I had a telephone consultation when I met my senior last year. At that time, a senior was only in 350 yuan for an hour! Haha, you want 500 yuan now! ! ! After chatting for an hour, I found that I had lived in vain for more than 20 years. Your sister and senior are really masters of love, and countless women have seen countless men. This senior not only shared with me the principle of how women attract men, but also discussed with me why those rich people don't marry those beautiful goddesses, but find some less beautiful girls, such as some sports female stars. This question caused me to think.
I have been pestering the seniors to ask: How to become a goddess? How can we get rid of Gao Fushuai? What I have never understood is why those people around me who are not as good as me can successfully attract some men with good looks.
After the senior talked to me, I felt that I was still unfinished and kept pestering the senior! The seniors were really busy, so they suggested that I do long-term guidance. Knowing that being a goddess is not a short-term process, I signed up for one-on-one long-term guidance.
After one-on-one guidance, the seniors had a lot of communication with me in the early stage, and even discussed my family background, my growth experience, my emotional experience and so on. Finally, according to my personal situation, I was given a general framework. Senior asked me to make a promotion plan according to my own situation!
The daily life of the goddess
First of all, what is a goddess? Why be a goddess? Is the goddess just one of those long legs with white skin and beautiful appearance on the Internet? Is it rich and beautiful? Yes and no! I often see that many girls around me are well-off and sweet-looking, but they have long endured the exploitation and violence of their boyfriends and are unwilling to leave (not knowing the stop loss makes it harder for them to get out). I have also seen many girls from ordinary families spoiled by their husbands. Every time I see her, I feel that she is more and more beautiful and moving. Therefore, the word goddess is not only limited to external conditions, but also created from the heart, so the success rate of goddess for coquettish Korea is much higher than that of ordinary women.
Of course, I'm not saying that people don't pay attention to their appearance, but must pay attention to their appearance. It's great to fix a hairstyle that suits you, put on clean and refreshing clothes that can highlight your temperament, put on beautiful high heels, put on an elegant makeup, and add a little confidence to yourself. It would be icing on the cake if we could be stricter about our weight. I think these are easy to do. You can find relevant video tutorials online, so I won't say much. I summed up how ordinary girls become goddesses step by step through acquired efforts! The first thing to understand is:
Goddess is very busy!
Goddess is very busy!
We often say that the goddess is very busy, so we have to make an appointment in advance for a meal. The girl who rushed over as soon as she shouted to eat and play mahjong was definitely not a goddess.
In our vegetable market downstairs, a boss who sells spicy large intestine added my WeChat (actually, I really like eating, and it is the first time to disclose such a taste-oriented hobby. This large intestine is in short supply, and I especially don't like to bring cash, so I added WeChat to facilitate the transfer. After seeing my circle of friends, the boss often asks me, what do you do, girl? I find your life seems interesting! Yes! The life of the goddess is not only interesting but also fulfilling. Every day, she may get up early to make herself up, choose clothes that fit her, read books after work, brush her mobile phone and pay attention to the news. In order to keep fit, she had to go to the gym to sweat. On vacation, she carried a small bag and took a suitcase to travel. Everywhere she went, she would write down her feelings at that time. Sometimes I even see a boy's handwriting is good. In order to get in touch with him, I will practice calligraphy for a month and then send an open circle of friends. I hope the master can give me some advice.
Maybe you said I would do it, but how can a straight man tell a green tea bitch? Distinguishing green tea bitches is a woman's specialty, and straight men don't have this function! I once knew a boy. This boy has an elegant temperament. He reads regularly every day, and he can't waver for two hours every day. In order to make boys notice me, I often take pictures of my circle of friends reading books, accompanied by essays of small literature and art, and it didn't take long to hook up successfully. Opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared. You never know what kind of boy you will like next moment, so it is really a good move to have more skills and hobbies. This reminds me of Gao, who started from scratch in the recently hit in the name of people, but went to learn Peking Opera professionally in order to get in touch with a group of old bureaucrats who love China culture. A song "Zhi Dou" became a high-value display at the dinner table.
The goddess also has to observe words and deeds: you can accept it if you are good!
The goddess also has to observe words and deeds: you can accept it if you are good!
Or Gao in in the name of people, when playing golf with Qi Tongwei, director of the provincial public security department, he found that the other party had no intention of playing golf at all, so he stopped the conversation in time on the grounds that the weather was too hot and skillfully avoided the useless topics that might appear below (Qi Tongwei was in a bad mood and didn't follow Gao's words). On the contrary, MC Jin, the wife of Dakang Li, secretary of the municipal party committee, is also a very capable woman. She is aggressive, and instead of getting the ideal love she wants, she pushes men further and further. For example, I met a handsome BMW man before, and his suitcase was lv. To tell the truth, I like him very much. I can't wait to talk to him with my mobile phone until midnight every day, but I am a goddess. I want to go to bed before 23 o'clock! Can't give others the feeling of idleness and emptiness! The most important thing is that people's mood fluctuates the most at 23 o'clock every day. At this time, the topic may not be nutritious, and it is very likely to have adverse side effects.
So every time I end the topic, I will start the next day's contact on the grounds that I have to go to work tomorrow and want to sleep in the beauty salon. Sometimes I even play a little trick and deliberately don't return, and then return a message similar to that of being sleepy last night. The first time we met was in the fourth BMW store, where his car was maintained, and mine was not a BMW. In order to meet by chance, I told him that the Audi No.4 shop here seems to be not very intelligent, and the problem of creaking cars has never been found out, which makes me upset. He immediately said that the Audi No.4 store in the district is definitely better than that in the suburbs, and it is next to the BMW No.4 store. He knew the manager inside and asked me to drive over and have a look, so I learned to be famous and drive slowly (remember, the goddess is busy, and she is not a puppy, so she will arrive as soon as she shouts).
Later, before we met, I deliberately went the wrong way and called to ask for directions, so I got his phone number easily (I admit I am a low-level driver! ) We killed time by going to the movies while waiting for the car to be repaired. After we came back, he insisted on inviting me to dinner, but I went home decisively on the grounds of something. I would rather have porridge at home than agree to his invitation again. Your purpose is to repair the car, not to eat. Not long after I got home, he gave me a box of half chicken and half eggs, saying it was good for my migraine ... my home is not less than 30 kilometers away from the place where eggs are sold. When you get along with boys, you must not wear off the freshness the first time. The first meeting should be controlled at about 1 hour, and the first blind date should be controlled at about 25 minutes. Men are hunters, like hunting, like challenges, and the more difficult their prey is, the more they can fight. So, don't talk until everyone has no topic, and what's more, it will forcibly continue the topic. These are all undesirable.
The circle of friends of the goddess, even the photos are goddesses!
Are there any girls around you who don't talk at first, but they are ok. When they talk, they are like an inflatable doll with a hole. It's best not to talk. As for me, I used to be one of these people. I talked a lot, loudly, and laughed ... the kind that gave you nightmares. The point is that my circle of friends is funny, and I think I'm cute. If you have the above behavior, then congratulations, you are the female diaosi in the hearts of boys and even similar men.
The circle of friends is as small as photos, and the connected songs shared are carefully selected, okay? I bought a camera phone that specializes in taking pictures, and it has its own beauty effect. I want to send it from all angles and backgrounds, and then I only choose the one I think is the best. Do you think it will be okay for me to choose it? All wet! I need a picture! ! Try various filters, adjust luminosity, adjust contrast, adjust background blur and so on. The last seemingly casual snapshot appeared in my circle of friends, accompanied by some small literary and fresh words ... do you think the male god will praise it? What are you thinking about? ! This is just to send away some diaosi men, because such photos and essays are enough to shock some diaosi men. Remember that your circle of friends is not only for high-value display, but also for screening each other, saving time and taking the initiative. You think I talk too much nonsense? Why not tease the male god? Hmm (expressing hesitation, etc.) ... a lot of words, but didn't you fall into the pit? Clink glasses and talk! Rushing for success will only make the male god feel your overwhelming sense of need. Do you think the male god has never seen a girl? He has met not only girls, but also many beautiful girls. If you think it's good, others will think it's good. Otherwise, why are there so many shirts on the road? How did iPhone become an arcade?
Never bring funny things into your circle of friends. You can be funny once in a while, but don't let people think that you display all the good and bad things in your circle of friends like a two-yuan supermarket.
In fact, the goddess is just a synonym. She is synonymous with positive energy women such as independence, self-confidence, inner strength, gentleness, elegance and wisdom, and is a model of high self-control. Talking about the goddess may take three days and three nights. From the first day I met my senior, I knew what kind of road I would take and what kind of help Lao Lai could give me. But seniors can't replace me, so I can only walk slowly step by step. These months have been a lifestyle I have never had before. Because I want to match with higher value, I have regained my old skills, such as guzheng, piano, soft pen calligraphy and gym. I force myself to make plans, study plans and time plans every day, increase my hobbies, and spend money and effort to build a higher-end circle of friends (not a circle of friends on WeChat). God knows how much I dislike reading, but I can't help it. I choose my own path.
Whether you are a coquetry or a goddess, in fact, in the final analysis, it is a value competition. Only when your own value is high enough and your presentation is rich enough will your success rate be improved. But improving the success rate of coquetry is not for one person, nor for the next person, but for standing at a higher height to breathe fresh air and see a wider landscape. Maybe the next moment, you can't help but sigh that life can be so beautiful!
-This is dedicated to the film romance seniors. Thank you for your persistence and inculcation over the past few months. I have a small request: can you be my lifelong emotional consultant? Ha ha!
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