Attitude towards hobbies
What is your attitude towards hobbies? Hobbies are the best expression of human subconsciousness. Interests and hobbies can best reveal a person's inner world. Everyone has his or her own interests and hobbies, so what should be the attitude towards hobbies? Attitude towards hobbies 1
Every time we meet someone who has our own hobbies and has reached a certain level (from our own perspective), we can’t help but sigh: "Tsk, look at that person. What a talent, why didn’t my mother make me like that?” One day, we met a person who was very eloquent in speech, and we began to envy him for being able to tell the story he wanted to tell in an orderly manner under the attention of thousands of people. , and then I started to study the speech. On the first day, I had to learn the basic theory, which felt a bit boring, so I was not so interested. On the second day, I tried it for the first time. Repeated practice made you feel irritable, and I discovered the gap between reality and imagination. , some fell behind; on the third day, you thought, play for a while and then make up for it later, but the result is that you never looked back. At this time, you think that you are not very interested in this matter, and it is not suitable for you, so you just give up and stop thinking about it, and start to make up your mind to start looking for your "interest" again. Unfortunately, one after another you fail. Appearing one after another, you occasionally think back on these experiences of your own and can't help but sigh: "There are so many things in the world, why is there none that I am interested in and can do well? What is the use of my natural talent?" When sighing I fell asleep sad, tomorrow will be another day.
I hope this is just my state, not the state of many people. After seeing these words from the classical teacher, I finally began to think: What is interest, and what kind of things are I interested in? I have to say that I have always thought that interest is just a feeling, an existence that can maintain a long-term liking for something and keep oneself in a happy mood while persisting. Interest should be a particularly noble thing, something that can elevate the whole person to a higher level and stand out from the crowd. But when I thought about how those people we think have certain talents found their interests, I realized that interest is actually an attitude.
Interest is actually an attitude of discovery
Interest itself is not innate, but is the result of continuous exploration and discovery as people grow up. Whether it is the training of our parents or our own exploration after adulthood, we all long to have an ability that is inferior to others and can bring us an interesting and pleasant life, so we start to work hard in our own lives. Discover, feel how you feel about something. Perhaps, when you are feeling restless, you happen to hear a beautiful piece of classical music, which immerses you in it and calms you down. You enjoy this feeling very much, so you think you may be interested in it; perhaps, when you see you When your friend gets a lot of attention for playing the guitar at the opening ceremony, and you also hope that you can get that kind of treatment, you will start to understand the guitar and try to play it; maybe, you will find that other people's handwriting is beautiful, The same answer is several points higher than yours, then you will start to pay attention to your font, and enjoy the horizontal and vertical moments; maybe... in the constant attempts, giving up and starting, fortunately It’s when you finally find something that you finally want to stick with it.
Interest is actually an attitude of persistence
Slowly you will find that those people you envy who you think are talented actually spend their time outside of that shining moment. They all have a harder time than you: they are cultivating their interests when you are playing, they are studying when you are studying, they are eager to explain to their friends "I am going to practice" when you are chatting, and they are still busy when you are sleeping. I will ask myself to hold on a little longer.”
For things that can make you feel happy in an instant, it is actually impossible to maintain that moment of pleasure and become an interest. We need to persist to the end to see whether it is really our interest. Just like Lang Lang, who was once forced to learn piano, but now piano has become his biggest interest. Attitude towards hobbies 2
Almost everyone has interests. It seems very small, but it also seems very great.
Whether the interest is small or great depends largely on the attitude of the owner who owns it.
Some people raise their interest to a high level as another manifestation of the value of life, or directly use their interest to create another wonderful life.
It can be said that interest is a mirror that reflects the attitude towards life.
A person's view on life can be seen from his interest.
Which of the three types of people do you think has a more exciting life:
[if !supportLists] (1) [endif] People who only have work and no interests
[if !supportLists] (2) [endif] People who work hard, are interested, and can be compatible and increase value.
[if !supportLists] (3) [endif] A person who can turn various interests into work, be eclectic, always maintain enthusiasm for new things, and always be positive.
They should all choose the third type of person!
But most of us regard interests as accessories of life. It is dispensable and does not explore the deeper value of interest. We never face up to the meaning of the existence of our interests. Most of the results are: Even though this interest has great meaning and value, we still don't take it seriously.
There are so many interests that no examples are needed. Think about the people we meet, hear, and read through various media in our lives. You can see that the scope of interest is really broad. And people of different levels will have different interests and have completely different attitudes towards their interests.
Let’s give a few symbolic examples of success:
Bill Gates was admitted to Harvard University, but found that he was always obsessed with computers, so he dropped out of Harvard and worked in the computer industry.
When Jack Ma was working as a teacher, he discovered that his greater interest was in e-commerce, and this is how he came up with the story.
Chow Yun-fat is best known for his interest in photography. In addition to acting, his devotion to photography is also well known. Many of his photography works have won prestigious awards in the industry. .
Everyone who is more down-to-earth knows that the author of "Those Things in the Ming Dynasty" is Mingyue. Because I love reading history, I devoured history books after work. After a lot of hard work, I finished this work.
I also love history very much. I really set the bright moon as my goal!
Of course, there are many factors responsible for their success, but the most important one is their unremitting pursuit of their fields of interest.
Let’s go back and think about how we view our interests.
What do we usually understand by interest?
It is a spice of life and a way to relax after work, but it has no more meaning. Most of us stay at this level and have not thought about raising our interest to a higher level: "Interest is just interest, what else can we do". Interest has always been an awkward existence and has always been in a position that is difficult to locate. Almost everyone has it, but some people treat it like a guest, and some people sneer at it.
This embarrassment is the current status of interest for a long time.
From childhood to adulthood, the exam-oriented education we received has never given our interests a legitimate and fair evaluation.
Although the slogan of "moral, intellectual, physical, artistic and labor" that has been heard since childhood is still resounding, and it is also called "interest is the best teacher" in words, in fact, in addition to the development of " "Wisdom" - all interests other than those aimed at examinations are empty talk.
We all have similar experiences: when we were in elementary school, we were exposed to many interest classes and had a great time learning. In middle school, the atmosphere of interest classes became much weaker, and they were replaced by main classes from time to time.
In high school, if you still talk about interest classes, it will feel like a pair of eyes with flying knives shooting at you.
University has become more liberal, but there are very few people who can still be passionate about their interests. Usually these people are the successful people we see later. Many people develop interests in college just because they want to play, but they never think about playing it well. More people have no interest, or no longer have a greater interest in interest. If you say that playing games online is also a hobby, I can’t refute it.
What I find very strange is that when we are young, we try our best to let our children learn various interests, but as they grow older, when their children show a strong desire for interests, we try our best to curb them. The child's interest is motivated by affection, reasoning, and coercion and intimidation, and he uses all possible means to persuade him: he should study hard, make progress every day, find a good job in the future, and start a family.
Everything seems to be in a beautiful plan.
Therefore, the educational experience of school and family from childhood to adulthood can only make most of us keep our interests at a very low level. And as time went on, the enthusiasm dwindled more and more until it was gone. If interest still has a place during college, then after graduation and working, interest finally has no place.
“I’m exhausted from working and taking care of my children, so what’s the point of talking about my hobbies? I can only play Honor of Kings.”
This is why most of us have always been interested in Low-level reasons.
Because our mainstream consciousness never gives interest a correct status, our attitude becomes more negative. Let us always think that interest is just a tool. Once we use it, we will feel like "playing with things". We cannot live by our hobbies. We need to find a good job, start a family, and start a business. This is serious business.
When Han Han was going through the withdrawal procedures at school, the teachers asked him how he would support himself in the future. The young Han Han said that he would rely on his own royalties. Suddenly, the huge office rang with the words "Teachers, I think it's more like It was a curse-like sneer.
Later, when Han Han, one of the first successful writers born in the 1980s, was interviewed on a program, many older people debated with him. Finally, I remember two middle-aged women. What they meant was It seems to me that they said to Han Han with the greatest malice, "You must regret it, you can't do this."
I feel deeply sorry for these two middle-aged women, because Their debate with Han Han had obviously gone beyond the original intention of the program team, and it was more like hating and cursing Han Han as much as the teacher who applied for expulsion from school. .
The subconscious mind of people like them is: Can people like you make money? Can you become a writer without going to college? Why, I'm not convinced! Why don't I have this opportunity?
These are the values ??that our society continues from generation to generation!
Work hard and start a family. that's right! But we shouldn’t put our interest in the opposites of the two, as if water and fire are incompatible.
The two concepts of "losing one's ambition by playing with things" and "being better at work than diligently" seem to be worlds apart, but in fact it is difficult to distinguish them. "Being diligent" means "being good at work", which is the right way; "playing with things" means "losing one's ambition", which is the wrong way.
But what is "losing one's ambition" and what is "karma"?
Ma Huateng is a "professional expert" when he plays computer and develops Tencent. When we play computers, we are "lost". Is this fair? Of course, the premise is that your concept of playing computers must be comparable to that of Lao Ma to be qualified to say this! Attitude towards hobbies 3
What is the significance of interest in life?
I think it should be a positive attitude and a life value that can constantly accept new things and new ideas. Interest can make people interesting, and interesting people will have an interesting life. Because of interest, life has unlimited possibilities. Otherwise, your world and mine will be like the small white cloud seen by the frog at the bottom of the well. Many people are no longer interested. It is usually not that they really are not interested, but that they dare not or do not want to be interested anymore, because operating interests also requires time and energy. Once they encounter a small resistance, they would rather stay on the Moments and entertain themselves there.
And those who are successful almost achieve their lives because of their interests. Many people gave up jobs that they originally thought were good jobs, worked hard to pursue their interests, and gained value in life. Of course, this does not mean that we must give up our original life for our interests. These are two concepts. We must have a correct attitude towards our interests. This is what I want to express.
Let’s take a look at those people who have successfully transformed their interests into life value. How do they do it?
In addition to opportunities, it is nothing more than studying hard, constantly thinking, seeking breakthroughs, and finally sublimating the value of life (of course, some fields also require a keen market vision).
Only by doing this will you be a prepared person. When opportunities come, you will still be at home in another field and no longer have to worry about life.
People who have interests, we cannot just let our interests stay at the level of "interest".
We should regard our interests as another job and another manifestation of the value of life. You must study hard, discover problems, keep thinking, and solve problems. Being able to solve problems is a real success and will also be recognized externally. At this time, you will undoubtedly get happiness, and your interest will become fun. Once interest turns into fun, your journey on this road will become brighter and brighter, and finally it will sublimate to the interest of life - the interest of ambition, and also sublimate the value of life.
From this point of view, there is no difference between running a good hobby and running a good job. In this era of rapid development of information, opportunities are present all the time, and self-contained thinking is a person's biggest obstacle.
People who can manage their own interests well can also manage their own lives well.
If you have a good interest, you should not let it go to waste. Take it seriously and set a small goal to work towards! Maybe you will open up another life!