a large number of 53, which was very popular at that time. In the end, his talent was drowned by his improper desires, which ruined his life.
As the book "The Road Few People Walk" says, to restrain yourself is to gain more freedom.
If we have less desires, more attention to life, less desires and more enthusiasm for life, then we will be less sad and more satisfied.
Improper desires are the poison of the soul. If we accumulate too much, it will dust our hearts.
Learn to be widowed, and you can always keep your heart clean!
Conclusion:
Living in the sea, knowing that the more you live, the more "widowed" you can let yourself go into battle lightly and not lose yourself in the secular world. The new world of live high is quiet, calm and comfortable. ...