But suppose, if you don't know how to strike up a conversation, what choice do you have now?
I really got to know you through an acquaintance, and found that you two have the same values, similar interests and are perfect. Her friend also told her that you are an excellent man, which increased her interest in you in vain. Besides, you are both single at the same time. ......
Wait!
How many times can this happen in an ordinary person's life?
I must admit, if we talk to strange women in the street, the success rate will be even lower. Let's not say that you need to make her like your present state, the sense of security brought by the lack of bridges between friends, and the possibility that you are a bad person ... It's just that this way of understanding is completely different from the perfect meeting in her mind!
But!
How many good encounters can you meet in life without chatting up? And how did all kinds of encounters begin in the waiting room and on the way to travel?
Chatting up is not everything, but those who learn to chat up can help you maximize your chances of meeting girls successfully.
Different from the ancient way of life, in the street, subway, work and other environments, modern people have a lot of opportunities to contact strangers every day. But this does not mean that the psychological distance is close. In order to better manage such a large number of interpersonal relationships, we have the concept of "intersection".