Mr. Jiang Yang once said that there are hard times in one's life. The pressure of life, the frustration of work and the pressure of study will all become a thing of the past. During this time, we all feel confused, anxious and helpless. That's because people have all kinds of desires and are stimulated and interfered by external conditions. When your ability doesn't match your ambition and you are hit by setbacks, you will feel anxious and confused.
1 Born in sorrow and died in happiness.
There are two and a half saints in the history of China, one of whom is Wang Yangming. It is said that Wang Yangming practiced calligraphy in his spare time after marriage. Originally, his calligraphy was mediocre from the beginning, but he actually practiced calligraphy with one hand and was superb and powerful.
When I was eighteen, I took my wife back to my hometown and met a man. He is originally unrestrained. After returning to Jiangxi, he began to change his old signs and became serious and dignified.
At the age of 22, Wang Yangming took the exam, but he was not sad after failing the list. On their wedding night, he actually disappeared. When he was studying the art of war at the age of 26, he quickly mastered the essentials of this technology.
Wang Yangming has too many unsolved mysteries, all because of a kind of psychology.
At the age of 35, because he offended the eunuch in Longchang, Guizhou, he was exiled to a deserted place and entered a barren land. On the way to climb the mountain, all his entourage were out of breath. At this point, Wang Yangming thought, if you want to go on this desolate road and settle down, you must stick to it no matter how hard it is. I will be in a better state of mind if I do and find out.
After painstaking practice, I understand that a person's nature can overcome any difficulty as long as he is not bound by selfish desires, integrates knowledge with action.
When a person feels confused and depressed in life, try to find something, find its meaning, and give yourself some pressure and challenges. Combined with modern psychology, when a person has unlimited potential in his heart, if he is always in a plain and comfortable life, he will fall into a state of indifference and feel bored. On the contrary, if he faces inevitable challenges and crises, he will devote himself wholeheartedly to them, and then his potential will be aroused.
The more confused you are, the more you have to do it.
Initiated by membership.
There is a saying: "The power of example is infinite". In fact, the change of mood depends on your own thoughts. When you yearn for the success of others and secretly swear to imitate others, in fact, you have not imitated their beliefs and practices. You just blindly imitate their behavior. The correct way is, when you encounter a problem, think about how to solve it when they face it, and you will know how to face it.
Learn from a gentleman and seek my heart.
What a gentleman does and pursues is a process of self-improvement and thorough self-understanding. So with this big goal, those little things won't disturb your heart. If you choose this road, the rest will only care about hardships and stick to it.
Cultivate a mentality of accepting reality, even if you are confused and anxious, and give up resentment and dissatisfaction with the world. As long as you can take that step, your feet are the next step.