Watching for a poetic life
If you can live a poetic life, you will reap the beauty in the ordinary, allowing you to swim in the spring of life; if "life is less than a hundred, always cherish a thousand years" "Worry" will accompany you with bitterness and helplessness, leaving you wandering in the long winter nights.
For a long time, I was always in a hurry and doing things in a hurry. On the way through, the beauty of different states has been ignored again and again. This small town was once known as the ancient capital of the Five Dynasties. It is a famous historical and cultural city famous both at home and abroad. Its ancient beauty has kept many tourists lingering. And these beauties are often ignored, rushing back and forth on this road soaked in beauty. In order to finish those beloved words or official documents as soon as possible, so that those fresh news can be spread as soon as possible, no matter how the seasons change, the hurried pace never slows down.
Friends often say that my life is too rigid, even too stingy. Yes, in those busy days, I am often physically and mentally exhausted. In this day-to-day change, I inadvertently gain physical and mental aging. In fact, the more burdensome or boring the day is, the more space should be left for life, constantly nurturing the leisure in busyness, and restoring the colorfulness in life. In these spinning days, I thought, wouldn’t it be a waste to leave a blank space for life? I chose again and again and gave up again and again. Just like that, thirty years at the snap of a finger.
The seasons are changing, and the roles in life are also changing in the passing years. On a long-awaited spring day, I finally got my wish to have a leisurely time in life. Any period of time is like drafting a piece of text, which requires conception, design, and polishing. Life is a long river or a short stream, and truly leisurely days are always so rare and can only be counted on one's fingers. It's always so short, so short that people can't bear to count it in the sky.
Those friends who don’t meet often always greet each other when they meet, so what are they busy with? I said, grow vegetables, practice calligraphy, surf the Internet, write compositions, drink tea, chat, listen to music, and take a walk.
In spring, facing the dawn, you will be in a vegetable garden of more than ten square meters, watering, fertilizing, loosening the soil, and listening to the sounds of plant jointing and flowers blooming, which is a stretch for the soul. Grow up with Miaoer. Sometimes, I would rush to the square to practice calligraphy on the polished bluestone floor with my calligraphy-loving friends, and my mind would slowly relax in the uninhibited calligraphy. What makes people happier is to be on the Internet, browse the party newspapers and periodicals that you want to browse, look at the world situation, and be moved and proud again and again by the rapid changes in the motherland. For example, today, Jiaolong successfully dived to a depth of 7,000 meters, and Shenjiu will swim in space. My wife and I said that today’s two major events have attracted worldwide attention and we are gratified. When you are exposed to the wonderful literary supplements, you are intoxicated by the vivid words again and again. Inadvertently, a sense of delicacy and tenderness is added to the depths of your soul. In the leisure afternoon or while bathing in the night, I would drink tea, chat and enjoy friendship with my friends. Or you can be alone, with the wind, walking along the tree-lined paths, and many past memories will be reborn. Days like this make all my friends surprised and envious!
Pursuing a poetic life and leaving some space for life seems a bit luxurious and decadent in such a hurried era. In fact, leaving space for life is not a blank or a vacancy, nor is it a blasphemy against life. That period of leisure just nourishes the boring and monotonous life. Life is always full of variables. If you ignore the beautiful scenery along the way and neglect the leisure of life, wouldn't it be a bit presumptuous and rude in life?
Walking and thinking, walking and singing, long walks and short rests, may be a kind of great wisdom. Be more leisurely so that life does not lose its authenticity; be less hasty and make life more poetic. Sensual Life
Listening to "The Easily Wounded Woman" reminds me of my high school Chinese teacher. That was when I was the announcer of the school radio station. She was responsible for leading us and occasionally gave me some tapes. It was because of her that I first came into contact with this song. At that time, she had just graduated. Later, she got married, and then I went to college, and I never saw her again. I wrote a letter when I was in college, but there was no reply and I never met him again.
In this way, there is always some missing in my heart. When the song came to mind again, I thought of her again, a little sentimental and a little confused...
I am such a sentimental person, Because of a song or a scene, thoughts rush out like a flood.
My teachers, those years of studying, those people and things.
After working, I have experienced different environments and come into contact with different people. I will always think of some people at some point, although I can't go back.
I shed tears when I see flowers and feel sad when I see things. Listening to "Goodbye Youth", I think of the clips in the TV show "Beijing Love Story". I think of last year's November and him with two or three children in my belly. The little one who is only 1 month old is feeling the warmth on the expressway from Beijing all the way north to Qinhuangdao. Unfortunately, my dear is not with me for the time being.
Sensual life gives me a lot of colors and a lot of melancholy. Walking in the Rain
It’s raining, and the lingering rain is singing softly from the sky all the way, which brings a touch of joy and meditation to those who love rain. I have always liked Siyu's elegance, detachment and tenderness. then. I held up a flower umbrella and walked in the rain, listening to the rain with my heart, tasting the rain, and touching the lingering emotions contained in the rain.
Tick-tock, tick-tock, the splashing raindrops are like the beating notes on the strings, beating the umbrella surface rhythmically, the rhythm is crisp, sweet, lingering and soothing. It's like the lullaby my mother sang when I fell asleep with me when I was a child. The kindness and tranquility make me ecstatic. In an instant, the chaotic and restless mind returned to tranquility.
The city in the rain is filled with a fresh breath. Although passers-by are in a hurry, the flowers, plants and trees on the roadside look particularly energetic. I strolled to the garden path, and a lush lotus pond jumped into my eyes. In the lotus pond, the delicate lotus stamens were condensed, and they were full of flowers. The flowers are full of nectar, enjoying the refreshing breeze, and emitting an alluring fragrance. While concentrating, the raindrops slipped from the edge of the umbrella and splashed into the pool water, causing ripples on the water. A breeze blew by, and the weeping willow swayed gracefully. Countless pearls rolled down gently, creating thousands of styles. .
The drizzle moistens the flowers, and the drizzle makes the willows evergreen. Plants become more green after being baptized by rain. When people roam in the rain, their souls are purified and their body and mind can relax. In fact, there are many beautiful scenery that we have missed in the journey of life, maybe we have not discovered it, or we have no intention to stop. When we are busy with life, we often forget to appreciate the beautiful scenery along the way, and pass by too many exquisite things. Isn't it a pity?
Tasting rain, I realized that rain is a flowing poem, a fresh painting, and a cup of fragrant tea! A promise that is not a promise
We have walked through happy childhood, through the burning years of youth when we were separated more than together, through the wilderness full of weeds, and through the crowded crowds in the city. Walking all the way, watching all the way, walking all the way singing, walking all the way warm, walking all the way with passion blooming all the way, walking all the way thinking all the way, life is not waiting stupidly, it is the process of walking on the road, not the charming scenery in front of you, but The firmness of stepping on the soles of the shoes along the way, life is also a life of joy, and life is also a life of suffering. The years of bitterness and joy describe a journey without regrets.
Although I am not an excellent man, I am also an honest man who respects his friends, is sincere, and does things kindly. I am honest with my friends and tired of hypocrisy and lies. Believe that everything in this world is beautiful, there is no fraud or deception, only friendship and warmth, let true love float like white clouds in the blue sky. Just because when walking on the road, you will definitely meet some people by chance, and when you meet some people on the road, many times it is from strangers to meeting each other, from meeting to acquaintance, from acquaintance to knowing each other, and from knowing each other to falling in love. This is a simple but complex experience. , is also a process from complex to simple.
Meeting is happy, parting is painful, falling in love is sweet, but breaking up is sad. How many times I can’t see you, I feel at a loss and have no intention to write about it. Without the words of thought, the world is blank.
Beside the faded window, gaze at the bright moon in the distant sky. The cool breeze blows through your hair. You can smell the residual fragrance of broken branches in the yard. Take a deep breath of the flying loneliness. Perhaps there is only a trace of tranquility and calmness flowing in your blood. Everything is hidden in the heart, and there is still a ray of lonely impulse.
Whether it is a road encounter or accidental, our acquaintance is the fate cultivated in the past life. Both of us have experienced the cruelty and loneliness of "the sound of wind and rain at night" and "alone fishing in the cold river snow". Walking alone In the noisy crowd, you are looking for someone who can understand you, and a pair of shoulders that you can rely on. You don’t want a lifetime, but only a calm and peaceful life. Who would risk their limited youth on their own feelings? Original Relationships may not last forever, can accessories do the trick?
The stronger a woman looks on the outside, the more fragile she is on the inside. The fearlessness of you and me shows that we are all playing flutes and drums in the sun and are not afraid of the darkness of the night. They are all people who are unwilling to be lonely, and they are all people who will not follow the crowd. Even if you have had lingering feelings, you can't help yourself until the end of the love. Be nice to the people you love in this life, and you may not meet them in the next life. Beautiful scenery may only come once in a lifetime, and good scenery only comes once in a lifetime. You don't have to always let go of the hustle and bustle outside, as long as you respect your heart. I don’t believe that the shallow fate in the past life cannot be exchanged for a change in this life.
Although we live in the same city, we are not too far apart, and your requirements are not very high. Even if you find someone who can understand and rely on, it will not take too long, and it will not take too long. That is a lifetime. Although I also want to get warmth, I can't make any promises to others, which will cause them pain and sadness. Don't hurt the person you love easily. Men and women are not only responsible for things in bed, but also have responsibilities. If you don't pay, you will be hurt. Don't get it, men have been passionate since ancient times, it's just when they meet the one they love. There is no such thing as a person who is worth paying for.
People who have been hurt are always afraid that the feelings in front of them are fake or real. They hide far away and care alone silently. They pay attention to my words. They are the monologue of the soul. I understand a A person's heart can be read through his words. I will also be happy to be able to understand someone's heart, and feel grateful to have this acquaintance. Words are a release of emotions from the bottom of my heart, and the words I write with my heart every day will also warm your heart. This It has become a promise that I am not a promise to. Everyone knows the harvest of autumn, but who knows the desolation of fallen leaves.
I know that you have never gone far, you are just standing in a corner, watching me silently, and I stupidly almost said your name to let you read my words, It also allows you to feel this sincerity not far away, on the other side of the screen. I am also moved by your words; "If there is no you in this world, what else would I do with money and fame? These are meaningless to me. If no one in this world loves you, then I am dead." " Love and life must be managed
People must believe in their own talents and don't care too much about what others think or how others deny their right or wrong; in fact, a person's happiness is , is something that I have always pursued. As long as I feel that I am happy, it is worth it.
When two people are together, don’t think about whether the other person loves you or not, because love cannot withstand thinking. The more you think about it, the more painful the injury will be. One day you will find that love is really not that important. Because there will be many loves in your life, but there will always be only one person who will accompany you to the end. You will be hurt along the way, there will be some love, and it will become a dull painful memory. In fact, what really needs to be strong is not your shell, but your heart!
Those who are happy for your sadness are enemies; those who are happy for your happiness are friends; those who are sad for your sadness are those who should be kept in our hearts.
Only when you can’t break up the quarrel and can’t leave after scolding, can it be considered love.
Some people are very nice and you really want to fall in love with them, but you just can’t. Some people are not that good, but you just can't help but love them.
“If you love someone for a long time, your heart will be drunk; if you miss someone for a long time, your heart will be broken.
"It's very true, whether it's love or thoughts, in the end it's just a material for memories! All people can do is to bury it deep in their hearts and turn it into an eternal moment in life.
The so-called forever is the unreachable distance. I am standing here with the horizon in front of me and the whole decadent world behind me.
Sometimes, we are not waiting for anyone. Or something. We are just waiting for time to change ourselves.
Slowly, I also learned to let go. It’s not that I have changed, but that I am really powerless. It's moving.
Romance that doesn't belong to you is like a kite tied to a string. No matter how high it flies, it will fall when the wind stops. Feelings that don't belong to you are like holding in your hand. The sand in the heart, no matter how tightly you hold it, is at risk of passing away; the heartbeat that does not belong to you is like a clock that is wound up, no matter how long it goes, it will eventually stop one day.
I once thought. Without you, I don’t have the whole world, but now that you are gone, my world is still there. It turns out that losing a lover has nothing to do with the world; it turns out that I just couldn’t see the direction temporarily, or I was unwilling to move forward; it turns out that I just couldn’t see the direction temporarily, or I was unwilling to move forward; it turns out that I couldn’t see the direction for a while. , you hurt me, not because you are good or bad, but because I gave you the opportunity to hurt me. If I don't want to, no one can hurt me.
Some people just leave. If you don't wait, you won't come back. Some people just don't love anymore, no matter how hard they try, it's just in vain. Some people are very happy, and they spend a whole eternity together in the blink of an eye. Some people are lucky enough to hold hands. We have been together for a hundred years. Some people have tried very hard, but they still can't change anything... It's not a life-long thing, and you can let go without force.
A person can gradually mature. Why can I only become more cautious? I think it is because I am afraid of failure. I always forget my gains, but only remember all the setbacks. It destroys all my confidence. , until I grew up and no longer had the courage to take risks. I spent the first half of my life trying to become an adult, and maybe I should learn how to be a child in the second half of my life.
True love is not pure. Giving also includes appropriate rejection, timely praise, appropriate criticism, appropriate argument, necessary encouragement, gentle comfort, and effective urging.
Sometimes, I really wish I could fast forward time. , so you can see if the final result is worth it.
Beautiful things do not belong to those who wait and wait. Beautiful things belong to those who work hard and never give up.
This is my promise to you. Even if you forget, I will always remember it.
Be a gentle woman, not impetuous, not competitive, not concerned about flashy things. It's not that you don't pursue it, it's just that you don't force it. Live your life calmly, don't be dramatic, just seek peace of mind.
Because there is because, there is therefore. Now that it's done, why bother talking about it anymore.
Sticking to the promises you make throughout your life is love. Life is a series of accidents
Life is a series of accidents.
Don’t you know what will happen today? You don't know what the future will look like. You don't know who is waiting for you on the way forward, and who you are waiting for...
You don't even know if you have a tomorrow.
This sounds a little sad to say, but it is actually like this. There are so many unknowns waiting for us.
Many times, some things happen naturally before we have time to think about it; some people meet suddenly without our knowing it; some things suddenly disappear when we are still used to having them. Disappear; and some of the things you pursue wholeheartedly may have passed you by...
Life is composed of a series of accidents, including unexpected surprises and unexpected and unforgettable sadness.
Because of accidents and unpredictability, when many things happen suddenly, we will be at a loss and have no time to settle our fragile hearts.
This is life, a life that cannot be rehearsed in advance, and there is never the possibility of going back.
So in life there are always so many things that are too late, there are always so many unexpected things, and there are always so many lingering memories and thoughts hidden in the heart...
The so-called "life is like a play" is actually just because people arrange a series of life stories composed of accidents into a play for people to watch, so "a play is like life" may be more accurate.
Life! There are too many surprises that we don't know about. There is no "if..." and there is no way to go back to the past.
What we once had is actually as if we had nothing.
So, why don’t we greet and accept these accidents with a calm and quiet heart.
Face it with a smile...