Fandeng Reading Club is a learning institution based on mobile Internet and a pioneer in advocating "reading for all". Our mission is to help 300 million people in China develop reading habits. Fandeng Reading Club provides various forms of essence interpretation, which is presented on Fandeng Reading Club APP in various forms, such as video, audio, graphics and text, for sharing and dissemination. In the form of text interpretation and audio-visual explanation, Fandeng Reading Club helps those who have no time to read, don't know which books to read and have low reading efficiency, and absorbs the essence of 50 books every year. Fandeng Reading Club aims to help more China people develop reading habits, improve themselves and benefit the society by spreading knowledge.
Non-violent communication is an American doctor, Dr. Marshall Luxembourg, who achieved the goal of two of a kind and harmonious coexistence through a way of communication. This article mentioned how he risked his life to talk to the Palestinian people and finally turned his enemy into his friend.
There is an old saying in China: A hundred things in one word. Speaking is a university question, a great art, and being unable to speak may lead to contradictions and misunderstandings; If you can talk, turn your enemy into a friend and turn your enemy into jade. I remember the seven-step poem that every child can recite. "Boiled beans and burned beans are crying in the pot. This is the same root, why bother to fry each other? " I think if Cao Zhi was not smart and could not speak, he would have been killed by the sword.
How can we speak in the gentle breeze and drizzle to achieve the purpose of peace? Teacher Fan Deng introduced observation-talk about feelings-talk about ideas. For example, between husband and wife, the husband came home late and smelled of alcohol. A smart wife will be angry when she sees her tired husband, but she will calmly tell her feelings: Husband, you come back so late every day, I feel that there is no warm atmosphere at home, so it is good for the family to sit together. Finally, say what you think: Dear, I hope you can come back three days early every week to spend time with me and my children. After all, home is a harbor. If we learn to speak like this, I think we can achieve the purpose of communication and maintain family harmony.
This is my second time to listen to the book club in Fan Deng. I did learn some methods. Fandeng Reading Club was recommended by our school and teacher Chen Xiaodong. Although I learned the method, I never listened. Because I'm not used to reading like this.
First, out of context, lack of coherence. If it is only a simple learning method, it is a good learning method. You can always put on headphones to listen. But what is the purpose of reading? It is to cultivate the spirit and cultivate the sentiment. Listening alone can't achieve this effect. Books have to be read locally one by one. Only by reading a book persistently can we clearly understand the context of the content and be inspired by the words. I just know the outline for 45 minutes. I can't accept it.
I think reading is slow. Not slow, but sink down and dive in. "Sit on the bench for ten years" is the attitude of learning. In this era of cultural fast food, everything advocates speed and efficiency. As we all know, some things are not immediate, but immediate. Only things that have been aged by history will last forever and be engraved on the monument of history, while those material fast food and spiritual fast food will always be a flash in the pan in the long river of history. Whether it is China's classical culture, national quintessence, calligraphy and painting. Have experienced the precipitation of history. These cultural treasures, like fine wine, make people stay fragrant and chew them carefully. And how many of those cultural fast food can stand the historical elutriation?
? Therefore, I would rather calm down and read the whole book than pursue cultural fast food!