The first state is that he has seen through the world of mortals and retired to the mountains and forests, and he has low requirements for material life, and his spirit is quite calm, and he will not be overjoyed and sorrowful. The proportion of such people is relatively small.
in the second state, these people are always dissatisfied with their living conditions, pursuing a higher quality of life, demanding themselves, constantly surpassing themselves and making special efforts. The achievements are also the highest among the four categories of people. The proportion of such people is also relatively small.
the third state, content with their current living conditions, free from external interference, has a high happiness index, which is also a minority.
in the fourth state, on the one hand, these people are not satisfied with their living conditions, on the other hand, they don't want to work hard, complaining that life is unfair to them and living a life of muddling along. The proportion of people in this state is the highest.
The following is just my personal opinion: If you can't be the first and third people quietly. How to ascend to the second state in the fourth state.
The book "Confessions of an Advertiser" shared in the morning tells us the following methods:
First, work hard, work hard again
Wang Xizhi is a famous calligrapher in the Eastern Jin Dynasty. He kept practicing calligraphy every day, and then he washed his pen in a pond near his home, so that day after day, the water in the whole pond was dyed black like ink. So people call this pond "Mo Chi" or "Xiyan Lake".
second: with quantitative change, we should realize qualitative change.
There is an inspirational formula: (1+1%) to the 365th power =37.7834.
The current learning level is "1". If you work harder by 1% on this basis every day, you will get "1+1%". 365 days a year, if we persist in doing this every day, that is, to the 365th power of "1+1%", the harvest in one year will increase from the original 1 to 37.7834.
the third method: walk with a master
a person's vision determines his height. The horizon can come from reading, traveling, treating people and other different ways; The higher the horizons of those who fight, the higher they jump, and the desire to walk with them arises spontaneously, and the life level is thus improved, so that they will not become shortsighted.