in the journey of life, we often face important choices, forward, left or right? How to make the right decision? These are some of my thoughts to share with you. This is my compass, which leads me to the deep water and makes my life simpler and safer.
a self-orientation:
My dream? This is the motive force of life pursuit, which will change with time and environment.
the purpose of my life? Target?
who am I? My strengths, weaknesses and opportunities? Personality, ability and other factors, such as family and health.
what kind of person do I want to be? Ten years, 2 years later? Even to 6, 7? Your family, work, social relations?
what will stop me from achieving my goal? Is there any way to improve it? How to improve?
values, which is the most important? Which is less important? Which ones are not important for the time being? Money, family, health, career, power, status, etc. We often hear that health is exchanged for wealth when we are young, but wealth cannot be exchanged for health when we are old. Or we can buy a house with money, but we can't buy a warm home. This is everyone's choice of his own life.
2. Analysis of current situation:
On the road of life, what is my current situation? In marriage, family, health, finance, friendship, career, personal accomplishment, etc.
we may face these four cycles, no matter which theme.
- spring festival
- feeling tired.
- thinking about the way out.
- re-departure period.
Relocate: We are with ourselves, spouse, family, work, friends and community. Their distance and relationship with me? Which is more important? How much time are you willing to spend on it?
Write a letter to yourself. How does "7-year-old you" give "now you" a piece of advice? What's important? What is essential? How to Plan Your Life Editor's Note: The development of a country has a development plan, and a person's growth also needs a life plan. But different people have different goals in life and different ways of living. In this diverse and changeable era, how college students plan their own lives is a serious problem that needs to be calmly considered and answered by practice. Light up the navigation lights of life-Qi Yuanxun of Gansu Agricultural University has a proverb in the west: "If you don't know where to go, you usually can't go anywhere." When we are confused about the future, we should stop, clarify our thoughts and run ourselves as a company. See what advantages and resources you have, and where the future development direction is, then analyze the development trend of the market, consider how to match it, and finally formulate strategies to take action. After planning, how to act? In an interview, James pointed out that "2% of the time is used to deal with the urgent things at hand; And leave 8% of the time to the future to do important things that have no benefits for the time being but will be there in the future. " Therefore, we should pay attention to cultivating the qualities and abilities needed to achieve our goals in peacetime. University is the last threshold and the most critical period before stepping into society. In these four years, we should strive to grasp ourselves, establish ourselves from thinking, surpass ourselves in challenges, make clear the direction of struggle and lay the foundation of our career. Round, the philosophy of life —— Xu Jing, Taihu College of Jiangnan University, once said, "What is foreseen is established, and if it is not foreseen, it will be abolished." Without a goal, doing things will be a mess. I often hear my classmates say, "What a boring day!" Boredom is because there is no goal and I don't know what to do. At the same time, there is still such a phenomenon in the university campus-blindly applying for various kinds of entrance examinations. It is true that these certificates will add weight to our future job search, but have you ever asked yourself, "How valuable are these certificates to me?" There are many things worth doing in life, which need more precious time and energy. I once saw such a sentence in an issue of Reader: "Today's universities can no longer cultivate literary masters like Qian Zhongshu. There are machines that can only take exams everywhere! " I don't know why this writer commented on universities so indignantly, but it reflects some problems worthy of our deep thinking. For many people, going to college is not to pursue their dreams, but to be forced by fierce social competition. A person's life should be a circle, starting from the initial point and finally returning to this point. Many of us don't understand this. How to make life perfect, the key is to understand the philosophy of circle. Don't let people lose at the starting point-Lin Liren of Guangdong University of Finance must have a goal to pursue and let hope bring light. When others were shouting "depressed", I began to plan my blueprint: I got the CET-4 certificate in my freshman year, the CET-6 certificate in the first semester of my sophomore year, the BEC intermediate certificate and TEM-4 in the second semester, and I marched into TEM8 and BEC advanced in the first semester of my junior year, and I paid my tuition by myself within three years ... I am the daughter of the poor, with a low starting point, but it doesn't mean that I lost at the starting point. I work harder than others, that's all. I am a descendant of the poor, but I want to be the ancestor of the rich. So far, I'm on track to achieve my goal and running as planned. In the past year and a half, when my roommates played computer in the dormitory, I worked part-time and tried to gain knowledge. I have worked as a salesman and tutor, and I have met many enterprising people. I not only got the CET-4 and CET-6 certificate, but also actively participated in various competitions, such as English pronunciation and intonation competition, English calligraphy competition, women's 5-meter long-distance running and so on, and achieved gratifying results. In my opinion, everyone, especially those who come out of difficulties, should bravely fight against life, grasp themselves and win the future. Life planning should be combined with social needs-Li Yan of Guangdong Institute of Education believes that everyone has played jigsaw puzzles. Personal life goals are like the pieces in the picture. Only when they can find the corresponding position in the specific section of social needs can they be satisfied. Therefore, when we plan our life, we can't just consider our own needs. When it doesn't belong to the specific sector of social needs, it is difficult to achieve it in the big environment of society. Life is always in constant change, and social needs are constantly evolving. Therefore, we must also learn to grasp the pulse of social development. For example, from the trend of economic globalization, the state's emphasis on scientific and technological innovation and strengthening environmental protection policies, we should grasp the future development direction of society and take these factors into account when planning our lives. When we unify the "ego" with the "ego", we can finally achieve our goals. Give full play to one's own advantages-shaanxi university of technology Xu Jiliang Someone said: "Garbage is a treasure that is misplaced." Everyone has his own natural advantages and limitations. Successful life planning lies in maximizing one's strengths and avoiding weaknesses. When Einstein was in primary school and middle school, his lessons were ordinary. The teachers who taught him Greek and Latin were disgusted with him. They once publicly scolded him for being a loser when he grew up, and even tried to kick him out of school. However, he has a strong interest in mathematics, geometry and physics. With his advantages in these aspects, he eventually became a great physicist. Bill Gates was forced to drop out of school before he finished college, but he became the richest man in the world by virtue of his advantages and talent in computer. There are still many students with average grades in school, but they have made amazing achievements after going to the society, all because they have found and maximized their advantages. Examples in history and reality tell us that only those who are good at managing their own strengths can add value to their lives. Choice and Persistence-Jin Wenjuan, from the School of Management of Huazhong Normal University, faces many choices in her life, and the process of planning her life is also a process of making choices. Once the route is chosen, it is important to stick to it. To plan your life, you must change from passive to active, and plan your future while actively managing your studies. An active student should plan his future from the moment he enters the university. Many times, we find it easier to make plans, but it will be difficult to implement them, and sometimes we even feel confused. At this time. We need to learn to persist. When persistence reaches a certain level, success will come quietly. If planning is a lighthouse, we are boaters. Along the way, we can enjoy the scenery on both sides of the strait, but at the same time, we must make unremitting efforts to row forward. Enlightenment from an ancient philosophical proposition —— Xu Guangzhou of Heze University has a philosophical question in the west: Who am I? where i was from? Where am I going? This philosophical proposition will enlighten our life planning. Who am I? If people want to know themselves well, they must get rid of external pressure, such as parents' expectations, teachers' instruction, and future employment pressure. They should plan their future life correctly according to their hobbies, specialties and temperament in a completely relaxed situation. where i was from? There is no need to look for an answer from Darwin's On the Origin of Species. From a realistic point of view, we should look at our past objectively, recognize our knowledge level, knowledge and life experience, and give ourselves a proper evaluation. If we do this, we can face the status quo calmly, stop complaining about others and aim too high. Where am I going? It is to make your own life plan reasonably on the basis of truly understanding your own conditions and current situation. And can combine long-term planning with short-term planning, with long-term planning as the goal and short-term planning as the stage, from which we can approach the goal step by step. Editor's comment: A transcendence process of knowledge and action-Cao Fentian's talk about how to plan life seems abstract, but from the reflection and personal experience reflected by the students' contributions, we really feel that how to plan life is indeed rich in connotation and practical significance. In summing up the experience of life growth, Confucius said: stand at 3, be puzzled at 4, and know your destiny at 5. Many people who come over think that this reflects the signs of different stages of a person's cognitive maturity and the general experience of people's growth. However, in the face of today's new era and new situation, it is obviously not a simple question for college students to answer "how should I spend my life" and truly fulfill their promises, but a process of transcendence with people's growth. Knowledge is rational cognition. The goals, ideals and beliefs of life, grasping the direction, recognizing the environment, distinguishing right from wrong, seeking countermeasures and establishing oneself need to be chosen after rational analysis and judgment; However, behavior is a problem in the reality of noodle team. From cognition to practice, it is the realization process of the ability to treat and solve problems, and the choice is turned into reality. Planning and grasping life is the process of constantly surpassing knowledge and action and thinking of new goals in a cycle. This transcendence and climbing to new goals is a qualitative change of self-comprehensive quality. In fact, the four-year college life from freshman year also includes such a process. People often say that the tree of life is evergreen. Whether the pursuit of life can be integrated into the evergreen tree of life is a test of the success of life choice. While discussing how to plan life, we came into contact with the deeds of a number of social models such as Hong Zhanhui, Ding Xiaobing, Wu Renbao and Wu Mengchao. Wu Renbao, who created the myth of "field", said: "It is the greatest satisfaction of my life to make the people happy." Ding Xiaobing, a one-armed hero, surpassed himself and "built an arm with knowledge". Wu Mengchao's 5-year-old surgical career has definitely marked his fingers, and now he is 83 years old. From them, we have realized that the road of life should be planned in this way: planning with lofty realm and practicing hard. If they work hard towards the light like this, life will be full and happy.
I hope it can help you.