Why should I accompany him to socialize?

Text? Luo Xiaoshu? Music? Bloom

Editing? Luo Xiaoshu? Pictures? Baidu

I think women nowadays even have their own With a stable income, she would not like to socialize like a man. She would not like to accompany others to a wine shop or singing place where she does not know anyone, and go to the mist to be happy and happy. She also does not like to accompany her partner to socialize. Yes, women still like to be plain and quiet in their own life circles, but we cannot change the interpersonal relationships in this society. We also need to support our partners' careers. We must learn to be generous and be the safest support for our partners.

A sister asked me why I temporarily changed my manuscript because of my friend’s impromptu entertainment. Are you worried? I also asked myself at that time, am I really worried? Worried about your partner? Worried about the colorful world outside? Not confident? I don't think so. I replied with this message - Although flies don't bite seamless eggs, the person protecting the egg was too stupid, too panicked, and too hasty to drop the egg out of the crack. Who can blame it? In fact, there is no right or wrong, only caring or not caring.

My friend Xixi opened a small book bar with only five or six tables, but there are many books, an elegant environment, and the business is considerable. Xixi said that even her husband invested a lot of money in this small book bar. But her smile was full of gratitude. Xixi herself also likes reading very much. She spends her free time in the book bar. I think she is a literary and scholarly woman. I even think her mysterious husband is from a noble family, such as a painter or a calligrapher. Or a writer. I really envy her. She always looks bare-faced, and her every move, every frown, and every smile is imbued with a sense of Zen. She has a quiet and elegant mind, a happy family, and a harmonious husband and wife. The two of them live a poetic life.

On this day, I accompanied my friend to a high-end entertainment venue. As soon as I entered the box, I found Xixi. I was full of doubts, but she calmly held her partner's arm and introduced each other with a smile. The way she held up the wine glass and the smile in the corner of her eyes made me think for a moment that Xixi had a hint of prostitution. I secretly laughed at myself for being so superficial. The external world would always confuse me. Xixi was obviously a simple woman. I sat down to talk to Xixi, and I tried my best to break my eyes through the delicately made-up face to talk to Xixi who usually held a book. Finally, the topic of partners came up. Xixi said that her husband I opened a decoration design studio and was very busy at ordinary times. I also needed to sign contracts with major real estate companies for hard-decorated houses and some cooperation. Xixi told me that she lived a poetic life, but it did not help her husband's career, but her husband always supported her. As for her own hobbies, she was always worried when she saw her husband coming home drunk late at night. Nowadays, I accompany my husband to socialize occasionally, and accompany him when he has no choice but to get drunk. In the end, we all shook our heads, hoping that there would be less unnecessary entertainment in this society.

Maybe many people will ask, is it true that men can’t push for entertainment? In fact, socializing is an excuse invented by some opportunistic men to avoid responsibilities. When the truth is revealed layer by layer, those men who are really busy and hardworking for their families are also smeared for no reason, leading to a marriage crisis. In fact, communication is the first breakthrough in career development, and it is also very important. Real communication requires a suitable environment, appropriate words and deeds, and products that make you confident. This kind of communication is healthy and powerful and cannot be separated from the charm of your personality and your own efforts. And some men who happened to be wronged were such people. Later, they were involved in the "talking at the dinner table", "cooperating in the singing voice" and "true love over a glass of wine". In fact, he had no choice but to become someone you were suspicious of. Excuses are the cause of the breakdown of your marriage.

In fact, marriage is like a piece of prose. It seems that some trivial words are colliding and layered. There seems to be no ups and downs in the plot, and there is no conclusion. But you can read it again. , read it again, and you will find that it seems that every unrelated word you think is actually complementary to each other, and the misty emotions you think are actually surrounding one theme, that is love.

But you still have to write this piece of prose yourself. If you write it well, then you have to ask yourselves whether you are focusing on the same theme.

I don’t like to speak for anyone. I am even more willing to write more articles for women, but just because I am a woman, I understand how important love is to a woman, and love has nothing to do with everything. , I used to envy Sanmao and Jose, how beautiful and romantic their love and marriage were, but now I no longer envy any of them. The only thing I want to do is to write an article on this topic with my partner. His own prose, every word, every moment, complements each other in a subtle way, as if Xixi is willing to accompany her husband in the feasting, and his husband helps Xixi to open a book bar of his own mentally and even financially.

The story of a small book

I love words, I like to read some novels from the old era, I like to take pictures of some small surprises, I like to take pictures of some beautiful women, I think they are beautiful, Just have the most confident smile. I know you must have it, otherwise how could we have met.

:-O, we met, do you know who I am? I am not very good at chatting, but I like to make friends. Will you be willing to accompany me, a person who is not very good at talking? /p>

Joy and sex in an article, you are willing,

If you are not willing, how can you come.

Don’t think I’m verbose, I’m only verbose to the people I like,

Actually my name is Luo Xiaoshu, Luo means Shen, calm, low-key, the life I pursue Height, smallness, my little willfulness, little ninety-nine, little literature and art, little naivety, yes, I want to keep an ageless heart, even if I am fifty or seventy years old, I will make fun of you, so you have to be careful. Books, books, writing, books are temperament, books are plans. Each book is written with heartfelt insights, planning every step of life in the insights, and looking forward to every step. My real name is Li Mengyan, and Yanran in the dream is my own interpretation, and I hope that we will all be Yanran in the dream.

I am 21 years old. Some people always say that I have experienced a lot. In fact, I have learned to perceive. Perception is a happy thing, to perceive gains and losses, to perceive cause and effect.

Perception Love, perception meets, perception of me and you.