Experience of practicing calligraphy

A teacher told me that practicing brush calligraphy can help me meditate, so I have been practicing brush calligraphy for more than a month recently. At first, I just listened to the teacher's suggestion, practiced calligraphy, bought tassel paper, brush and ink, and began to practice. Wow! That word is terrible! I was thinking, can I practice calligraphy like this? With such questions, I have been writing foolishly. Suddenly, one day, a friend saw me writing China's calligraphy.

My friend asked me: don't you practice calligraphy without copybooks?

I looked at him blankly: ah! I need a copybook! Our teacher told me to write without writing, and I can't describe it.

Friend: But you have to copy it!

I still look at a loss: what is plagiarism?

Friend: If you don't have a copybook, how do you know this word, stroke by stroke, how to write it and where to put it in Mi Zige?

I don't understand: ok, I'll buy a copybook. What copybook should I buy?

Friend: Buy copybooks for beginners.

Then I bought a copybook and practiced for more than a month. Now my calligraphy has made great progress. From the process of practicing calligraphy, I realized that no matter what I do, there must be a standard or purpose, and this standard or purpose is the "copybook" of practicing calligraphy. Without standards and goals, you don't know what you want, and you may end up with nothing. I also realized that work is the same. Give yourself a goal and sort out a workflow. Once there is a problem, you can easily find it, so that you can make great progress and improve efficiency. The same is true of educating children. Without systematic learning how to educate children, children can't be taught well without their own parenting goals.

Standards, objectives, processes! Studied it!