Whether in school or in society, there are still many places to use deeds materials. From the formation and connotation of advanced objects, deeds materials can be divided into long-term advanced deeds materials and temporary advanced deeds materials produced by emergencies. How should we draft the contract? The following are my top ten parents' deeds carefully compiled. Welcome everyone to learn from them, I hope it will help you.
Top Ten Parents' Tales 1 When I learned that primary schools were asked to write excellent parents' stories, I felt really ashamed. As a parent, I just did some due responsibilities and obligations, but the school gave us such a high honor. I am well aware of the responsibilities and obligations of teachers, and I also understand that it is not easy for schools and teachers to work. Therefore, we usually actively cooperate with the work of schools and teachers, strengthen contact with schools, and strive to contribute to schools.
First, appreciate the beautiful and warm family of children.
Today, the beautiful, clean and comfortable environment of Bailang Primary School makes my children and I like it very much. My daughter Zhang Yijia often tells me about her beautiful campus. I can see from her eyes that she likes this school very much. This semester, my daughter has been reassigned to Class 6 (3), and the new learning environment has greatly changed her. Meeting new classmates and teachers, my daughter has become much more cheerful, and now she is not the taciturn and timid little girl she used to be. I am also sincerely grateful to the beautiful and warm family of Bailang Primary School.
Second, strengthen contact with schools and chat with teachers more.
The parent-teacher conference at school is an activity that I am extremely concerned about. No matter how busy I am at work, I will take time to take an active part. This is not only to improve their own quality, but also to respect children, so that children feel that they attach great importance to her and that her affairs are no small matter. This is also the best opportunity for us to get to know children and communicate with teachers and parents. Keep in touch with the class teacher in time to let parents know about their children's performance at school, and the teacher knows about their children's learning at home. In my heart, I always think that teachers are the most respectable. Teachers are the hardest, really like candles burning themselves to illuminate others. So I am very supportive of children's participation in school activities. I always analyze problems from the teacher's point of view. I think teachers are all for the good of children, whether it is criticism or praise. Children get more praise, and I will educate her to guard against arrogance and rashness and continue to work hard; When a child encounters difficulties, I will guide her to face them positively and overcome them. The class teacher is also very concerned about the growth of children. When we find that our children are lax in discipline or have other problems, we will communicate by phone or talk face to face, and often chat and discuss to solve the problems.
Third, actively participate in extracurricular activities and give children room for free development.
Nowadays, children have little time to play. It is their nature to play. If the child's nature is artificially strangled, there will be many psychological problems. So in order not to let the child have this regret, I will try to let him get in touch with nature and play with other children on weekends. Zhang Yijia was timid since childhood, so I specially enrolled her in a Taekwondo training class, which can not only strengthen her body, but also make her open her heart and communicate with others boldly. Knowing that she likes painting, I bought various painting tools for him to use to cultivate her extensive interests. Her English is also very good, so English learning software is specially installed on the computer at home.
After studying, she was relaxed and happy, and her extracurricular life became colorful.
Fourth, lead by example and set a good example for children.
Parents are children's first teachers, and children's initial words and deeds are obtained from their parents. Usually insist on doing things honestly, be friendly to people, and be a mirror for children in all aspects. Always educate your children. If you want others to be good to you, you must be good to others first. As you treat others, others will treat you. Always tell children stories of doing good deeds, guide children to get along well with every classmate in the class, be good at discovering the advantages of classmates, be willing to help classmates, and let children understand that only when they like classmates will classmates like themselves. Let children develop a good style of integrity, friendliness and diligence from an early age.
Top Ten Parents' Deeds 2 Luan Yueqiang's parents, and the mother of Luan Yueqiang, a student in Class 1 (2) of Najitun No.4 Primary School. Since attending school, Luan Yueqiang has actively supported various activities organized by the school, closely cooperated with the class teacher and classroom teacher to do a good job in home-school education, adhered to the principle of "love without drowning, temper leniency with severity", and strived to promote the all-round and healthy development of children. Her son is the vice monitor of Class One (2) and a sports committee member. He has a wide range of hobbies, a cheerful personality and excellent grades. He is a special student in painting. He has won the gold medal in the National Children's Painting and Calligraphy Competition, and won the title of "Good Boy" in the school many times, and has made outstanding achievements in various activities inside and outside the school. To sum up Luan Yueqiang's growth in recent years, there are some advantages in comprehensively educating children, mainly as follows.
First, set an example and be a good teacher for children.
Parents are children's first teachers, and children's initial words and deeds are obtained from their parents. Therefore, Luan Yueqiang's parents pay special attention to words and deeds. Usually, I insist on doing things honestly, being friendly to people, never slacking off in my career, and making mirrors for my children in all aspects. And often tell children that if you want others to be good to you, you must be good to others first; As you treat others, others will treat you. Always tell children stories of doing good deeds, guide children to get along well with every classmate in the class, be good at discovering the advantages of classmates, be willing to help classmates, and let children understand that only when they like classmates will classmates like themselves. Let children develop an honest, friendly and diligent attitude from an early age.
Second, warm and harmonious, and create a good family atmosphere.
Create a warm and harmonious family environment and strive to make children grow up healthily in happiness. Luan yueqiang's parents have always thought that excellent grades are gratifying, but happy growth is the most important thing. To this end, together with family members, strive to create a harmonious, democratic and relaxed family atmosphere for children, so that children can feel deep affection and love all the time. The layout of the indoor environment also fully considers the needs of children, such as hanging children's paintings and certificates to motivate children; Hang up a map of China and the world to let children know about the outside world. What's the big deal at home? Bring it up for discussion with children to enhance their democratic consciousness. Husband and wife have the same educational concept and unified requirements for their children. Knowing that "children are praised, not criticized" will usually give affirmation and encouragement to their son's little progress. Of course, we will never compromise on the mistakes that violate the principle, and explain the reasons in time so that they can understand the mistakes. It won't happen again
Third, we are committed to ideological and moral education.
While doing a good job in children's study, don't forget to carry out ideological and moral education for children. Luan yueqiang's parents know that educating their children to become talents is not only for the sake of the small family, but more importantly, it is necessary to train outstanding talents for the country. Usually, she attaches great importance to the cultivation of children's ideological and moral character. At school, children are required to respect teachers and classmates, and at home, children are required to respect their parents. In public places, she requires children to consciously abide by public morality and cultivate love and sense of justice from an early age. Every Monday when the flag is raised, she will wash her son's clothes and bring the red scarf neatly. And tell the children that this is a respect for the national flag. He is good at educating children from small things to form a correct outlook on life.
Fourth, pay attention to details and develop good study habits.
Good family study habits are the guarantee of school education. When children leave school, the first thing is to ask them to finish their homework for the day. Homework must be done in one go, not by halves. After that, prepare stationery and textbooks for class the next day. To form good habits, we should start from childhood and start from details. In order to cultivate her son's reading habits, she often accompanied him to study, regularly took him to the library and Xinhua Bookstore to borrow books, subscribed to classic books, simple and wonderful compositions and other reading materials, and adhered to the principle of reading to her son before going to bed, learning to be a man and cultivating love in reading. Now, as soon as each issue of Classic Reading arrives, Zhang reads it with relish. From the initial picture reading to the current Chinese and foreign masterpieces, there are thousands of books in her family. In order to increase children's interest in reading extracurricular books, Miao Ailing and his wife often read books with their children and discuss the characters in the books together, so that children can understand that reading extracurricular books will make people smarter and more capable. Now her son has developed a good reading habit, and his academic performance at school has always been among the best.
Fifth, clearly encourage and build children's self-esteem and self-confidence.
As the saying goes, "it is better to win the prize than to win the prize." Luan yueqiang's parents know this truth well. Therefore, she gives more affirmation and appreciation to the children's education methods. Consciously establish children's self-esteem and self-confidence. She encourages children not only in school, but also in all aspects of life. Keep children optimistic. Every day Luan Yueqiang walks to the school gate and says loudly: I can do it, I am the best! Luan Yueqiang's parents often say, "My son can do it. As long as you work hard, nothing is impossible."
Six, all-round development, cultivate children's comprehensive quality.
Modern society needs talents with comprehensive qualities, and Luan Yueqiang's parents have long been concerned about their children's all-round development. Luan yueqiang began to draw when he could hold a pen. He began to learn calligraphy at the age of eight and took an active part in various sports in his spare time. In order to cultivate her son's interest in writing, drawing and singing, she often practices calligraphy, learns to draw Chinese paintings in front of her son, sings with her son, and often participates in sports activities. At present, her son has a strong interest in painting, music, writing and sports.
Seven, close to nature, expand horizons and improve the realm.
Try to seize and create opportunities, take children out to travel and see the outside world. Usually, I often take my children to nearby scenic spots, parks or my hometown in the countryside, play games with them, take them fishing in the pond, listen to the birds and insects in nature, and go to the fields to see crops in spring and autumn, so that he can understand the truth that man and nature live in harmony.
Family is the cradle of children's growth. Parents are the children's first teachers, but also the children's lifelong teachers. Parents' teaching, words and deeds directly affect the formation of children's world outlook, and even affect their life. Parents want to cultivate their children into a person who is healthy in body and mind, independent in personality and balanced in all aspects, and is useful to society. Therefore, as parents, we attach great importance to the cultivation and education of our children. In addition to children's physical and intellectual development, we pay more attention to children's education and guidance in non-intellectual factors. With the development of science and technology and the progress of the times, parents' education for their children is a useful supplement to school education. The concept of modern family education has begun to penetrate into the hearts of young parents, and raising children is the most important thing. Many parents understand this. In the process of studying in parents' school, many excellent learning families and excellent children have emerged in our school, among which Wang Yunan, a student in Class 5, Grade 6, and his family are typical.
Wang Yunan, age 12, is an aggressive little girl who is strict with herself in all aspects. She is steady and lively and lovely. She is cheerful and has a warm and sincere heart. At school, he is not only the teacher's assistant, but also a good partner of his classmates. Over the years, with the careful education and constant encouragement of teachers, with the careful training and help of parents, they have achieved excellent results in all aspects through their own efforts. At present, he is the captain of the Young Pioneers in the First Primary School of Tieli Forestry Bureau, and has been rated as "three good students" by the school for five consecutive years. The reason why she achieved such good results is mainly from the following aspects.
First, attach importance to the growth of the child's mind and cultivate him to have a kind and grateful heart from an early age.
A correct outlook on life and world will affect a child's life. As parents, we can educate our children from an early age to respect teachers, unite with classmates, be ready to help others, regardless of personal gains and losses, and do our best to help those in need. For example, children can take the initiative to say hello and say hello when they see teachers and elders. When taking the bus, children can take the initiative to give their seats to the elderly and the disabled when they get on the bus. Remember others' help and learn to be grateful. As the saying goes, "A little kindness from others should repay a gushing spring", so that children can live in a warm and loving world and feel the joy of life. Of course, to do all this, parents must constantly shape themselves, overcome and correct their own shortcomings, constantly improve themselves, set an example, establish a clear concept of right and wrong and judge standards, and constantly enrich and practice the level of scientific parenting.
Second, pay attention to constantly cultivating children's extensive hobbies and interests.
In addition to normal study, children should also have a wide range of interests and hobbies. Only with all-round development of morality, intelligence, physique, beauty and labor can children's lives be colorful. With the development of science and social progress, the whole society, schools and families now pay more and more attention to children's growth and success. The "genetic consciousness" of "hoping one's children will succeed" has been vividly expressed in human beings. As parents, you can educate your children to be honest and upright first. Therefore, we attach great importance to educating children to be honest with others, to be modest and patient, to love the collective and to love labor. Start with small things and tell the growth stories of some celebrities and great men, so that children can understand some profound truths in a subtle way. At the same time, if conditions permit, let children learn more skills, such as speech, music, dance and so on. Cultivate children's wide range of hobbies and interests. In recent years, Wang Yunan has made many achievements in all aspects: he participated in the Spring Festival cultural performance of Tieli Forestry Bureau, won the second prize in the National Day speech contest held by Tieli Forestry Bureau, and won many awards in school speeches, dances and sports competitions.
Third, pay attention to the cultivation of children's behavior habits and good learning methods. An educator once said: "Sowing ideals in children's hearts will reap behaviors; Sowing behavior will harvest habits; Sowing habits will reap morality; Sow morality and reap fate. " Mr. Ye Shengtao also said that education is the cultivation of habits. "Less becomes nature, and habit becomes nature." Primary school is an important period for children's rapid physical and mental development and changes, and it is the best period for them to increase their knowledge and receive good moral quality and behavior habit education. As parents, they can pay more attention to the cultivation of children's behavior habits and learning methods while cultivating their good moral quality according to their age characteristics. Usually spend more time communicating with children, discussing the characteristics of different subjects, talking about their own learning methods and lessons, and constantly exploring and improving efficiency. Pay attention to the formation of children's learning consciousness, and ask children to do what they can from an early age. Get up on time in the morning, fold the quilt by yourself, do your homework consciously, take care of yourself, and learn to care and understand others. In addition, it is necessary to arrange children's spare time reasonably and often take them for outdoor sports and cycling outings. Holidays often take children to travel, which not only broadens their horizons, cultivates their sentiments, but also exercises their spiritual will. Because of his good behavior habits and scientific learning methods, Wang Yunan has achieved excellent results in all subjects since the first grade, and has been rated as "three good students" by the school for five consecutive years.
Fourth, pay attention to emotional communication with children and be their good friends.
Why are children so difficult to educate nowadays? Because children are so lonely now. Most children nowadays are only children. They have no brothers or sisters, and they lack friends who can communicate with their hearts. They grew up in their own lonely environment and didn't learn to open their doors to people. When children grow up, the task of the only-child education falls on parents, the nurturers. How can parents educate their children well? It is undoubtedly necessary to be friends with children. Innocent, as long as parents can give their children a childlike understanding, the children will respond with a sweet and innocent smile and never explain. So, how to make friends with children? First of all, we should be willing to put down our airs and stop pretending to be parents all the time. You know, we are neither slaves nor masters of children. To love children, we should respect them, treat them as an independent person, get along with them equally, and put ourselves in the position of children, instead of acting as prosecutors and commanders of children. Secondly, be brave in taking responsibility in front of children. Because a proper sense of responsibility is a sign of a family's mental health and a condition for harmonious coexistence. Third, when making friends with children, we should also be careful not to judge them and allow them to keep their own views and practices.
Respect your child's wishes, face up to his value, give him a sense of security for independent growth, and give him respect, understanding and trust like your other friends, and you will become his sincere friend and feel his happiness.
When children grow up, they need good friends to help them distinguish right from wrong and solve problems. As parents, you can always pay attention to your child's psychological changes. When a child encounters a problem, he will calmly find and analyze the cause of the problem with the child, find a solution to the problem, be a lifelong friend of the child, and accompany the child's growth. Their family has developed a habit since childhood. Parents spend some time with their children every day or even every week, or exercise, or go out for an outing, or read books, or play games, or make scientific and technological productions. Of course, every activity must set specific goals and tasks in advance. Over time, children and parents not only became friends, but also increased their interest in activities and improved their grades.
Five, actively cooperate with the school to carry out various work.
School is the main place to educate children. As parents, they can attach great importance to cooperation with the school, attend every parent-teacher meeting seriously, communicate with the class teacher frequently, keep abreast of their children's performance at school, objectively analyze their performance at different stages, patiently communicate and discuss with their children, praise their achievements and urge them to improve. Encourage and support children to actively participate in various activities organized by the school, which is also a good opportunity to cultivate children's abilities and interests. Sometimes I will delay my study because of my busy business, and I will not criticize blindly. Is to teach him how to make reasonable arrangements and strive to give consideration to both study and work. While educating children, we also constantly strengthen our self-cultivation, strive to be qualified parents and truly become children's teachers and friends.
No pains, no gains, hard training of parents and teachers, in exchange for children's academic progress, extensive interests, honest dedication to life, and pursuit of perfection.
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