Chapter 65438 +0: "The art of education lies not in imparting skills, but in inspiring, awakening and encouraging."
When Xiaoyue writes, she always does whatever she wants without looking at the copybook. You said what he wrote was different from the copybook. He is still impatient. He talks too much. I give you a word: try to write. I know my eyes are bigger than my eyes, but I can't write well. I have to help him find a good way to write. So I closed the book and stared at him, so that he would get serious. When I look at his handwriting, I will sincerely praise him: "Dianki. Xiaodoudian looked at the copybook carefully and said, "It's different, Mom. That stamp is thin first and then thick. I'll write as thick as I want. Just write another one. "Next, look at the copybook for a long time. Look at the position of the strokes on Mi Zige's copybook first, and then write, which is really much better. Next, by observing and comparing, he can find out the difference between what he wrote and the copybook, and also see which one is the most suitable, and while writing, he also comments on which one he wrote is not good and which one he likes best. I echoed: "Come on, I like the last typesetting best. It's better to practice more times. I think the more I write, the better I look. He looked at each row carefully and said, "I like the third row." I think the overall size of the third row is the same, and the strokes occupy an accurate position. ""Then look at the overall layout of the copybook and see how each word occupies the case before you write. " "Mom, I think the size ratio of words is similar, but the strokes are thinner." "Well, a little look really carefully. "The word" knowledge "written on it is in the wrong position. He shouted, "Mom, I know this word is wrong. People say that a piece of meat spoils a pot of soup, and I am just a word. " "Ha, ha, ha, nothing, making mistakes is normal. The key is that my son has aesthetic ability. This word is very valuable. The key is not to make the same mistake next time you practice this word. " In the following writing, Xiaoyue was much more careful and looked at the font more carefully. This is the value of mistakes.
Chapter two: "kiss your teacher and believe in his way;" Respect their teachers and serve their teaching; Respect his teacher and do what he should do. " If children want to be interested in a certain subject, they must be full of trust and expectation for teachers, and parents' respect and evaluation of teachers directly affect their cognition. For the two children, I first set up the prestige of the teacher and help them build up a sense of admiration for the teacher. Before meeting the teacher, I will talk to him about the teacher first, so that he will be full of expectations for the class, and he will soon like the teacher:
"Teacher Du not only writes well, but also writes well and knows a lot. She is my sister's class teacher, and my sister can worship her. Don't you like the teacher's handwriting carefully in class? "
"It's really good for a single teacher to teach math. It's amazing that a single teacher can learn math well without doing his homework when he goes home a little. Listen to the teacher and attend class carefully. If you listen carefully in class, it seems not difficult to study after class. "
"The mountain teacher is very good. She went to another class as the head teacher. The new teacher Li is also excellent. She was sent by the school after careful selection. Listen carefully in class, go home and tell your mother how Miss Li gave you lessons? "
"Teacher Yang is the first in the county in this recruitment examination. She is diligent and hard-working, just beautiful, and her spoken English is excellent. My mother told his colleagues that you don't know how much I like her. " Up to now, when asked what subjects he likes, he always speaks Chinese, math, English, PE, music and art side by side. Now, the old ways come in handy. Xiaodou's handwriting is not good. He must be reminded later. If he talks too much, he still thinks I'm nagging. Ok, let's talk: "Come on, if you can keep practicing like this every day, you will catch up with the teacher in a few years." "Impossible, my teacher writes so beautifully." "It is possible to practice hard, but one thing may never catch up." "What?" "I remember when the teacher wrote, his back was always so straight, confident and calligrapher's demeanor …" When I looked at him, Xiaodoudian straightened up immediately. "Hey, it's a bit like it now." After a while, I forgot which word was badly written, and my eyes were afraid of my watch again. "One thing, if you practice hard, maybe one day you can write with your husband, but your eyes are on the table, unlike calligraphers. I am afraid there is no chance. " He sat up straight again and repeated it several times, hoping to overcome it slowly. ...
? Chapter 3: "It is upright and has no order; His body is not right, although he does not obey. " Criticism is useless and brings rebellion. The most effective thing is to let the children do it first. Two years ago, adzuki watched TV for a long time and asked him to turn it off several times. He kept answering, but he didn't turn off his phone for a long time. I was furious and shouted, "If you don't turn off the TV, I'll fall." He was also anxious and immediately retorted: "If you drop the TV, I will drop your mobile phone." Only then did I realize that I was wrong and I didn't want to do it to others. I've been watching my mobile phone, so how can I let him turn off the TV? I apologize first. From then on, we agreed that he would do homework, practice calligraphy and read books, and I would sit next to read books, but I would never look at my mobile phone. Until now, when I pick up the book, he will know when it is time. Every day, except for watching legal reports and news broadcasts, other TV programs do not last more than half an hour. I don't set a time, let him decide how long to watch it according to his own task. A man keeps his word and talks for fifty minutes. It will be closed immediately. If he forgets, I will ask, "Come on, how long is the TV?" If it arrives, he will close it immediately. If it is a few minutes away, he will say there are still a few minutes. Time's up. Let's get down to business at once.
Growing up with adzuki bean, too? In the process of growing up, I will find ways to solve problems and have a sense of accomplishment. When you see the examples in the book, you will want to have a try. You will feel satisfied after trying again and again. This is the happiest thing for a mother.